Are you in love with anyone? Have you fallen in love yet?

i was in love twice but both of them cheated cuz i was younger than them .... hope i find the girl of my dreams

Had a few hormone-induced crushes as a teenager. Haven't ever really been in love with anyone before/other than my current partner tho.

Fell in love thrice lasted about a month. Truth be told I'm applying two new rules to myself.
1. Whenever I feel the love I just tell myself to suck it in and concentrate on my current problems
2. Try and finish college first before I start thinking of my love life.( right now I'm on my 4 yr Nursing)

Being too kind doesn't help much in today's society. Our difference is that I show my total and absolute kindness only to my girlfriend.
That being said, if you're lucky enough to find a girl who is also very kind just like you are (Rare...) you'll get along with her perfectly. At least, such is my case.

Don't think that you will never fall in love with someone. When you think like that you will ruining a lot of chances if your too hard on yourself. After I got my girlfriend I became a lot more optimistic about myself and I noticed for the first time that girls were constantly checking me out the whole time I was just to down to notice it. I told my girlfriend this and she said, "yeah, it's because your a prize catch."

My point is stay positive and be kind and open to everyone because you will never know if they could be your significant other.

man I feel like such a douchebag giving advice when I have only had a girlfriend for like 2 weeks.

Don't feel like it, some things can drastically change your perspective. This allows you to see things more clearly, hence making it able for you to help others.

I have never been in love or fallen in love. I'm 20 so it's kinda sad that i haven't had a girlfriend.

... reading this thread has depressed me... since my one and only gf that ended really badly two years ago (a fist fight between me and her ex that i never wanted) then again i can't say i've ever been in love... that girl was more of a passing fancy really... then again, like a couple of u in this thread i have been called a heartless b*s*a*d several times in my life... i've never felt anything other than dull fascination towards anyone actually... at least i kno i'm not gay (trust me i was asking myself that at one point)

we'll see.... but i'm not holding my breath. thanks tho mate... makes me feel a little better. i'm starting to see my self in a new light... a not so pathetic one

@superscrub
Yeah, being positive is the law of life you know? Oh yeah, gratz on the girlfriend! >;3

... i dun have a gf... but that was prolly directed at the guy above meh eh? oh well... i'm not a very positive person tho... kinda happens when u get discarded by your own family

Just because something happens doesn't mean you should always stay negative, no? You can be negative for that short while, but you can't be it forever. ^^ It's the law of the universe. If you want to be happy, you cannot just wait for it to come, while you are being all dull and sad. You have to go and grab happiness yourself. ^_^

happiness eludes me... i enjoy my negativeness... well... thats impossible... screw love.. it's gotten me nothing

Love is over-rated.

...yet here I am... posting in the Love, Romance And Relationships forum...
*sigh*

My last ex was more lust than love... for the both of us I believe. But really now, what is love anyway? If you love it, you probably want to do other things to it as well.
Other than that, I have not recently really found someone I would(or could) have a relationship with.
Not yet, anyway.

at least i'm not the only one who feels this way... i dun know whether to high five u or cry for u

I don't love humans anymore.

Oh, what an awful thing to feel. Remember your family members are human!:)

Ahahaha....you sounded like everyone is supposed to unconditionally love their family....