shinshuuko wrote...
There were a couple at my middle school. The thing is that even with the threats, it is not like you have to make it easy for these "thug girls." I will be the first to admit that I'm a bit....nerdy, so I was pretty fair game when it came to bullying. If you make it so it is not easy for them to beat on you, them most of them back down. That or you get into a fight with someone and actually win, then most people who bully tend to steer clear of you. Back on topic, it seems like this is taking a very feminist point of view, the "women are always the victim while men are always the culprit" this is like saying that women are incapable of rape. This is just girls that are trying to take advantage of the system, but some will get in too deep and get into a situation that them cannot control with just threats. So this type of people is dangerous to both sides. The abuser can cause too much distress to someone, which can have, in some cases, very drastic consequences. The two most extreme being suicide or some type of extreme retaliation.
you know the worst thing I ever did to the thug girl I didn't hit her I had already hit her 3 separate times in retaliation to her assaults, she didn't get the point plus she started spreading rumors about me saying I was bullying her so the teachers were watching me closely so that time I didn't hit her she punched me I raised my fist and she pulled back yelled "guys cant hit girls" and I didn't punch I simply pulled back and said "but girls can".
about 2 hours later I called in a favor from one of my students a girl I trained in hand to hand combat personally I figured one would be enough but she decided to bring a friend another girl I trained long story short they took things too far the "thug girl" ended up in the hospital for a week stayed outta school for the whole month but that wasn't the end of it the girls brother was a gang member now these guys were already lookin for a reason to fight this just gave a "spark to a bomb that was already set to blow" if you catch my drift gangwar, my guys vs them, thinkin back on it, it seems stupid how a punch can turn to a gangwar but people have their own agenda, a lot of times people use stupid reasons to validate their own desire for revenge.
I'm not gonna bore you with the details but just note the end result
6 dead 3 jailed and 1 hospitalized it would've gone on for longer but the cops started getting tips of some drug usage/selling in the school and this just gave them reason to take their investigation a few steps forward so of course everyone got quiet and fkin quick too, nobody wanted to so much as flinch unless they knew someone had there back.
thing is in those places you had to be strong or be protected by someone strong
she was protected but for some stupid reason she felt she had to "prove herself" or something, meanwhile I got death threats fights few people actually pulled blades on me I gotta prove my strength or get walked on my everyone but you know even after that I still feel bad for her I just really hope she got the satisfaction she wanted cus now her brothers dead.
(strength in there is based on being good killer not that "mental inner strength" bullshit not fighters either fights were just for show its a "bluff" of strength real strength was measured by skill in killing, getting away with it, and dealing with the shock from it)
moral of the story is don't make stupid moves in an already tense situation or area specially if you have nothing to gain.
its because of this reason why I can understand why someone wouldn't hit a women but it should be the same reason why others should understand my reasons for being on the self defense side of this issue.