between love and family......
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reminds me a situation with a friend of mine.
hes 18
his cousin is 10
and he says it would be ok since hes adopted and i just call him a pedo.
hes 18
his cousin is 10
and he says it would be ok since hes adopted and i just call him a pedo.
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Malik_USMC wrote...
reminds me a situation with a friend of mine.hes 18
his cousin is 10
and he says it would be ok since hes adopted and i just call him a pedo.
sarcasm* theres no age difference there at all *sarcasm* but seriously kick his ass i fucking hate peados something chronic
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elfen lied wrote...
Malik_USMC wrote...
reminds me a situation with a friend of mine.hes 18
his cousin is 10
and he says it would be ok since hes adopted and i just call him a pedo.
sarcasm* theres no age difference there at all *sarcasm* but seriously kick his ass i fucking hate peados something chronic
Has everyone run out of advice for mnx? My only remaining advice ... try not to regret whatever you decide to do.
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MY advice to mnx is do what you think is right and if anyone says your wrong tell them to fuck off
(yes Hate the IRL pedos)
(yes Hate the IRL pedos)
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mnx wrote...
right to the point.i have a cousin who is 2yrs older than me.she's hot,kind and caring,so i'm attracted to her.
we started out like another normal cousin,hanging out together and stuff.
but i incidentally.....
had sex with her.
that was like,5-6 yrs ago.
after that incident we are practically a couple.until now.
we always seeing each other behind our family's back.
having sex when nobody's at home,those kinds of thing.....
we even thought about getting married.
it's all fine for me,but recently she wants me to declare our relationship
openly to everyone,including my family.
she said she can't stand doing this anymore.
she wants to be with me,but not like in this way.not behind the screen.
and if i can't declare our status to everyone,we're over.
it's a dilemma for me.
i know i love her and she loves me back.
i want to keep this relationship.
but i dont know how our family would react had they know this.
she seems to be ready for anything.
but i'm not.i'm still scared that our family would scorn and kick both of us out of the family.if we do this.
it may sounds greedy,considering of what i've done,but i want to retain the relationships i have with both my family and her.
what should i do.....
i don't know what to do anymore.....
somebody please help me.....
P.S: pardon my messed up english.
Did anything happen yet, mnx?
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well you are lucky, or you were lucky, hehehe just go for it, it's not like it will be the end of the world, have some guts, what are you a man or a mouse(chiken,rabit). I personally didn't go through what you're going now, but i had it worse, at least you'l have somebody by your side.
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Yeah...i agree i may be younger but i've been through hell as well.... You two just have to hold hands and brace yourself to face your family and whatever they are gonna throw at you. Just face them with an honest and serious face.
Love is able to get through to you even in your darkest hour so go for it!(after you finish preparations of course)
Love is able to get through to you even in your darkest hour so go for it!(after you finish preparations of course)
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I don't know where you stand at this point in your decision/situation...
But if I were you and you really loved this girl, you would go against your family to be with her. Ultimately, the alternative is losing her. Could you live with that? I know I couldn't... It's a very simple decision ^_^ it's only as complicated as you make it. Whether you love her or not should give you the answer you are looking for.
Best wishes to you.
But if I were you and you really loved this girl, you would go against your family to be with her. Ultimately, the alternative is losing her. Could you live with that? I know I couldn't... It's a very simple decision ^_^ it's only as complicated as you make it. Whether you love her or not should give you the answer you are looking for.
Best wishes to you.
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u said that u were leaving this october and so i thought i'd say good luck on your moving and with your relationship (and if you get a bit down then there's always season 2 of rosario+vampire coming out this month and fanservice always makes me cheery :D )
keep us posted here at fakku as there'll always be plenty of people to offer advice, support etc.
ps. +rep as a little parting gift :P (care to return the favour? :roll: )
keep us posted here at fakku as there'll always be plenty of people to offer advice, support etc.
ps. +rep as a little parting gift :P (care to return the favour? :roll: )
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I never had relation before and never got girlfriend even though women does chase me for reeel
Your lovelife is your future, having wanted children on it, live with your lover till old age
Your parents will end soon and the cures for christian fanatism is their selves or hippie beliefs which waned by emos or liars
My opinion is cut your tie with your family, if you got your own money, house? You're ready
I think it's worth all the hell tied on it because I think by your situation, you'll never get truly happy without your cousin
Your lovelife is your future, having wanted children on it, live with your lover till old age
Your parents will end soon and the cures for christian fanatism is their selves or hippie beliefs which waned by emos or liars
My opinion is cut your tie with your family, if you got your own money, house? You're ready
I think it's worth all the hell tied on it because I think by your situation, you'll never get truly happy without your cousin
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So long as there is no history of incest further back in your family, it is almost as unlikely as any non-incest relationship that you will produce offspring that are geneticly abnormal.
Hey, the Royal Family's been doing it for centuries, who's to scoff at you about it.
Not like you're fucking your mother.
Hey, the Royal Family's been doing it for centuries, who's to scoff at you about it.
Not like you're fucking your mother.
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mibuchiha
Fakku Elder
hmm...mnx. i think you're a muslim from your posts...sorry if i'm wrong about your religion, but fyi, muslim don't prohibit any cousin relationship. yeah, that pre-marriage sex is, ugh...(damn, i know i'm jealous), but the relationship itself is ok. i'm quite confident about my knowledge in the islamic part(not that i'm practicing any of it anyway) and unless you're from some weird branch of islam, just marry her. ah, make sure you can afford to.
if i were you, i'd be open about my feelings. just hide up the sex part. not everything needs to be told, right? :wink:
if i were you, i'd be open about my feelings. just hide up the sex part. not everything needs to be told, right? :wink: