How Would You Prefer To Be Identified?
How would you prefer to be Identified?
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I'm posting a link to another thread so people can understand where I'm coming from.
"The Slut Movement-Should it be allowed?"
Please head to the other thread first before you post.
This kinda opens up so many questions about women's rights and how women should be respected, and considering that I was raised by my mother and sisters (yet managed to come out straight), it made it difficult for me to comprehend how women that want to wear whatever they want and at the same time ask to be respected.
I'm not speaking for every man nor am I speaking on behalf of women everywhere, but I find it easier to respect a woman that dresses like she should be respected. Sure, I like big tit's and a nice ass on a woman, but how does that translate when that same women is asking to be respected for who she is, and not what her body is? Sure, I can understand if you want to show a little skin to draw the eyes of a man/men, but do it in moderation.
EDIT: Before people begin to become confused about why I have 'By My Body' and 'By My Clothes' as two different options, it's because of the stereotypes that follow both. Example (for body): If a girl is chunky, she eat's too much. If a girl is too skinny, she eats too little.
"The Slut Movement-Should it be allowed?"
Please head to the other thread first before you post.
This kinda opens up so many questions about women's rights and how women should be respected, and considering that I was raised by my mother and sisters (yet managed to come out straight), it made it difficult for me to comprehend how women that want to wear whatever they want and at the same time ask to be respected.
I'm not speaking for every man nor am I speaking on behalf of women everywhere, but I find it easier to respect a woman that dresses like she should be respected. Sure, I like big tit's and a nice ass on a woman, but how does that translate when that same women is asking to be respected for who she is, and not what her body is? Sure, I can understand if you want to show a little skin to draw the eyes of a man/men, but do it in moderation.
EDIT: Before people begin to become confused about why I have 'By My Body' and 'By My Clothes' as two different options, it's because of the stereotypes that follow both. Example (for body): If a girl is chunky, she eat's too much. If a girl is too skinny, she eats too little.
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I prefer to be judged by what I have done, not by appearances or material possession.
OT: Um... it's not being a slut , it's just being more expressive in a sexual manner. All fine with me, I really don't care, just don't have people who look ridiculous wear sh*t like that.
OT: Um... it's not being a slut , it's just being more expressive in a sexual manner. All fine with me, I really don't care, just don't have people who look ridiculous wear sh*t like that.
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I would much rather prefer to be recognized by my deeds than the appearance of my clothing.
However, I really think that sometimes what you wear or what your appearance is shows what you do and your attitude towards it.
According to the OP's post,
On the body option, if a ridiculously obese woman was walking on the street, would you judge? I would. Yes, MAYBE she has genetic problems or some kind of illness, but I mean what are the chances that EVERY obese person you see is fat because they can't do anything about it? If people who don't have any significance want respect, they must at least show that they are worthy. I mean, if you don't even respect yourself, why the FUCK should I respect you?
Same thing for clothing, if some females don't even respect themselves, why should I? If you think this is sexist, think again. You see girls wearing a mini-skirt with panties showing right out, put that in a men's situation, it's like somebody's walking on the street with speedos. Personally, I would find it extremely difficult to respect a person walking on the street having their scrotum swinging around half-visibly.
And I don't think I need to say much for deeds. I would say it's not rocket science to tell what a person is like from what they do.
However, I really think that sometimes what you wear or what your appearance is shows what you do and your attitude towards it.
According to the OP's post,
but I find it easier to respect a woman that dresses like she should be respected.
On the body option, if a ridiculously obese woman was walking on the street, would you judge? I would. Yes, MAYBE she has genetic problems or some kind of illness, but I mean what are the chances that EVERY obese person you see is fat because they can't do anything about it? If people who don't have any significance want respect, they must at least show that they are worthy. I mean, if you don't even respect yourself, why the FUCK should I respect you?
Same thing for clothing, if some females don't even respect themselves, why should I? If you think this is sexist, think again. You see girls wearing a mini-skirt with panties showing right out, put that in a men's situation, it's like somebody's walking on the street with speedos. Personally, I would find it extremely difficult to respect a person walking on the street having their scrotum swinging around half-visibly.
And I don't think I need to say much for deeds. I would say it's not rocket science to tell what a person is like from what they do.
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"By Who I Am as a Person"
I think the beliefs, attitude and psyche are the best choices for evaluating anyone. Although I think physique should also be important. However, clothing should not be a problem. Of course, as long as it doesn't have some sort of hate speech like "Don't like this? Fuck off" or have a shirt that wears a swastika.
I think the beliefs, attitude and psyche are the best choices for evaluating anyone. Although I think physique should also be important. However, clothing should not be a problem. Of course, as long as it doesn't have some sort of hate speech like "Don't like this? Fuck off" or have a shirt that wears a swastika.
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Everything, I usually identify people with they way they look and the clothes they usually wear because from behind you can't always tell their character. Sometimes I do identify people by their habits. But if it's just out on the street, I'd identify a random person through their clothes and body because that's all that's presented to me. First impressions ya know? If a person dresses like a whore and looks/acts like one, chances are he/she is one. Those bloody women should go to Italy and see those old men walking around in speedos.
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" All of the above"
My body, my clothing, and my personality are all reflections of my personal charecter. Though I would'nt want any one identifying me from just one of those catagories.
My body, my clothing, and my personality are all reflections of my personal charecter. Though I would'nt want any one identifying me from just one of those catagories.
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Would like to be identified by who I am as a person. Some people have felt sorry for me because of the fact that I have a trach (think Superman actor) and sound like Donald Duck, Smeagol, etc., they also thought that maybe I was a little slow or needed extra help. I understand about first impressions and all which I'm fine with. I also understand about not wanting to be "rude" persay, but I find it more offensive when people just stare and point instead of politely asking.
As the adage goes, "Don't judge a book by it's cover."
As the adage goes, "Don't judge a book by it's cover."
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I wish to be judged by my actions. My attire is merely an expression of personal taste, which is separate from my morals, beliefs, and personality traits. The truth is, I dress to please myself. If I look in the mirror and feel pretty, that's good enough for me. I don't need to look sexy to feel sexy.
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Everyone may wish to identified however they want, but that not how the real world works.
First impressions have massive impact on how you're identified by others and whether people like it or not it's mostly by appearance.
Women that will dress like sluts will be treated as such until proven otherwise, which will be hard if possible.
To give a slightly extreme example of similar scenario, if I were to go to make a withdraw from a bank and wore stockings/ski mask on my head I would be dropped flat in seconds. How reasonable of me would it be to say, "I might choose to wear that, but I'm not a robber!", afterwards?
If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck and looks like a duck, it must be a duck.
First impressions have massive impact on how you're identified by others and whether people like it or not it's mostly by appearance.
Women that will dress like sluts will be treated as such until proven otherwise, which will be hard if possible.
To give a slightly extreme example of similar scenario, if I were to go to make a withdraw from a bank and wore stockings/ski mask on my head I would be dropped flat in seconds. How reasonable of me would it be to say, "I might choose to wear that, but I'm not a robber!", afterwards?
If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck and looks like a duck, it must be a duck.
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My character.
Wanna know why, I hate the status you need to keep by constantly changing your clothing, appearance, hair and sometimes even conceal the most beautiful parts of you inside.
I need no title or a nickname based on these irrelevant things.
I only have my spirit that I will become after death and depart into another world, because these things stay on Earth and die with it once it's all over.
But nonetheless a very important topic, respect.
Wanna know why, I hate the status you need to keep by constantly changing your clothing, appearance, hair and sometimes even conceal the most beautiful parts of you inside.
I need no title or a nickname based on these irrelevant things.
I only have my spirit that I will become after death and depart into another world, because these things stay on Earth and die with it once it's all over.
But nonetheless a very important topic, respect.
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I think, I want to be identified by means of personality and my Presence.
Respecting others is very important. as much as possible, people would give you what you deserve.
so if you give them respect, then they would likely to return it.
Respecting others is very important. as much as possible, people would give you what you deserve.
so if you give them respect, then they would likely to return it.
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FinalBoss
#levelupyourgrind
I prefer to be identified by my behavior rather than body and clothing. Not really saying much though since I'm a boring introvert irl.
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I believe that all 3 count, although personality matters the most I wouldnt even look in a book in the library that looks like a freaking dictionary.
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Data Zero
Valkyrie Forces CO
I wish to be indentified as a person who i am. But as world shows constantly, looks matter more. Fuck the world sometimes.
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All of them, because all of them show who you are as a person.
Unless it is a case of some disease (which is not common), why else would a fat person be fat if not eating too much? There's simply no other way to be fat. Its not really a wrong stereotype.
If a girl is chunky, she eat's too much.
Unless it is a case of some disease (which is not common), why else would a fat person be fat if not eating too much? There's simply no other way to be fat. Its not really a wrong stereotype.
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By who I am as a person.
If a nice guy was fat, then became skinny, he would still be nice wouldn't he?
Thats my reasoning. Also, I have nothing that I truly like in my physical appearance, and I wear practical cloths with tons of pockets, warm, resistant, and preferably not of any bright color.
On the other hand I am proud of my hobbies, my accomplishments and my caracter. So I would like to be identified as such: roleplaying geek with a tendency to talk to himself.
If a nice guy was fat, then became skinny, he would still be nice wouldn't he?
Thats my reasoning. Also, I have nothing that I truly like in my physical appearance, and I wear practical cloths with tons of pockets, warm, resistant, and preferably not of any bright color.
On the other hand I am proud of my hobbies, my accomplishments and my caracter. So I would like to be identified as such: roleplaying geek with a tendency to talk to himself.
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By who I am as a person.
Though, I'm a horrible and cruel person. I don't think anyone will like that.
Though, I'm a horrible and cruel person. I don't think anyone will like that.
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Fadetoblack wrote...
I'm posting a link to another thread so people can understand where I'm coming from."The Slut Movement-Should it be allowed?"
Please head to the other thread first before you post.
This kinda opens up so many questions about women's rights and how women should be respected, and considering that I was raised by my mother and sisters (yet managed to come out straight), it made it difficult for me to comprehend how women that want to wear whatever they want and at the same time ask to be respected.
I'm not speaking for every man nor am I speaking on behalf of women everywhere, but I find it easier to respect a woman that dresses like she should be respected. Sure, I like big tit's and a nice ass on a woman, but how does that translate when that same women is asking to be respected for who she is, and not what her body is? Sure, I can understand if you want to show a little skin to draw the eyes of a man/men, but do it in moderation.
EDIT: Before people begin to become confused about why I have 'By My Body' and 'By My Clothes' as two different options, it's because of the stereotypes that follow both. Example (for body): If a girl is chunky, she eat's too much. If a girl is too skinny, she eats too little.
I like being identified by my personality. Hearing there's that asshole by my friends and girlfriend makes me chuckle for some reason. Probably because there's not a better word to describe me..
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YoungSimba wrote...
Fadetoblack wrote...
I'm posting a link to another thread so people can understand where I'm coming from."The Slut Movement-Should it be allowed?"
Please head to the other thread first before you post.
This kinda opens up so many questions about women's rights and how women should be respected, and considering that I was raised by my mother and sisters (yet managed to come out straight), it made it difficult for me to comprehend how women that want to wear whatever they want and at the same time ask to be respected.
I'm not speaking for every man nor am I speaking on behalf of women everywhere, but I find it easier to respect a woman that dresses like she should be respected. Sure, I like big tit's and a nice ass on a woman, but how does that translate when that same women is asking to be respected for who she is, and not what her body is? Sure, I can understand if you want to show a little skin to draw the eyes of a man/men, but do it in moderation.
EDIT: Before people begin to become confused about why I have 'By My Body' and 'By My Clothes' as two different options, it's because of the stereotypes that follow both. Example (for body): If a girl is chunky, she eat's too much. If a girl is too skinny, she eats too little.
I like being identified by my personality. Hearing there's that asshole by my friends and girlfriend makes me chuckle for some reason. Probably because there's not a better word to describe me..
I know that feel bro.