"Pornification" of the Youth

Today, while browsing a newspaper, I came upon the "Woman to Women" column of this newspaper (No, I'm not female but the topic caught my interest).

It was about the "pornification" of society and the negative effects this has on the youth of the industrialized countries. The writer thinks that the fact that young people have their first contact with pornography much earlier and also much greater contact with it, is effecting their outlook on sexuality as a whole.
Many of them, so the author states, get a totally twisted view on sexually and take pornography as "truth" and consider a "pornographic" sex life as desirable.





There is only sex, more sex and more twisted sex, the feeling of shame and yes, even love itself are secondary, if they even ever learned what "love" is.
Of course, she doesn't think that the sexual desensitization of the youth is to be welcomed, since it not only twists their sexual but also their social outlook on life.





What does the fakkuza think of this matter?

Lol, porns done me no harm......yet, in fact porn teaches you thing!!

The writer is just cranky cuz he ain't getting sum.

I'm inclined to agree...

Ahahahaha probably!

Mayb no one banged the author ? :shock:

I don't think the writer is thinking correctly form a kids perspective.
It's true that kids will believe almost anything that they are told by others or what they are shown by others as truth, but, when it comes to porn, the understanding of it by the kid needs to be taken into consideration. Also it depends on the type of porn it is: Lesbo, S&M, cosplay, etc.

I also agree with anyone who says that porn is also educational. What, is the kid gonna have to do the missionary position for the rest of his life? Let porn teach the little prick some variety.


I say bullshit. Sex and Love are two different things. Just because the prick is a horny bastard doesn't mean that his instincts as a human are gone. He might see a girl that will catch his attention and he might express his "Love" by having "twisted" sex with her.

Yea, again people taking things out of context. It's true porn has taught me a lot of things that I would have never considered doing. It's not like your parents sit you down and tell you how to have sex.

But, there's a lot of porn out there I really enjoy watching, but wouldn't want to do in person.
I'm old enough to understand the differences between what I want and what I want to watch.

And as stated, sex and love are two completely different things. Though both are combined at times. I'd prefer to have sex with somebody I care about greatly. Not just a wham bam, thank you mam. Emotionally it feels better.

Sometimes I don't have a clue where these people get these ideas. There was a hentai column posted on Fakku not too long ago and 'otakus' were associated with pokemon hentai lovers and helly kitty vibrator owners. I mean, wtf?

Then the vast majority wonders why we're so quiet about our 'taboos' because media makes it out to sound so strange. If I mention I like anime I'm obsessed with pokemon. If I mention hentai, it's guro. If I mention porn I must not know the concept of love and sex and just want 3 penis's stuck in two orifices.

Give me a break.

ok im in agreeance with the author on this one

Can you at least elaborate as to why?

i could but the way i need to say it i can't write without repeating myself like 20times and we all know people don't want that

I wish I got laid at 11. :( Seriously, I was a horny little bastard!

Though, my two thoughts are this. Parents are as much to blame as the kids for this. Because what could have stopped (or at least made it safer) for the kids? SITTING DOWN AND FUCKING TALKING TO YOUR KIDS ABOUT SEX!

I KNOW, AN AMAZING SUBJECT RIGHT?

Also, hypocrites lol. Kids are being desensitized to violence all the damn time. Yet SEX IS MORE EVIL AND DANGEROUS.

When I was eleven, I'd masturbate to anything. It's kind of nostalgic, thinking about it. The cover of a Pokemon comic could get me off for weeks. Now, it takes full-frontal nudity of Misty and incestuous sex between Ash and his mother to get me half-way there. Anyways, the point is, I was horny as hell when I was eleven, and I didn't have a ton of porn. I didn't have a computer with the internet until my senior year of high school, so I couldn't just hit a key and see vaginas and boobs in seconds. This, believe it or not, have serious ramifications. (Okay, "serious" may be pushing it a little.) Because I didn't have porn to get me used to seeing the naked female form, I was very stiff around girls. If a girl tried to come on to me, I wouldn't be able to do anything but sit there uncomfortably, so nervous that my head was about to blow. The thought of seeing a girl's naked body was too much for me to handle. If a girl in my class wore or did something that showed a bit of cleavage, I'd jerk off like crazy as soon as I got home.

Then, finally, I got the internet, and I found (metaphorical) golden fields of porn that stretched as far as the eye could see. I got used to seeing a naked body, and after a while, I wasn't as uptight as I had been. I knew, basically, what every girl looked like naked. There'd be slight differences in each girl's body, of course, but I had a foundation! I wasn't completely in the dark anymore. Thanks to porn.

If it wasn't for porn, I'd still be an uptight motherfucker who'd cream over a panty-shot. And no girl would want to date me, because I'd insist on spending hours upon hours just looking at her breasts and her vagina, because they'd be brand-new to me. And I'd cum within seconds, not pleasing her in the least. So, thank you, porn. Thank you.

EDIT: Also, I FUCKING LOVE Legos. I wish I had some Legos now. Those fuckers are fun as hell.

hmm.. imo i think the author is kinda right in some sense
i think wat he/she is trying to say is that since porn is being introduced to teens at earlier ages and it is so much more conveninet for them to view, their view on sex will be tarnished.. it will be more non-commital and they would feel indifferent to it..
the author might be a traditionalist in the sense that he/she feels that with sex there has to be love with it.. i might be too as i agree..
and the example of children having sex at the age of 11 i think is aimed to persuade people that they are not mature enough and they would not understand what they were actually doing.. which brings us back to the main argument, they are being exposed to porn way too early in life..
hope this makes sense.. haha

I was introduced to pornography at a -very- young age, against my own accord. It has, however, not really affected me in the least as I have grown into an intelligent person who can discern the difference between love and lust, a person who knows that porn is really fake and reading is a better way to learn than watching smut.

In the end, like most things, it comes down to your level of intelligence and comprehension. If you lack in these areas, you will most likely remain in the rut of belief, thinking that porn and movies are real people doing real things and not just actors making a buck.

hmm i agree with that as well.. so it all boils down to intelligence..
but kids hitting puberty and raging hormones.. watching porn would juz make them feel that sex is something that can be taken for granted.. gang bang by 14.. kinda early dont u think..
i guess im really a traditionalist arent i..
well i guess the author is kinda generalising all young kids like that..

wow...
makes me wonder of what'll happen in the next 10 years...
8 years old involved in a gangbang?

i wish someone could stop this madness somehow...

That leads to my point of the fact that the biggest problem right now with how kids are raised is that parents are afraid of JUST SITTING DOWN WITH THEIR KIDS AND EXPLAINING THE VARIOUS FACTS OF LIFE TO THEM. Sex is only one example, but still.

I knew what porn was at 6 years old. But my mom was smart enough to explain the facts of life to me in a way that allowed me to separate LOVE AND SEX in a way where I could intelligently tell the difference. So I wouldn't just fly off with the first thing that sucked my dick.