Are you in love with anyone? Have you fallen in love yet?
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jenslyn wrote...
I think any end, to a relationship where at least one person were really in love, will be badWell that and we took a break and we agreed not to date anyone. Well she got all depressed because of a misunderstanding we had (which I didnt know there was one since she hides her feelings at times). Well once we got back together it seemed like everything was fine. Then on Christmas she dumped me. I found out she cheated on me. Well she says she cheated on the girl since she didnt tell her. I said true but you still cheated on me because you didnt tell me either. She said it hurt her and she felt like shit doing that. Well I found out she was with the girl when we got back together and when we were on a break. During that time she was depressed she went to her and the girl so called helped her. So she said they got intimate and they got together. Then she stated she loved the girl like how she loved me back when we first got together. And that she loved her more and all that. So basically I got tossed to the side like a used rag >.<.
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Ouch. Doesn't sound good at all.
I once thought I was in love years ago during high school. Well, twice, actually. First time, things went sour and pretty much opened my eyes about what kind of person I am. Second time with another girl the following year, things were going well. I was able to be myself around her and I guess we had a lot of fun together.
... Of course, nothing came of either relationship (didn't date, either.) I told the first how I felt about her. I don't really want to remember how she responded, to be honest. Then again, thanks to how I acted at that time, she never took me seriously. I was going to tell the second girl how I felt about her, but the opportunity never presented itself. Senior year came and we were no longer in the same classes. I hardly saw her, and she felt so distant every time I tried to talk to her.
Both experiences are rather unforgettable (for different reasons). Haven't had any crushes on anyone since, however.
I once thought I was in love years ago during high school. Well, twice, actually. First time, things went sour and pretty much opened my eyes about what kind of person I am. Second time with another girl the following year, things were going well. I was able to be myself around her and I guess we had a lot of fun together.
... Of course, nothing came of either relationship (didn't date, either.) I told the first how I felt about her. I don't really want to remember how she responded, to be honest. Then again, thanks to how I acted at that time, she never took me seriously. I was going to tell the second girl how I felt about her, but the opportunity never presented itself. Senior year came and we were no longer in the same classes. I hardly saw her, and she felt so distant every time I tried to talk to her.
Both experiences are rather unforgettable (for different reasons). Haven't had any crushes on anyone since, however.
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Nashrakh
Little White Butterflies Staff
Unrequited love for me all the way.
Kinda scarred me for life, didn't even think of dating for years - until I met that one girl in music club last year.
She kinda liked me too I guess, but I was too afraid to tell her how I feel (for obvious reasons; I have a terrifying fear of being rejected again).
So, half a year later after I last saw her, I kinda mustered up the courage (meanwhile, we both graduated high school and suddenly, I thought about her again) and asked her out on a date (via e-mail, because I didn't ask for her cell number back then and I dunno where she lives exactly, I only got that email address and her name).
She didn't reject me. In fact, she didn't respond AT ALL, which deeply troubles me; she's not the kind of person to do that... I'm worried about her. And there's no way I could check up on her without calling lots of people with the same surname -_-'' (and I don't want to come across as a stalker, either)
I thought I might have struck gold with her as she nows about me being an otaku; in fact, she was highly japanophile herself (her dream was to become a hairstylist in Japan one day). She truly accepted me for who I am - I always hid my "other self" to my friends...
In fact, my worries about her wellbeing far outweigh the fear of being rejected again by now because I have that nasty tendency to always expect the worst... and you know, there are some really good reasons that could be considered "the worst".
Kinda scarred me for life, didn't even think of dating for years - until I met that one girl in music club last year.
She kinda liked me too I guess, but I was too afraid to tell her how I feel (for obvious reasons; I have a terrifying fear of being rejected again).
So, half a year later after I last saw her, I kinda mustered up the courage (meanwhile, we both graduated high school and suddenly, I thought about her again) and asked her out on a date (via e-mail, because I didn't ask for her cell number back then and I dunno where she lives exactly, I only got that email address and her name).
She didn't reject me. In fact, she didn't respond AT ALL, which deeply troubles me; she's not the kind of person to do that... I'm worried about her. And there's no way I could check up on her without calling lots of people with the same surname -_-'' (and I don't want to come across as a stalker, either)
I thought I might have struck gold with her as she nows about me being an otaku; in fact, she was highly japanophile herself (her dream was to become a hairstylist in Japan one day). She truly accepted me for who I am - I always hid my "other self" to my friends...
In fact, my worries about her wellbeing far outweigh the fear of being rejected again by now because I have that nasty tendency to always expect the worst... and you know, there are some really good reasons that could be considered "the worst".
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Nashrakh wrote...
Unrequited love for me all the way.Kinda scarred me for life, didn't even think of dating for years - until I met that one girl in music club last year.
She kinda liked me too I guess, but I was too afraid to tell her how I feel (for obvious reasons; I have a terrifying fear of being rejected again).
So, half a year later after I last saw her, I kinda mustered up the courage (meanwhile, we both graduated high school and suddenly, I thought about her again) and asked her out on a date (via e-mail, because I didn't ask for her cell number back then and I dunno where she lives exactly, I only got that email address and her name).
She didn't reject me. In fact, she didn't respond AT ALL, which deeply troubles me; she's not the kind of person to do that... I'm worried about her. And there's no way I could check up on her without calling lots of people with the same surname -_-'' (and I don't want to come across as a stalker, either)
I thought I might have struck gold with her as she nows about me being an otaku; in fact, she was highly japanophile herself (her dream was to become a hairstylist in Japan one day). She truly accepted me for who I am - I always hid my "other self" to my friends...
In fact, my worries about her wellbeing far outweigh the fear of being rejected again by now because I have that nasty tendency to always expect the worst... and you know, there are some really good reasons that could be considered "the worst".
Well I dunno her and I'm definetily not a Love-Guru but you should talk to her...maybe she doesn't get it you liking her more then friendship...I know it's really damn hard because I also have that fear of rejection but the world keeps going and if you don'T do something, nothing will change.
*haha* it's funny to hear myself saying that because I've been lingering around the guy I like but did't tell him yet ( since about 3 month ). I don't know you but it makes me sad if other ppl. can't find their love because of fear.
If she says no, time will heal and you will find happyness for shure.
TSCHAKA! BELIEVE!
For me...like I said I have a crush ( I think ) in somebody from my Academy. Well, tried to tell him once what I feel for him but ...it was so freaking hard so it didn'T sound the way it should. My chance kinda slipped away because it was the only and first time we were alone. Even the mood was perfect because it started snowing ( in the evening ) and watched two movies. Jeez thinking about it again makes me want to kick in my own ass =__=.
By the end of this month I really want to tell him my feelings...( it's the end of this semester ) and if he rejects me I have time to recover in the holidays *haha*. ...and if the reply positiv the hard work starts by then and I have time to prepare...*hehe*
So Nashrakh...let's both try our best ^-^
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I'm not currently in love with anyone, but I have been in the past--twice, to be exact.
My first, while I would have considered it love back then, I consider infatuation now. He managed to string me along for two years so needless to say, it ended badly.
The first person I actually fell in love with was the boy who picked me up after the previous situation. We were together for 7½ months, my longest relationship to date. It's been years since and we're still friends (albeit, after much drama), so... success, I guess?
My last boyfriend was the second person I loved. It was bliss for the first few months, and we started having problems after.... until a situation forced me to break up with him. I will say that I still care for him, and miss him on the odd blue moon.
It's been a bit, and I have yet to fall in love again... but I don't expect it to happen anytime soon. There's much lust and 'like' here and there (and throughout the past between the instances above) but I'd like to think that I've been through enough relationships to know what I want. I'm semi-content with waiting until I find that person. (I hope it doesn't take too long, though! I'm starting to feel myself get old! xD)
My first, while I would have considered it love back then, I consider infatuation now. He managed to string me along for two years so needless to say, it ended badly.
The first person I actually fell in love with was the boy who picked me up after the previous situation. We were together for 7½ months, my longest relationship to date. It's been years since and we're still friends (albeit, after much drama), so... success, I guess?
My last boyfriend was the second person I loved. It was bliss for the first few months, and we started having problems after.... until a situation forced me to break up with him. I will say that I still care for him, and miss him on the odd blue moon.
It's been a bit, and I have yet to fall in love again... but I don't expect it to happen anytime soon. There's much lust and 'like' here and there (and throughout the past between the instances above) but I'd like to think that I've been through enough relationships to know what I want. I'm semi-content with waiting until I find that person. (I hope it doesn't take too long, though! I'm starting to feel myself get old! xD)
