Idiotic Boy needs help!

Well, if you have noticed, several people seem to think there is something very wrong with you already. I believe one person mentioned down syndrome?
Just go ahead and tell us, some of us may bite, but only mentally.

For actual help on the matter, her sister said that she had a crush on you. Well, it could be worse, she could be head-over-heels in love. Here's the thing, it doesn't matter when you tell her, but it's not going to go away if you just let it be. If she had a crush on you, and you didn't say what you said, then it'd probably pass with time, but with the supposed knowledge that you reciprocate her feelings, she won't let it go.
Tell her now or soon at the very least straight out about what happened. Yes, she will probably be upset, and may end up disliking you with vigour. Answer this for me - how could letting the whole thing wait help? Heck, there may come a point where she actually decides to do something about your relationship and that would leave you in a worse-off position than you're in now.

One more thing, don't go living your life as a single person forever. What will you do? Try pleasuring yourself for the rest of your life, watching porn and reading doujins? I realise there are other things that you want to do, but really, how much purpose does your life have when it's all about YOU? Do you not ever feel empty?

:shock: *GASP* :shock:

oh wait... this is serious discussion so ummm....

i think we should wait for uzumaki101 and listen to his explanatioon first before we say things like that ok?
... just ignore me... :?

Please tell me that you're being sarcastic. Sarcasm doesn't get across to well over the internet.

You're stupid.

Moron. Sigh...I hate seeing people cry, you should be more careful with your actions and your words. There are a few ways to handle this, most of them will break her heart, the one that won't is to give it a chance it is better that you live a little uncomfortable for a little while, she will probably get over you soon enough if you act a certain way anyhow, than for you to burn a bridge with an old friend. You should tolerate her until she gets over her crush or you finally decide to pull your head out of your ass and decide to return to the rest of society in the "trying to get laid" category. Be nice enough to not make her cry, but find out her buttons and push them until she leaves you alone or you can make a clean break for both sides (sure this seems to be a cold-hearted method but it is the best I have)

That's actually not that hard of a question to answer, if you're a hedonist. Sex with no emotional attachment or any other strings attached can turn out to be more fulfilling than anything in your wildest dreams. I'm not speaking from personal experience, I never get involved with a woman unless there is some kind of emotional connection, but pure bodily pleasure is the the height of what the material existence has to offer.

An example for those who want one:
You meet some random person at a bar. Neither of you have any interest in each other except for the prospect that you could get a good fuck out of them. You take her or him, in the case of women, back to your place and, as you expected, you have incredible sex. When you wake up in the morning, that person is either gone or is there only to exchange contact information in case you ever want to fuck again. This is how you become fuck buddies. Then you continue on with your life, if you choose to, you call that person to fuck and then you part ways until you want to fuck again, all the while you continue to accumulate more "fuck buddies" which you have a purely physical relationship with. That kind of life is good if you don't have the desire to become emotionally connected to anyone.

Lol. You almost got it. Actually, a priest inspired me.

I asked our local priest how can he resist not loving a woman. You know what he said?



I guess that sentence got to me. I even took a Brotherhood test back in HighSchool and I passed. Really, it's a miracle that I even passed. Only 7 were chosen, and i'm one of them. Why? Well, the questions for Brotherhood were for College level :shock:

But I declined. Even though I vowed to be single for the rest of my life, I don't want to be cooped up in some church.

Um....just because you love God more than women (I having a female deity to worship do not have to make this horrible choice) does not mean you aren't allowed to love women. Did it occur to you that you may be offending your God by not indulging in love which is one of the finest things in all creation?

ok. i know you're only joking with her.

what's done is done. now it's your choice to pick

1. tell her that it was a joke,and beg forgiveness from her

2. forget her. leave her be. be a man,and take the consequences

i must remind you. both choice has it own risk.

many people said it's the best for you to beg forgiveness from her. yes,it's not good to leave such girl crying.

in other words,i say,it's better to leave her be. unless if you want to live in couple.

the first choice.

Good Situation : maybe she can forgive you and decided to love you forever. she wont forget you,you will always be in her memories.

Worst Situation : if you're telling her that it was a joke,maybe she hates you more than ever. and it'll cause more problems between you and her. she might hates you forever for playing with her feelings.

the second choice.

Good Situation : as the time going. she will forget you,and you will forget her. no more problems. she live with in her world,and you live with your own world. begin your new life,and always thinking what will you do the next time.

Worst Situation : you will never forget for what have you done to her. it'll be your nightmare. you will feels guilty forever. your mental might gets broken,and it will affect your future.

like a Double-edged sword,both choice will hurts you. but it's up to you.

think it twice before you pick the choice. and always aware for the Worst Situation. you've experienced this problem. so,if the same kind of problem appears,you have the solution to handle.

i suggest you. dont live alone,unless you have experienced painful past that forced you to live alone.

while you can live happily,then try to reach it.

you still have many things to do in the future. if you decided to live alone,i believe,it wont be the best choice.

it's your choice if u decide to stay single for life, no opinions on that, i don't think u're weird either, since i don't wanna get stuck with a women either(well, i do have my bodily urges, a man's gotta fuck, u know)

apologizing is the way to go if u're seriously joking in the first place, but breaking a girl's heart is pretty bad.(for me, it depends, whether she's hot or have other good personality traits, if she's compatible, go for it, man, staying single for life will be lonely, well, unless u have enough faith in God to do so)

Urg...religion another of my buttons..you bastard. While I do believe such a thing, it still sounds like utter crap. I have however seen enough variety in the everyday person to believe there is someone out there like that. I don't think priests live in their churches, I think they have homes, not sure though. I'm inclined to believe any god worth their salt only wants their worshipers to be happy no matter how they have to go about it so long as they don't make others unhappy, which would mean that you would be going against that tenet by making this girl unhappy, you should fix it, even if it makes you uncomfortable, at least one of you will be content (if not happy) as opposed to her being heartbroken and you being regretful of it all the time, were you to go along with her it would only be you who is still kind of regretful, sure it is a lie, but it is a lie that is avoiding causing pain, besides you didn't vow to never lie.

Both choices are hard to choose from. But in reality, i'm getting forced to choose choice no.1

Once a year, I have to come back to the country to celebrate New Years Eve. So I guess there's no choice there.



I'm not much of a liar... I only lie when it involves a joke. But when it comes to serious matters, people won't want to rely on me to lie, cause I usually end up saying the truth...

ok Uzumaki.i must tell this until you understand what i say.

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judging from the story,it seems you dont like her,and not attempt to do serious relationship to her.

do you know her true personality? is she a person who easy to forgive someone?

- if you think that she can forgive you,then tell her it's a joke. maybe she can understand you. both you and her will live in peace.

but if you dont know her true personality..

then dont say that it's actually a joke. honestly,i dont want to gamble. if her heart gets broken by the truth,it'll be the worst.. she might hates you more than ever. girls always think with her feeling,rather than logic. if her feelings get broken,not only you,but maybe it will affect another man. she never trust any man in the world for being liar.

- if you dont know her well,than leave her. try to forget what have you done. many future awaits you. you dont have to be sad. nowadays,the population of girls are more than man. if you lose one,then try a new one.

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you're choosing to be alone,and only loving God? that's not false though.

but think logically. womans are created to couple with man. so does Eve created to be with Adam.

both man and woman has it's own rule in this world. we cannot deny it.. we need woman in our life. as a friend,or as a wife.

maybe you feel happy the first time you live alone. but,as the time going,you feels lonely..

nobody wants to cook for you.

nobody wants to clean your messy room.

nobody you can hug in the night.

honestly,it's hurt to be lonely..

I never said I wanted to be alone. I want to be loved. But by my family and friends, and she's one of my friends. Honestly? I know her personality, but not enough to know if either she can forgive me or not. But i'm wiling to take a risk here. If she forgives me, i'll try to become a better friend. If she doesn't, i'll try to rebuild our friendship from scratch.

I know that we need women to live. They pretty much do the household chores^^. But that's not what I want. I want them to just look out for me, to be around me when i'm sad,happy,angry or whatnot. To be just friends, bestFriends and no more...

i understand.

but if you feels dont uneasy because you're forced to do it,just pretend the problems never happened.

if she loves you,but you dont want to tell her the truth,then wait until the right time you'll say it. maybe it's the best choice.

keep your relationship with her. seeing that you dont want to be serious with her,keep your distance. dont get too close nor too far. just a friend relationship.

if anything happens and you need my advice,feel free to ask.

altough i only giving you some advice through this monitor,but at least it can help.

1st I can only say that this was reallt crukle joke even if you did a April fool's joke.

2nd You can only hope that she don's not hate you after this I mean even I how can take jokes but not in that kind of joke and see what it gave you
a problem so big that you friendship can be destroyd on how she handels it.

and 3rd tell her that is what a joke and be prepared for the consequence's.

What exactly did you say, if you just said I like you wutev, you can amend it by taking it into the friend zone. However, if you said I like you all confession style, then I suppose you have a more serious problem. Just claim momentary insanity and apologize and tell her she deserves someone much better =).

What exactly the status of your situation Uzumaki? Have you done anything yet? Have you said anything to her?