film_orange wrote...
Ziggy wrote...
film_orange wrote...
I stopped reading at the end of this paragraph:
The general consensus is that, if a guy doesn't want to go to a party and get terribly drunk with everyone else in the company, then he obviously has some element of his outside life — a girlfriend, a hobby, et cetera — that is more important to him than the company, so any work he does is less worthy of trust than any work done by anyone who "respects the company" enough to go to all the parties and match the boss drink for drink. Try skipping a party as an employee of a Japanese company: Instantly, you're The Guy Who Skipped The Party, you're The Guy Who Doesn't Care About The Company. Or try going to the party and not drinking. I literally have to say "I'm allergic to alcohol" 40 times before they'll stop pushing me to take a drink.
Was there a reason why with that paragraph?
He just takes so damn long to say things. He could have said it in two sentences: "Most people who skip out on company parties have something else to do. If you skip out on a Japanese company party, you become That Disrespectful Cunt Who Skipped The Party." Whiny bastard.
I don't think there's anything wrong with the way he communicates this bit; he's clearly fed up with some of the 'tradition-before-thought' culture that seems prevalent in Japan (from what people do generally say having lived there). A lot of his points are sound, but that isn't the problem; the problem is that he is a man on a mission to pick everything about Japanese society that annoys him, half of which revolves around him being foreign. There are an equal amount of problems in the same stead about any society, surely. We tend not to recognise them in ours unless they are pointed out, in which case you might well say 'yeah, that is a bit odd, but it's just how it is', because what else can you do? For the spectator to that culture, it might be something of quizzical interest or minor annoyance, but if you have any desire to be in the country rather than - as this guy seemingly does - just moving from one to the other to find out what you don't like, you should be seeing them as quirks or minor annoyances. He might get pissed off with store employees shouting slogans just like I get pissed off with supermarket checkout workers asking if I want X or have X to bolt on to what I went there to buy, but you live with that shit because you ultimately can't or wouldn't want to be anywhere else.
Valid points, but essentially non-issues.