Mothers

We love them because we have to, but geez, sometimes (well most) I don't like mine T_T

I was just showing her my wigs, and she was going on about one, and she said "oh thats your...uh what was it called again?" and i go "lesbian wig" (I call my Haruka Tenoh wig, my lesbian wig), and she started bitching about how anime characters can't be lesbian, blah blah blah.

Shes also totally homophobic, and I can't be bi, because I'm ment to be straight. Her reasoning? I haven't had any relationships with males, let alone intercourse. HAHAHAHA Oh what you don't know mum!!!

AND shes racist as shit!!! I go to an international university, where 90% aren't pakeha (from NZ), and man, you should hear her go on. Auckland is around 70-80% asians, and man does she bitch. I asked her what she would say if I dated an asian, and man did she spaz, she said I can date an asian chick (even though she doesnt believe in homosexuality) but not a male because she doesn't want asian grandkids!!!!! It's not really her choice, cuz if I EVER have a kid, I don't want a white kid 8D. I am SO sick of her shit, I am not suprised I moved out.

Yes, I am not a perfect child, but geez, nor was she!!!
I dunno if this is ment to be here or what...But does anyone else have issues like this with their mothers?

Uh yeah.

Sounds fairly familiar actually. My mother and I have never gotten along. She's an extremely religious and conservatively viewed woman, where I am the complete opposite being an Atheist and mostly very liberally-minded.

She's never been too fond of my personal life either. I've had a couple of internet relationships, which she frowned upon because she thought I was just wasting my time and I couldn't possible love anyone like that. I haven't bothered to tell my parents that I'm bisexual because quite frankly it isn't their concern. I know for a fact my father would be completely fine with it, but my mother wouldn't. Oh, she'd put on a nice front, but she would totally want to phone her church congregation and have them perform some kind of exorcism on me.

I know it is stupid and shallow of me, but she is one of the reasons I have such extreme disdain for conservatively-minded, and religious individuals. Yeah, it's not fair for me to base everyone on her model, but she is just the perfect antithesis of me, and I can't stand her for it. We never see eye to eye, and we never will.

Haha, my mother and I are different, I'm the religious one (Spiritualist) and shes Atheist. My mums had her internet relationships, but I'm too scared to tell her about my current one T_T maybe when I move out, then she cant hurt me. When I got my lip peirced she acutally tried to pull it out! It hurt..

Actually, out of all the people in my family I dont get along with, my mom is the one I dont get along with the most...

Lol she tried to kill me...

I'm cool with my mom, but i always get pissed off with my dad.

senile old-man keeps saying my anime is some Chinese cartoon

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My mom is so self centered. if it's not about her or something she's talking about, you better stfu. if she has something to say while you're watching a movie or TV you better turn that shit off and stare at her. if she is watching a movie or TV, even a rerun she's already seen, and you try to talk to her, you are a fucking asshole piece of garbage for interupting her shit, and she will tell you so.

she used to emotionaly blackmail and abuse me when i was a kid, but one day i was right and i knew it, so i stood firm. when her fake tears didn't make me cave she lost her shit and started hitting me. from that day on her crying never bothered me because i knew she was a liar, and that pissed her off even more.

she used to pit me and my brother against each other so we wouldn't join against her. i'm 33 yrs old, and i still don't feel close to my brother. he's little more than an acquaintance.

i've been very careful not to have kids. i'm waiting for her to die first. there's no way in hell i'd expose my children to her twisted shit.

my revenge is to live off my parents and do nothing. i live in a crap shack behind my parents house and pay no rent. i have no job, and i get their cable TV/internet for free too. i steal their food sometimes too. i do odd jobs for people i know to pay for my beer and herbage.

awesome thread, it feels good to vent.

edit/add: i forgot to mention, she's the worst kind of racist, the kind that is nice to your face, but believes all the stereotype BS.

I don't hate my mom, but i do find her hard to live with. I think once i move out our relationship will be less strained.

I don't and cannot hate my mom ..

My mom is overprotective .. don't care about my privacy .. always winning herself in every debate .. she doesn't even know how to admit defeat .. and the worst thing is, she always call herself as the "right" .. which implying that whatever i say .. she will not change her mind nor her way of thinking

Aside from that, if we see it on positive ways :
she annoying sometime because she care ..
and as child, we shall remember about who is the one responsible for our birth ..
Mother take care of us since we still an annoying cutey snotty baby ..

if you have babysit just once .. that's enough to say that it's hard and annoying

I hate my mom. Shes such a fucking bitch.

Same here.
My teenage days were like hell...

Worst of all,she's christian (like everyone else in my family).
I had to act like one so i wouldn't get bombarded with sermons.

Ok, my attention span is at 1% today. So I did not read any above posts.

Now to those saying they hate their moms, be fucking glad your mom is there regardless if you don't get along.

My mom kicked me out when I was 17 and I found out the hard way how tough life really is, about how this whole time since I was born she could have abandon me and left me for adoption or whatever, but she was the mother she was supposed to be, no matter how many arguments/disagreements we got into, well at least until I was 17. And even then I don't hate for that because it opened my eyes to the real world of how hard shit can be.

I despise my mother but at least I respect her. And as far as I can remember my childhood was shit. Good thing I moved away and stayed with my mothers family cause they treated me like a prince..=P Then she followed and became stricter. The ending result? Gang affiliated rich kid that has a hundred or more vices. Shes also going through this "phase" where shes become holy than thou and won't stop going on about God. She calls my friends addicts when I actually hang out with my cousin. Since he's in the same situation as me, curently. Wtf happened to my mother?

some people (not naming who) have in their mind absolute self reasoning. Which is to say they can deny logic and real reasoning when faced with the facts when they are opposed.

oh and should the wording be different?

To say that she doesn't BELIEVE in it is to say say she doesn't think it exists.

(I know what you mean I used it too but i just had to go and be anal about it)

My whole mother sides is stupid. My uncle cheated on his wife and she cheated on him (don't know who cheated first) my mom took out a credit card she could pay and so the credit card guys went after my dad who at the time was working for the military. She told him that it would be fine.... ( an example of denying logic and facts) There is a whole bunch of stupid shit they all do...

I have no respect for people who don't earn it. In their mind they think that the automatically require it. They some hypocritical assholes.

Whoa whoa whoa. Hot words you got there for your mom. I don't really like my mother and I don't hate her either. It's just I was more attached to my grandparents. Now that my grandparents are dead she is trying to be more close to me, Buying me stuff and food etc. But I treated her the same. I wonder if i'll be able to bring myself to like her.

I gotta say, even though my mother and I do fight quite a bit, I do still love her. And no matter what, you might not like them (I understand, having completely different personalities and attitudes and whatnot), but you better respect 'em. That is, of course, if they aren't horrible mothers that did nothing to raise you but still expect love or respect. Hey, I made a rhyme! ^^

She said anime characters can't be lesbian? Get her to watch Mnemosyne, or another girls love anime.

But yeah. I love my mom. Sometimes when my brother and I talk about anime, she says, "I REMEMBER THAT!" when she never even watches anime.

Unless you are a mom or have had to raise a young child you really shouldn't be flapping your lips. Every single aspect of that persons life changes when she DECIDES to Let you be born. Remember it's her Choice, as you haven't finished dividing yet you don't have an opinion. From her body to wallet everything is put to giving you the best future she possibly can. Why don't you ask your moms what they had to give up so you can bitch about what your suppose to have. You think your mom is mad at you? Try saying your pregnant and see how that goes over? Your moms had to pu up with a lot.
As the mother o a 2 year old I can say with certainty not a one of you have kids. The monstrously crippling stress of CONSTANT RESPONSIBILITY is enough to drag the crazy outta Gandhi. Picture going to sleep pregnant and waking up to excruciating pain splitting every atom of your body. Listening to the cacophony of screams from all the other women trying to bring a new person in to the world. Hearing some die off as lights flash and lives end as their bodies couldn't take it. Fearing not for yourself but for the unknown baby inside you. And finally after agonizing hours this filthy little ball of snot and blood is handed to you blue and shrieking and all you can think is how fucking awesome it is. Watching as it slowly changes color in front you like some tiny screaming mood ring.

Until it's looking at you and all the other sounds fade into the background and everything you wanted for yourself seem meaningless in comparison. All you want to do is make it happy and keep it safe nothing else matter after that. But after years of shitty ass, near death fall, bloody knees, broken teeth, broken bones tears, sweat and countless sleepless night for that person that you devoted so much of yourself to look at you with the same eyes and say "I hate you, god your so annoying I wish you just shut up and stay out of my life!". I'd beat the shit outta you. But that's just impulse. To many emotions want to rush to the surface: pain, grief, betray, hurt, revenge, angery, guilt, and fear. But it's just simpler to shutdown. I myself am guilty of the same. My mom bugs the heck outta me but I now know where it comes from.

*Sigh*

So anyway if your mom's pissing you off leave. period. It's the second worst thing you can do to her. But you should never say you hate your mom because frankly were all easily disposable.

Sorry to rant but...it's a sore subject for me.

That's exactly my issue with my mom. I love her, and I do look up to her - but maan does she get on my nerves when I spend too much time around her.

We argue a lot, and it's because our personalities are so different from each others.

We get along best when visiting, or away from each other keeping up with each others lives.