Nyara❤ wrote...
More a cultural tradition of "staying pure and virgin before marrying" stuff that never applied that hard for boys than anything else, I guess.
Yeah..... I don't think that is something I've ever even thought about since that image would be such a contradiction.... was not the type of woman that wanted to wait till marriage because I was too curious/horny and I was nervous that if my partner and I weren't on the same wavelength for intimacy (you learn a lot about them in the bedroom) then it'd be a deal-breaker for me.
I don't think you're answer is bad, but I wouldn't apply this to all women. You basically don't want to come off as a slut or a pervert to guys initially or at the very least some guys may get the wrong impression from you reading about a five 5 to 1 girl gangbang. When I say that fantasy doesn't always equal what you are/want in reality means sometimes you need to keep certain things such as fetish genre's to yourself. When girls openly say, "yes I like NTR a lot!" and nothing else, guys look at that and think "this girl is such a pervert, what if...". Wrong for guys to do that, but it only takes one for this to happen so it's best to be careful.
Not all guys care if you are a virgin or not, but be aware that others may and will. I know whenever the subject of "how many before me?" would come up, I'd say a couple or that talking it's not important to dig up the past and change it. Mind you I haven't been with that many men, but I try to refrain from giving much on that subject to guys (though I never thought I'd be dating my current bf so he knows my past and how many, whoops lol). You can lie completely if you want to, but to me you need to be somewhat truthful with your information and don't be afraid to get tested with every partner. Not everyone is truthful when they say that they are a virgin and have never slept with anyone, because you can even get STDs from acts such as oral.