Ziggy wrote...
Quite honestly, I don't see where coming out while on active duty has it's priority. You're not hooking up with people, you're putting your life on the line to serve your country. The way I see it, if a homosexual wants to serve that's absolutely fine, and the way I see it - the military allows it.
They just don't want to hear about it. Why? Because it's not the time or place. Sure, there are people who don't like homosexuals, there are people who find it wrong - but it's not the time or place to speak of that either.
There's absolutely no necessity out of having you check a "sexuality" box. 10 years now we'll struggle having trans gender wanting to enlist with getting the same amount of respect as every other man/woman. That's great, however don't make it the focus - you're not going into the military to be different, to stand out, to make sure people respect you for who you are. You're going in there with a responsibility =\
Polls were already done and half if not more military personnel didn't even care, or would be fine with removing the policy so why this is a huge issue is beyond me. It's all about politics.
You took the words right out of my mouth. I don't think anyone cares if your gay when your the one protecting their back. However, I don't think they want to hear about it either. It isn't anything but politics as even after this I doubt any military personal are going to celebrate in the streets and start proposing to one another during military parades.
The idea was a good one, we wont ask you if you're gay, and you don't tell people if you are.