ultenth wrote...
I'll never be able to understand that crap. I'd never stay with a girl that thought it was okay to disrespect me in that manner. Throwing things at me, or especially spitting or anything like that, I don't get it. I've had it happen to some of my friends, but I've never actually experienced it first-hand. My brother actually dated a girl for a while that spit on him and threw shit at him all the time.
i concur... somewhat. what you have to understand is that devotion is sometimes blinded by incomprehensible emotion, sometimes its hard to distinguish friend and foe. ive only had this happen once in my life but to be blunt, emotions are a force to be reckoned with. i agree that you should never injure or disrespect your significant other intently, (unless they like that ;o lol) but if a bad day just keeps escalating someone could be a hair-trigger away from completely blowing up on someone, anyone. i could only imagine having a day like that on a period, but i would think she would appologize afterwards. in short, i might take it once or twice when its reasonable. after that i agree completely, theres no reason to express your anger on that person.
this thread reminds me of a funny dating service post a website had where some mods answered questions on an interactive dating game for the sole reason of getting a laugh. the question was:
"tell me one thing about yourself that would turn me off."
and the guy, nicknamed jizmopper, responded:
"i hit woman during sex and not during sex."
hahaha