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theotaku wrote...
SunQuan wrote...
Sadly single and likely to remain so. I'm incredibly picky and will never settle for less than True Love, so... Yeah. Gettin' old, now.Same.
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Was in a relationship with the same man, my ex-husband for a decade. He was my teenage sweetheart since I was 17 years old. He was my saviour and hero back then.
Now, in a long distance relationship.
Now, in a long distance relationship.
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mibuchiha wrote...
......single. .......single. ......single.gee i really want a gf but i'm damn picky so i don't think it'll be in any short interval until i find her.
plus, if i do find her, am i good enough to deserve her?
don't said that...if you're already find the right ones you'll know you are worthy each other
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Rin_Penelope wrote...
mibuchiha wrote...
......single. .......single. ......single.gee i really want a gf but i'm damn picky so i don't think it'll be in any short interval until i find her.
plus, if i do find her, am i good enough to deserve her?
don't said that...if you're already find the right ones you'll know you are worthy each other
I don't know about that, but as human beings, you are both going to be pretty flawed. She might not be fucked up in the same way as you, but you can be sure that you are "worthy" of eachother.
Also, probably shouldn't lower your standards, because you'll just end up unhappy in any relationship you are in.
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Dante1214 wrote...
Also, probably shouldn't lower your standards, because you'll just end up unhappy in any relationship you are in.
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elfen lied wrote...
Dante1214 wrote...
Also, probably shouldn't lower your standards, because you'll just end up unhappy in any relationship you are in.
exactly...been done to me...lowering your standards is the ABSOLUTE WORST THING you could do.
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gocanes7 wrote...
elfen lied wrote...
Dante1214 wrote...
Also, probably shouldn't lower your standards, because you'll just end up unhappy in any relationship you are in.
exactly...been done to me...lowering your standards is the ABSOLUTE WORST THING you could do.
Not the ABSOLUTE worst.
I mean, you could stomp babies to death. That would be worse.
But it would be a bad idea indeed.
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Dante1214 wrote...
gocanes7 wrote...
elfen lied wrote...
Dante1214 wrote...
Also, probably shouldn't lower your standards, because you'll just end up unhappy in any relationship you are in.
exactly...been done to me...lowering your standards is the ABSOLUTE WORST THING you could do.
Not the ABSOLUTE worst.
I mean, you could stomp babies to death. That would be worse.
But it would be a bad idea indeed.
you do have a point...that would be worse
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mibuchiha
Fakku Elder
Dante1214 wrote...
Rin_Penelope wrote...
mibuchiha wrote...
......single. .......single. ......single.gee i really want a gf but i'm damn picky so i don't think it'll be in any short interval until i find her.
plus, if i do find her, am i good enough to deserve her?
don't said that...if you're already find the right ones you'll know you are worthy each other
I don't know about that, but as human beings, you are both going to be pretty flawed. She might not be fucked up in the same way as you, but you can be sure that you are "worthy" of eachother.
Also, probably shouldn't lower your standards, because you'll just end up unhappy in any relationship you are in.
oh well...i thought of doing it, but i guess this is when advice come in. thanks, fellow fakkuza.
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I am in my single and never want to be in a relationship again. I am very shy around guys who arent my close friends. Well I met this guy who was so sweet and fell in love with him. But after the first month he changed completely I guess because he realized how much I cared for him or somthing. Anyways then he became a complete ass to me and didnt treat me right and so I wanted to break up with him but everytime he did somthing wrong he knew how to change it around to make me feel like it was my fault and make me feel bad so I couldnt leave him and I was scared to leave him. So I was miserable and with him for more then 3 years. Then he beat me up and finaly I knew what I had todo to leave him and so I left him without letting him know changed my phone number and everything and moved in with my brother. Him and my dad made the deal that I could stay with them and not have to pay rent or anything but I have to be going to school or working full time. Which is more then a fair deal to me sence I was already doing both.
But the moral of the story is its been over a year now and I am way to afraid now togo out with anyone so I just stay single and have fun surfing and stuff like that.
But the moral of the story is its been over a year now and I am way to afraid now togo out with anyone so I just stay single and have fun surfing and stuff like that.
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Kallen wrote...
I am in my single and never want to be in a relationship again. I am very shy around guys who arent my close friends. Well I met this guy who was so sweet and fell in love with him. But after the first month he changed completely I guess because he realized how much I cared for him or somthing. Anyways then he became a complete ass to me and didnt treat me right and so I wanted to break up with him but everytime he did somthing wrong he knew how to change it around to make me feel like it was my fault and make me feel bad so I couldnt leave him and I was scared to leave him. So I was miserable and with him for more then 3 years. Then he beat me up and finaly I knew what I had todo to leave him and so I left him without letting him know changed my phone number and everything and moved in with my brother. Him and my dad made the deal that I could stay with them and not have to pay rent or anything but I have to be going to school or working full time. Which is more then a fair deal to me sence I was already doing both. But the moral of the story is its been over a year now and I am way to afraid now togo out with anyone so I just stay single and have fun surfing and stuff like that.
Is it wrong that the first thing that came to mind was, "Probably shouldn't have left the kitchen?"
I think it is.
But the NEXT thing that comes to mind is that you probably should have gotten out of that relationship sooner.
But you also shouldn't let it ruin you for life. If you genuinely just don't want to be in a relationship ever again, whatever, it's your choice, but don't let some asshole fuck up your life.
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Dante1214 wrote...
Kallen wrote...
I am in my single and never want to be in a relationship again. I am very shy around guys who arent my close friends. Well I met this guy who was so sweet and fell in love with him. But after the first month he changed completely I guess because he realized how much I cared for him or somthing. Anyways then he became a complete ass to me and didnt treat me right and so I wanted to break up with him but everytime he did somthing wrong he knew how to change it around to make me feel like it was my fault and make me feel bad so I couldnt leave him and I was scared to leave him. So I was miserable and with him for more then 3 years. Then he beat me up and finaly I knew what I had todo to leave him and so I left him without letting him know changed my phone number and everything and moved in with my brother. Him and my dad made the deal that I could stay with them and not have to pay rent or anything but I have to be going to school or working full time. Which is more then a fair deal to me sence I was already doing both. But the moral of the story is its been over a year now and I am way to afraid now togo out with anyone so I just stay single and have fun surfing and stuff like that.
Is it wrong that the first thing that came to mind was, "Probably shouldn't have left the kitchen?"
I think it is.
But the NEXT thing that comes to mind is that you probably should have gotten out of that relationship sooner.
But you also shouldn't let it ruin you for life. If you genuinely just don't want to be in a relationship ever again, whatever, it's your choice, but don't let some asshole fuck up your life.
I edited out what I put because I put in what happend and I think its too much for this site. I will just say it was one of the worst days of my life and I got the crap kicked out of me while on the ground for droping my bike on his car by accident. So it is somthing I am afraid to have repeated. But I would still be interested in going out with a guy. I am just not going togo out of my way to meet one. I am just going to continue having fun and if a guy comes along I have fun with then he will be the one.
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Tsujoi
Social Media Manager
Kallen wrote...
I will just say it was one of the worst days of my life and I got the crap kicked out of me while on the ground for droping my bike on his car by accident.
Damn, well at least you're out of that relationship now.
Kallen wrote...
I am just going to continue having fun and if a guy comes along I have fun with then he will be the one.
Sounds like a decent plan.
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There was actully this guy I kinda fell in love with but then my family stoped me from asking him out.
I was at that fire training there was this really sweet guy. Like when we were running and I was new id fall back and he would take being yelled at by who is in charge to fall back and help me. He would always help me when I needed it and he was there to catch many the many times I actully passed out. Then when I told my family I wanted to ask him out they were like NOOOOO Never ever date someone you work with. WHich makes sence but sence it dosnt look like Ill be getting paid for it as a career for a few years. I am hitting myself wishing I hadnt listened to my family. But I havent seen him in a while so yea.
I was at that fire training there was this really sweet guy. Like when we were running and I was new id fall back and he would take being yelled at by who is in charge to fall back and help me. He would always help me when I needed it and he was there to catch many the many times I actully passed out. Then when I told my family I wanted to ask him out they were like NOOOOO Never ever date someone you work with. WHich makes sence but sence it dosnt look like Ill be getting paid for it as a career for a few years. I am hitting myself wishing I hadnt listened to my family. But I havent seen him in a while so yea.
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I am sorry for what I posted I should have never brought this stuff up on this site I just was thinking of some bad memories and I guess they got the better of me exept for the last post can you delete all the depressing things I put please anyone who has the power
At the same time I am kinda happy I posted it on here because its not adzacly a subject I can go talk about with people that are close to me and its really nice to get others opinions and get the stuff off my chest.
At the same time I am kinda happy I posted it on here because its not adzacly a subject I can go talk about with people that are close to me and its really nice to get others opinions and get the stuff off my chest.
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Don't double post.
But I don't think it was necessarily an error to post that here. This particular forum is about relationships, after all. And while we may be rarely serious, I don't think we'd really joke terribly about that sort of thing...
Unless you meant you thought it was a bad idea to say such personal things on the internet at all or something.
But I don't think it was necessarily an error to post that here. This particular forum is about relationships, after all. And while we may be rarely serious, I don't think we'd really joke terribly about that sort of thing...
Unless you meant you thought it was a bad idea to say such personal things on the internet at all or something.
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Dante1214 wrote...
Don't double post. But I don't think it was necessarily an error to post that here. This particular forum is about relationships, after all. And while we may be rarely serious, I don't think we'd really joke terribly about that sort of thing...
Unless you meant you thought it was a bad idea to say such personal things on the internet at all or something.
I double posted on purpose because I expected if they deleted the ones I asked they shoud also delete the one of me to delete the one I asked them to delete and didnt want them to delete the one I didnt want deleted
But you know I think very highly of this site and its weird for the kind of site it is because I used to do the forum thing on a nother site that wasnt even a hentai site or anything and if I said stuff like this or anything they would just laugh and make immature jokes and stuff about it... and if one person posted a serious answer it was like a miracle