Marriage, a stable home/family of my own (2-3 children) living in a good area (preferably suburb) with an above average school system, a job that I enjoy and that values me, a few pets (adopted greyhound, samoyed, bombay cat?), easy access to my hobbies, comfortable financial state with enough money to indulge once and awhile, plentiful vacation opportunities, and above all a sense of confidence and security in my life and my choices.