lordisgaea4 wrote...
SkelliDrops wrote...
I don't believe it is, to an extent.
If it's within the first trimester, than it's fine, it's just a "parasite" basically, that is living and feeding off of you technically. Not saying babies are bad.
I personally think after the first trimester though it's wrong, that's when it really starts to grow into more of a baby, and develop itself.
What is the difference between a parasite that doesn't look like a baby and a parasite that look like a baby ?
- sigh - I realized it was going to sound wrong when I typed it out haha.
What I meant was that when the fetus is first there, it has no heart, no brain, nothing, it is not human.. so I don't see it as killing, you're removing something that has yet to grow into a living thing.. I see no wrong in aborting a fetus. (Under certain circumstances, I do not condone it as a way of birth control.. no one should just go out and continuously get abortions, that's just wrong).
I realize that the brain and heart and such start to grow and develop once you're around 6 weeks, but I don't agree with abortions once you've hit almost two months.
I'm really iffy when it comes to abortions for this reason. I'm pro choice, abortions are not evil, and it's not killing, especially under the right circumstances, I mean yeah there is adoption but then you're just leaving another child in the world to find its way to a family when they're are plenty of children who need homes already, plus the chance of them not being able to find a good loving home. I'd rather abort a child because I know that I cannot take care of it, then birth a child into the world where there is a 50/50 chance of it possibly getting into a home where it could be taken care of.
It's one of those things that to me, it REALLY depends on the situation. I mean if you're taking birth control/using condoms, trying to stay protected and you happen to get pregnant and know you cannot take care of it, I do not see an abortion as a bad option.. now if you're NOT staying protected and you get pregnant, that's your responsibility to figure out how you want to take care of it, if you realize you cannot take care of it, and decide to abort the child, you should also take that as a lesson to be more careful.
Though it's kind of funny that, all the little girls I know out there who have had kids when not ready, are people who are anti-abortion, but still do not use protection, and it's these same people who get their kids taken away, or don't want them because they feel they "have no life" anymore after parenthood.
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People like this, are the reason I have no issue with abortions.. I mean I would prefer it if no one HAD to get an abortion, but if you cannot take care of the child, see it as a hassle, or have NO intentions of caring for it, what's the better choice between letting it grow up thinking its hated/unloved or was brought into this world out of ignorance and immaturity (which sometimes fucks with people, and they turn to things like alcoholism, or drug abuse.) or just having an abortion, and not letting someone lead a life of suffering and hurt? As much as their is a chance for said baby to have a good life, there is also a chance said baby will have a horrible life.