long distance relationships

do they work? dunno why but this question jus popped into my head i wanna know what you fellow fakkuers think

No. Trust me, a relationship is hard enough on a face to face level. If yo add distance you just never get good results.

No, they don't work. Just end the relationship on a good note and move on.

Seriously, don't try. It doesn't even matter if she has the willpower of a Mormon monk. Shit will happen.

They are never fun, never easy, but they do work. All that matters is that you care about the other person enough to deal with it. I'm in the 3rd year of my own (cross country) and we're closer then ever.

;P
Honestly.
I had one last for 2 years.
:] and we didnt break up because of cheating or anything.
We just deciede to break up.
that sounds weird but if you knew the whole story you would get it.

No, it doesn't most of the time. One important part of a relation ship is personal contact. In rare occasions it could work, but usually they have to be within a few years.

Well i also saw him twice in that whole thing.


<< those where 4 wild weeks.
XD

It depends how much you care and trust the person. If your someone who gets jealous quick over anything then maybe a long distance relationship isn't right for you. But if you seriously love someone, distance won't matter to you - you'd just have to try hard to seriously make it work.

THEY DO NOT WORK.

In very rare cases, if you both love each other more than anything in the world, and trust each other to the ends of the earth, will it work.

i'll do it only for the ones i love the most,although it rarely works.

99% of the time no.

Sure enough, it all depends on the people involved. I had one that worked for almost a year and another that ended in months.

The bottom line is how much -you- care about the other person and whether or not they are willing to commit to it whole-heartedly.

Love is love no matter what and nothing can destroy that but doubt.

long distances never works for me,so it's a big no-no.

If you believe maybe, because it revolves around trust just like a local relationship. I dunno, I just wanted to sound like a hopeful >.>

Long distance relationships work only if you can make them work.

wait was this directed at me? if so then im not in any relationship what so ever

No, relationships are about being in contact with each other. Not by being in contact by phone or computer.

My advice, don't do it and move on

What i'm going to say has already been said.....

i think it is very hard for it to work frankly....not only you have to have willpower but your partner has to be wholehearted and commit to you, as you can see nowadays humans have weak willpowers unlike a few generations ago so I think the cases that a long distance relationship work are very rare