What do you do when someone ignores you?
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animefreak_usa
Child of Samael
lazyasschillypepper wrote...
Be it your loved one, or a family member...a friend you've known for a long time, or a friend whom you've had for a week/month, or simply "someone you know"...whatever the case is, being ignored isn't a pleasant experience.The frustration...rage even, from saying something (important or not) to someone and getting no reply, you'll always have a reaction for it. How do you feel when it happens? How do you deal with it? What do you do to get that person to listen to you?
i got the same thing happening to be to. long story short i had a seizure(not my normal spasm one) and now people avoid me left and right. people that said they were my friends and said we will be here for you but left me in a void of pain and suffering that i been living for five years now.
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It depends.
If being ignoredd has no real effect on me, I'd ignore just right back.
If being ignored _has_ some sort of bad effect on me (for example, if I'm a diner in a restaurant and the waiter is ignoring me) then I'd make enough of a ruckus until I can't be ignored.
If being ignoredd has no real effect on me, I'd ignore just right back.
If being ignored _has_ some sort of bad effect on me (for example, if I'm a diner in a restaurant and the waiter is ignoring me) then I'd make enough of a ruckus until I can't be ignored.
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Well, I get upset and rant to other people. Typical girl stuff.
If the person ignoring me doesn't want to talk to me, then their loss; I'll leave them alone for the time's being.
If the person ignoring me doesn't want to talk to me, then their loss; I'll leave them alone for the time's being.
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lazyasschillypepper wrote...
Be it your loved one, or a family member...a friend you've known for a long time, or a friend whom you've had for a week/month, or simply "someone you know"...whatever the case is, being ignored isn't a pleasant experience.If they ignore me, I would've known. If it was a family or a close friend, I'll just fly straight in and ask "Did I do something wrong?", if it was just "someone I knew", just forget it..
lazyasschillypepper wrote...
The frustration...rage even, from saying something (important or not) to someone and getting no reply, you'll always have a reaction for it. How do you feel when it happens? How do you deal with it? What do you do to get that person to listen to you?OO, got that all the time! It is not good to be the "most informed" in a group full of ignorance. I feel my knowledge is wasted. Just move on, go to FAKKU or some other board and chat. I wont bother making them listen if they were just friend, if a family or close one however, I'll rage a bit and repeat...
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YayoiSama wrote...
Well, I get upset and rant to other people. Typical girl stuff.If the person ignoring me doesn't want to talk to me, then their loss; I'll leave them alone for the time's being.
Why rant? just ignore her and show off your living better than her.
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umnut wrote...
Find out what/if I've done something wrong to cause the certain person to ignore me, and if it turns out it's something I did I try to make up for it, but if it's not my mistake, I either don't care/notice and/or ignore them back (not indefinately, of course, depending on how close that person is to me).And then you pull out your gun and tell them to stick em up. Robbing folks always stop them from ignoring. It worked for me when my friend ignore me.
HAHAHAHAHAA.......I still have his wallet
*kidding*
Ask them what's up or counter them with your own cold shoulder.
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After reading the title to this thread I started thinking, It's only ever happened to me once and it wasn't very serious. I pissed off a good friend and he decided to ignore me, I went far out of my way to get cross his path, I even had entire conversations with him where he wouldn't say a word. After a while he punched me in the throat and considered us even.
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tswarthog
The Iconoclast
Depending on who it is I normally will just fake stalk them until they break the silence and talk.
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Pretty much chalk it up to par for the course and continue on my way, one of the reasons I chose "Nobodie" (besides the Odyssey refrence).
That and it was a coin toss between "Nobodie" and "Mr. Cellophane"
That and it was a coin toss between "Nobodie" and "Mr. Cellophane"
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Seishiro wrote...
I'll ignore them too then... I treat people like they treat me.I think there's no niveau....
I say hello and bye like I would talk to someone I don't know^^
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I'd talk to the people in the ignored users society.
I would also ignore them, If they would wish to ignore me, I'd just help them complete their task. Hey, if someone doesn't talk to me I wouldn't talk to them(usually).
I would also ignore them, If they would wish to ignore me, I'd just help them complete their task. Hey, if someone doesn't talk to me I wouldn't talk to them(usually).
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I try again later. If it continues to be an issue then I get a rad more aggressive (example: go from texts to calling, from calling to a random visit, but I'm POSITIVE a call would attract some attention after a while). If that does not work then I add on the aggressiveness (show up on their doorstep) and then probably give up if they just flat out avoid me at every pass. If their obviously not making attempts to speak or see me, then theres not much we have to say to each other is there?
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gizgal wrote...
smashspite wrote...
My best friend is ignoring me after knowing her for about 8 years. She finally got fed up because of some argument we got into. First I thought she was just ignoring me, but apparently she has completely shunned me out of everything, I still see her but Until she talks to me and apologizes for being immature. I shall do the same and not talk to her as I sit with some fine wine and put on a monocle.
Had the same issue with my bestie as well... sucks. But then I realized what a bitch she'd been all that time.
The best revenge is living well.
YES! I lived through some drama llama right before graduation, and this is what I decided to do. Rather than sulk about the fall-out and become bitter, I'm just gonna remain positive and move on. Que sera, sera.
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Maybe be it's just me but when someone ignores me i think that what is said was probaly not worth hearing and just shut up.
