blahdeblah wrote...
shinji_ikari wrote...
perhaps it is , but honestly when your choices include working to death on a small farm , dying from malnutrition , or being left to die by your parents just to name a few working several years as a sex-worker who will be fed ,and relatively well taken care of ,and get at least in their minds a chance to help their family ,can you really say its among the worst ? I don't like or accept child prostitution , it quite frankly disgusts me , but who the fuck am I who has the ability to live comfortably ,and has government programs that will aid me if I ever reach this level of desperation , to judge them ? Its a shitty world we live in ,and sometimes the best we can hope for is a shitty situation
Essentially what you're saying is because it's not the worst thing that could happen to a child, it's a-ok for it to go on and well, who are you to hope for social change?
You have every right to judge their situation. Not them, no, their situation, yes. I would love to believe that everyone enters the sex trade willingly and through sound judgement but that's just not the case, sorry. Also economic duress does not = willingly and with sound judgement to me. I also hold the believe that a pre-pubescent child will never be able to make that decision properly.
Look, at the end of the day I'm a realist. I know it's not all foreigners preying on 8 year olds chained to beds, and I accept prostitution as a viable means of commerce WHEN DONE RIGHT. But therein lies the problem, how do you protect and regulate the child and their rights? Certainly not by saying hey, your life sucks. OH WELL! MORE POWER TO YA!
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Sorry if I come off rude or patronizing. >_> just... you know, kind of heated.
hey now...never said I thought it was a ok ..in fact I clearly said it disgusts me , and I was only trying to point out the fact that their are two sides to the matter ,we consider it wrong because morally to US it is horrible ,and unimaginable , but not so much in the countries where it may occur..and who am I to impose what I think is right on another group of people ? The Catholic Church ? no wait they touch little boys...anyway , sure the child may not be able to make sound judgement , but they same can be said of an adult in a similar situation ,who is half starving ,and fearing for the lives of their loved ones...and your right how do you regulate child rights..but you can apply that logic on any other job they'd be forced to engage in realisticly in the environment they live in (hard labor , drug traffic, stealing , etc) I don't approve of it , and Im not saying we should ignore it ,but at the same time I realize imposing our morals ,and laws on the situation will do little to help it,and that the true evil lies in the corrupt governments that do nothing to really solve the problem ,and just push blame on the issue...their really is no RIGHT way to do things when it involves children in these situations, but when every penny earned ,and lost can make the difference between a meal , a roof over head , or even clean water , it becomes difficult to not include the children into the equation....well whatever just saying what I had in my head , doesn't make it true ,and no worries you didn't come off as rude , you just stated your opinion strongly no harm in that , besides this is an open discussion , not a rant I pulled out of my ass...you can say whatever you feel like long as its on topic lol