flln723 wrote...
Americans, eh? Americans...
I was born in Europe but moved to the US when I was 14. It didn't really agree with me, though, so now I'm back in the UK where I belong. <3
Americans are extremely close minded. It gets worse because Americans always think that the Americans that disagree with them are close minded and instead, they themselves are very open minded. Liberals believe conservatives to be close minded while they themselves are not, and conservatives do the same. It's so fucking stupid. Americans always have a "I'm right, and if you disagree with me, you're wrong, even if you do make sense" attitude, and it's more annoying than you can ever possibly imagine. Trying to discuss anything with an American is impossible if they don't agree with your point entirely before the discussion even begins. You will not be able to change the mind of an American, no matter how hard you try or how logical you are. What the American knows is law, unless the person they learned that 'law' from changes their mind. By that I mean a lot of Americans adopt their views from others, rather than making their own views. Some people adopt their views from parents, whilst others adopt their views from friends, girlfriends, celebrities or whatever else. No one seems to be able to think for themselves.
Americans also think that they are God's gift to the world, whether or not they believe in God. Americans always seem to believe that their country is the best in the world, and no other country comes even close. If your country disagrees with American policy, you deserve to be nuked. Oh, by the way, since America is God's gift, they have a duty to spread their 'gift' to the rest of the world, so they have a duty to butt into European affairs or wherever else they don't belong.
I've written enough for now. Long story short, Americans think too highly of themselves, and really low of anyone that disagrees with them, be they also American or not.
This is probably going to be a mistake even arguing with this, because then I'll just get the 'see what I mean? American's are so closed minded' thing thrown back at myself.
I definitely understand what you mean by close mindedness. I've met some people like that and I also deal with people like that at work. But I think people are like that anywhere.
Everywhere you're going to find bad examples and good examples of people in different countries. Everywhere. No matter what.
I think it's a bit bold to say we hold ourselves as God's gift, but what do you consider yourself when you think you're above a whole country?
Yes, I deal with narrow minded Americans, but I’d like to see anybody try changing the minds that are morally connected to an issue. It's not an American problem, it's human error. Humans - as in all around the world humans. When you talk about abortion, religion, gay rights, animal rights, racism, sexism – you’ll get conflict all around the world. Not just America.
The thing that I think people miss the most is America is a country that has people from all over the world living in one large unit. You’re going to get conflict and difference of opinions because of your background.
Where I live specifically there's a lot of Puerto Ricans. Despite Puerto Rico being part of the United States people still scoff when the PR flag is hung. However, people forget that America is based off of immagrants, and everyone has a different blood history. Unless of course you're Native American. Being proud of your heritage isn't something to be ashamed of - if you want to hang the flag your family is from, then there's no problem.
The biggest thing specifically in my area is people who are sensitive to Spanish being spoken. You get the †˜English should be the only language here in the United States’
I work in retail so I deal with Spanish speakers very often. What a lot of people don’t realize is the fact when an elderly person comes to the United States with another first language, psychologically, it’s almost impossible for them to speak a new language. That’s why you often see their grandchildren translating for them, because the younger you are the easier it is to become linguistic to other languages. It’s just how your brain develops.
I can speak some Spanish and sometimes if I deal with a customer who is flustered I’ll switch the tables and let them know I speak little Spanish but I’ll try my best with them. Then I’ll be in their situation and they’ll feel more comfortable. Just because they don’t speak the same language as me doesn’t mean they shouldn’t get treated the same, they’re still a human being.
When you are educated and when you understand why something is the way it is - it’s easier to accept why things are the way they are, and it’s easier to accommodate to another person.
But I don’t understand how you can sit there and talk like you know everything, because to myself, I feel like there’s too much diversity here to ever collectively call us something as a whole. I understand you live here and you’ve experienced things, but how much have you really experienced?