try hentai (or porn if she's a normal person XD), candles, aphrodisiacs (chocolate, strawberries, etc) and maybe some mood lighting. Some soft music can make the night more romantic if that's what you want. sensual massages or any type of loving physical contact can work to make her more sensitive to romance, especially touching her legs, shoulders, hair, or face. ^_^ hope that helps. good luck, if you know what I mean *wink*
Well what you can do first off is start with a nice shoulder massage from there you move on to the.......It's hard to explain but you put your palm on her jaw line so that your thumps are behind her ear lobs and gently make little circles motions that........This is really hard to explain if I can't show you. Try to find a book about massages. The one I got was very detailed and talked and showed pictures of parts of the body females are most responsive to. I thought it would just make her feel good, but it made her feel really good.