Who would you go after... ?

well... I know it's a bad thing that just the old sayings

Honestly in real life I chose to keep loving the person I love without forcing my own feelings, I once go for the other choice but in the end it's hurt either me or the other person

sounds cliche...but it's the truth

But isn't the other person forcing their feelings onto you? So in the end, isn't the same mistake being made, just by different people?

Yes. Only this way you don't feel like the creep because you are being accommodating.
It doesn't have to be creepy to attempt to get someone to see the good in you.
It would be better to do neither.

i tried option A, totally smashed me and my emotions.

i tried option B, and it was wit hthis suicidal girl. smashed me up again, if not more, then option A.

i would go for option B again if the girl was not suicidal.but then the third option seems to work out best. but if a girl/guy really likes you, then why not go out with him/her? its hard to tell in the world of love. everyone is always unsure.

Because maybe you don't like that person?

Well its hard to force yourself to like someone who likes you but you dont like
but it is also hard to love someone you like but doesnt like you the best option would be find someone else but since this are the only options i would say the second one because you decide if you can like the person or not

I'd chose the second option but that's because i would rather change then try to force someone to change

I actually find myself in this kind of situation right now. I love someone who wont love me back and I have a friend who loves me but I don't feel anything for her. I always seem to end up spending time alone with either one or the other and this really isn't helping me. The girl I love knows about my feelings toward her but decides to ignore them and this makes me feel bad though i try not to show it. The girl who likes me also tries to make moves on me once in a while but I ignore her when she does but this just makes me feel bad because the one I love is doing the same to me. I could either continue going after the girl who doesn't like me back and leave the other girl to be lonely or I could go after the her and feel that I might have missed my chance with the girl I like since there us a chance that she might learn to like me in return.

Sounds like a True Tears plot to me, except for the little Won't love me back part

Anyways, from what I expereince and see, If someone loved me and I had no idea who she was or barely talked to her, I would give her a shot. It's worth getting to know someone else after all. However, if I did know the person, then I would stick with the one I love and doesn't love me back... After all we eventually all realize we need to move on. This is because, if she's a friend... and using friends just to make yourself feel better isn't right at all. Maybe in the long run it would work out, but it so wrong just to use someone who you're either friends with or someone you know as a substitute to your unrelquite love. If she can manage getting me interested in her outside of the relationship, I may reconsidered but I stand firm that unless I have some kind of romantic feeling for someone that I know and who loves me, then I won't pursue it.

The reason why I stand firm on this thinking is because I tried that before and over the course, I think we both realized that we were just using each other in some form or another. It's settled now, but I don't think she could see me the same way ever again for betraying her feelings.

i would keep trying on her. i tryed on one girl non stop and when she finally chose to try me back we became connected.

ALWAYS KEEP TRYING... unless she files a restraining order against you. then just give up.

i dont think id want to force someone to love me if shes just going to do it half-hearted nor would i want to love someone and hurt them since im just doing it half-assed and besides those kinds of relationship dont work out in the end.

3rd option wolud be the best, Move on and forget about the girl and fall in love with someone who youd love more than the first one.

i really follow my heart and would go after a person who didn't love me,because i love them and i would probably be so blinded i wouldn't notice if someone elsed like me.

man, this is a hard decision.

Its simple to me if I don't love the other girl then I can't bring myself to make love to her I mean maybe over time I might start to like her but I would have to completely forget about the one I love and I just can't do that.

both options sound pretty cruel, but I'd probably go with "the one who loves me but I don't love back". at least she'd have the chance of finding a little happiness, and the other option would make me just utterly disgusted with myself.

bleh, good thing there aren't only those two girls alive in the world. So I would say neither (I would consider a short relationship with the one that likes me).

I WOULD GO AFTER THE BITCH WHO LOVES ME BECAUSE IT IS EASY PUSSY

I would go for the person i love...than the person who loves me but i dont love...

I'd rather be hurt...than hurt someone...as they say "If youre never hurt, you never love at all..." in some cases though...

this line, applied in other way..."if s/he's never hurt, s/he never love at all..." so i'll go for one i love but don't love me back. i'll hurt her, and let her know love...8)