How Would You Prefer To Be Identified?
How would you prefer to be Identified?
0
All of them. Mostly because I like to feel comfortable when I meet people, so I make an effort. If I don't like someones personality though, their body and how they dress is insignificant.
0
As romantic as saying my personality or heart or mind would be, I say it would have to be by my clothes and my body.
Getting told crap day in and day out to finnaly budge and update my fassion/work on my appearance and just get told some "it's inside whats counts" BS after all that? Hell no.
Not to even go into the duck or look things.
Looks like a good kid, lets give him a job. Look a little rugged, lets let him work hard.... Ect.
Un-fortunately I lack words to express my feelings for the subject....
Getting told crap day in and day out to finnaly budge and update my fassion/work on my appearance and just get told some "it's inside whats counts" BS after all that? Hell no.
Not to even go into the duck or look things.
Looks like a good kid, lets give him a job. Look a little rugged, lets let him work hard.... Ect.
Un-fortunately I lack words to express my feelings for the subject....
0
I leave no witness. that way i can never be identified.
i refuse to give a serious answer and abstain from the poll because this whole subject is ridiculous and not worthy of serious discussion.
i refuse to give a serious answer and abstain from the poll because this whole subject is ridiculous and not worthy of serious discussion.
0
Fadetoblack wrote...
it made it difficult for me to comprehend how women that want to wear whatever they want and at the same time ask to be respected. I'm not speaking for every man nor am I speaking on behalf of women everywhere, but I find it easier to respect a woman that dresses like she should be respected.
I've noticed anytime a woman is told to respect themselves/act respectfully it is usually code for saying they shouldn't be too sexual, either through clothing and/or behavior. But i never hear guys told this.
My question is way is acting sexually seen as a sign of a women disrespecting themselves, when guys are pretty never told not to be too sexual. This isn't meant to insult you Fadetoblack, it is just a trend i've seen that really bothers me
And personally, i judge people based on how they act, not what they wear or what they look like.
0
Mr.Shaggnificent wrote...
I leave no witness. that way i can never be identified. i refuse to give a serious answer and abstain from the poll because this whole subject is ridiculous and not worthy of serious discussion.
Then why the fuck did you post. Please google Jackie chan meme and look at it.
0
YoungSimba wrote...
Mr.Shaggnificent wrote...
I leave no witness. that way i can never be identified. i refuse to give a serious answer and abstain from the poll because this whole subject is ridiculous and not worthy of serious discussion.
Then why the fuck did you post. Please google Jackie chan meme and look at it.
Mr.Shaggnificent wrote...
[...]because this whole subject is ridiculous and not worthy of serious discussion.
0
Mr.Shaggnificent wrote...
YoungSimba wrote...
Mr.Shaggnificent wrote...
I leave no witness. that way i can never be identified. i refuse to give a serious answer and abstain from the poll because this whole subject is ridiculous and not worthy of serious discussion.
Then why the fuck did you post. Please google Jackie chan meme and look at it.
Mr.Shaggnificent wrote...
[...]because this whole subject is ridiculous and not worthy of serious discussion.Please elaborate further on why it's ridiculous.based on your mmmorpg thread you have little room to be saying what's ridiculous and what isn't.
0
Black Jesus JC wrote...
Fadetoblack wrote...
it made it difficult for me to comprehend how women that want to wear whatever they want and at the same time ask to be respected. I'm not speaking for every man nor am I speaking on behalf of women everywhere, but I find it easier to respect a woman that dresses like she should be respected.
I've noticed anytime a woman is told to respect themselves/act respectfully it is usually code for saying they shouldn't be too sexual, either through clothing and/or behavior. But i never hear guys told this.
My question is way is acting sexually seen as a sign of a women disrespecting themselves, when guys are pretty never told not to be too sexual. This isn't meant to insult you Fadetoblack, it is just a trend i've seen that really bothers me
And personally, i judge people based on how they act, not what they wear or what they look like.
I understand your point, which is why society needs to rid itself of double-standards, but think; you're a man (I assume from your avatar anyway). What do we have that we can wear and remotely be called sexy (aside from thongs and man-kinis)? Some women think a guy is sexy based off of looks an his muscle tone. I really can't think of any clothing a guy can wear that can be as revealing as much as women have it.
Spoiler:
Simba, don't go picking fights. He's free to post what he wants as long as he doesn't try to call someone out intentionally.
0
I like to be identified as the person I am, but surely your looks and the clothes you choose to wear (assuming you dress yourself)are also crucial parts of your being. Everyone should realise that looks are part of a person and what you wear is also your choice, although not necessarily reflective of personality.[size=12][/h]
0
By who I am as a person.
I personally couldn't care less about fashion and whatnot. I dress according to what I know looks nice on me. Now, if you think just because you dress in the latest trend you're automatically better than people who don't, there is going to be a lack of respect for you. No, I shouldn't say lack of respect. I just won't care. I rarely ever judge people outside of their personality. Many people recognize me not for who I am though, they recognize me by the fact that I wear two pairs of headphones. Once they get to know me a little though, that of course changes.
I absolutely agree with Heizan on this point.
First impressions have massive impact on how you're identified by others and whether people like it or not it's mostly by appearance.
This is also true. I remember I was in Colorado maybe 2 years ago having lunch, when this girl walked by. She was wearing clothing I've only seen in porn. Huge V top, super tight which seemed to be made of some sort of elastic material or something, hot pink, and her skirt barely reached the bottom of her ass. For all I know she could have been a porn star on the way to work.
Was I thinking about respect? Obviously not. I was thinking actually that she must be rather desperate to dress to that level like that in public. She is free to dress as she likes, but she should also have some respect towards the community. I like the Japanese rule of avoiding meiwaku--being a nuisance of others. It's like the opposite of our Golden Rule here. Do not do to others what you would not done to you.
I personally couldn't care less about fashion and whatnot. I dress according to what I know looks nice on me. Now, if you think just because you dress in the latest trend you're automatically better than people who don't, there is going to be a lack of respect for you. No, I shouldn't say lack of respect. I just won't care. I rarely ever judge people outside of their personality. Many people recognize me not for who I am though, they recognize me by the fact that I wear two pairs of headphones. Once they get to know me a little though, that of course changes.
Heizan-Tr5 wrote...
...I mean, if you don't even respect yourself, why the FUCK should I respect you? I absolutely agree with Heizan on this point.
PCheaf wrote...
Everyone may wish to identified however they want, but that not how the real world works.First impressions have massive impact on how you're identified by others and whether people like it or not it's mostly by appearance.
This is also true. I remember I was in Colorado maybe 2 years ago having lunch, when this girl walked by. She was wearing clothing I've only seen in porn. Huge V top, super tight which seemed to be made of some sort of elastic material or something, hot pink, and her skirt barely reached the bottom of her ass. For all I know she could have been a porn star on the way to work.
Was I thinking about respect? Obviously not. I was thinking actually that she must be rather desperate to dress to that level like that in public. She is free to dress as she likes, but she should also have some respect towards the community. I like the Japanese rule of avoiding meiwaku--being a nuisance of others. It's like the opposite of our Golden Rule here. Do not do to others what you would not done to you.
0
How does clothing in ANY 100% (nay, any consistent statistic) way ever determine sexual active status?
Now, I hate slut shaming (sex is sex, people can have as much as they like within law and human limit) in all forms, but I'm going to stoop here and say that frankly, there's not a "uniform" of slatternly behavior.
Neither does any form of clothing (or anything, for that matter) entitle anyone to rape someone (EVER).
So... pretty much, saying someone deserved to be raped for wearing any kind of clothing is pretty fucked up and incorrect.
Now, I hate slut shaming (sex is sex, people can have as much as they like within law and human limit) in all forms, but I'm going to stoop here and say that frankly, there's not a "uniform" of slatternly behavior.
Neither does any form of clothing (or anything, for that matter) entitle anyone to rape someone (EVER).
So... pretty much, saying someone deserved to be raped for wearing any kind of clothing is pretty fucked up and incorrect.
0
Who I am affects my actions, dressing, attitude and to a certain extent, my body. But it is difficult to be identified by a person's character, simply because it is complex. Rather than be vexed by how others perceive me to be, I would rather be accountable to myself.
