Idiotic Boy needs help!

ultenth, that was great. As for you Uzamaki, there have been very good posts regarding your situation, I think your decision should be much easier now...but really. I would not have done that as a joke. Ever.

I did not mean that to imply about people, but just the general idea of the ways relationships and sex works, as well as stereotypes about the sexes fed to us by the media. And I'm talking about the way you thought of such things before you were even a teenager. I bet if you went back and could recall some of what you thought and "knew" of those three things, and the way they worked, you'd probably get quite a laugh out of it.

I'll be honest I remember not thinking anything about it, I figured I was too young to care about such things so I didn't. That's no big deal, I didn't say you were talking about people in general I was just giving my perspective, so it's all good. I was borderline tabula rasa (blank slate) for a very long time, when I did eventually come out of that state I was still behaving like I was 12, fortunately I've gotten over that and now the way I behave varies from 5-76 (complaining about how old I feel when I remember that I've known my best friend for half my life, especially when this 15 yr old starts mouthing off to me, I'd hit him but I am not his parent and I don't think I'd last 5 seconds in jail. Oh, and I love yelling at people to get off my lawn, those people piss me off.)

On the bright side, Uzumaki, you know what never to do again.

In response to what some other people have said, it's not completely necessary to have sex. I think that one can still die feeling that they've lived a full life despite not having sex. Although the fact that Uzumaki said that he forgot about sex, probably suggests that he intends to lose his virginity. So, are you saying that when you promised yourself that you'd be single forever, you didn't consider sex?

Seriously, whatever, if something is meant to happen, it'll happen. Heck, let a girl come up to you and ask you out. Wait a second... This has changed topic, hasn't it? Meant to be about what you should do about your friend, not why you should or shouldn't be single, eh? Well, maybe people have decided that you gotten enough advice on the first issue, and now wish to voice their opinions on the latter.

All I have to say about that is if you believe that, either you've never done it, or you're not doing it right. I think once in your life everyone should get in a fight, have sex, fall in love, and get their heart broken. To me those are 4 of the major experiences in life, as you learn a lot about yourself, your fellow man, and the world around you with any of the 4. Fighting is the most powerful negative physical experiences you can have without dying, and sex is the most powerful positive one (again if done right). Same goes with falling in love and getting your heart broken except for emotional instead of physical. There are probably others out there that are fairly important as well, but if I were talking to an alien or an angel or demon or whatever that asked me "what 4 things should I do in a human life" that is what I would tell them.

All I'm saying is that it is not entirely necessary to have sex. And no, I have never had sex before, but if one had enough faith in their god, given that they had one, I don't see why they should find sex a necessity. I believe those 4 things you spoke of happen for a reason, and they will happen if they're meant to, and not otherwise. But just a difference in opinion.

I couldn't die happy knowing I missed out on an experience like sex.

amen.

I agree, but the same could be said for just about anything. You could live your entire life in a dark room being fed food pellets and water. But that doesn't mean it's optimal, or recommended. I'm not saying you should do any of those 4 just for their own sake, and seek them out purposefully. I'm simply saying that you shouldn't decide ahead of time NOT to do any of them, and put yourself in a position where it would never be possible, which is what it seems the OP is doing. Because (especially if you believe in a god) that seems to me to be an insult to the existance we are gifted with, and to refuse to allow ourselves the opportunity to experience them I would think would be insulting to any prospective creator.

I agree, but sex isn't THAT big a deal. Virgins are the ones who overhyped it in the first place.

I'm not saying it isn't over-hyped, I'm saying that as much as it affects culture that I would feel like I failed somehow by not having it.

I hate to be that guy but: "Then you're not doing it right."

But seriously, I've had bad experiences, and great ones, so I can understand why people have varying views on it. A lot of times when it's bad it's neither person's fault, sometimes two people just don't work well together sexually. But most of the time it's cus someone (or both) don't know what they are doing, and one (or again, both) don't know how to communicate well about their needs.

I never said sex isn't good. I just said that it isn't the "best thing ever". I've had better sandwiches than some of my worse experiences...but that's an unfair comparison. That was an AMAZING sandwich.

Oh, don't get me wrong, sometimes (especially depending on the girl) I'm the one complaining of a headache to get out of it. It's tiring, and messy (again, depending on the girl, and guy too I guess), can be awkward, and sometimes you're just not in the mood. But when the partners are well matched in terms of sexual tastes (a very underrated compatability issue imo), feelings for each other, and if the mood is right and you have lots of free time and energy, it can be mind-blowingly amazing.

Yes. Never play or toy with a girls emotions. Oh, and never pull pranks on special occasions and Holidays. Got it.

Lolo, just leave it alone. Don't do anything.

..........Uzumaki i believe you are either a dumbass or a dumbshit... seriously..... what in the name of hell were you thinking when you played that joked....

I mean THAT IN NO CIRCUMSTANCES SHOULD BE SAID AS A JOKE!!!!!!! A confession is serious and expected to be taken seriously as well that is not a funny subject to joke especially to a girl!!!!! That was so IMMATURE AND STUPID OF YOU!!!!!!!!! I'm telling you if i was there when you said that it was a joke no matter if i know you or not i will give you a damn fist to your face!!! No matter what toying with a girl's heart and playing with their feelings is the worst thing to do to a girl!!!!

I think that the topic is exhausted.