With most people I would ask "don't you mean conversation?" but I think with you the word argument would be more appropriate lol
I haven't been all that active as of late, been busy with other things and just haven't had much to talk about. I'll stop by more often if I end up being more active around here again.
There are two types of conversation to me. Pleasantries and arguments.
The former is masturbatory, which I'm better off physically stroking my dick anyway. The latter is fun as I get to use the faculty of my intellect to improve my understanding.
I can't help it that I find squirting some semen to be more fun than spouting out words that are hardly informative and makes no difference to either side whether I actually meant them or not.
It also happens to be more fun than a group affirming each others' tastes without ever establishing why they like that thing.
Arguments, on the other hand, provide an entirely different kind of fun. Eureka is of a higher order than squirting my semen.
Some do, others don't. And phrasing it as an argument suggests two opposing sides, which isn't always the case. Not every conversation needs to be an argument to have meaning after all.
Orgasm is like eating to me these days. I don't particularly enjoy it, but somehow I find myself needing it. Probably just a case of lack of self-restraint, but I have yet to find a good reason to hold back. I'd much rather get the hassle out of the picture and have my thinking at normal or higher capacity.
But like meal, once in a while you get really good ones and those are enjoyable.
Well Kyuu, tell me how can understanding be improved when all sides just care about stroking each others' ego? Any actual discussion has to involve differences in thoughts and confronting them.