Meeting new people
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I'm used to it, I'm alone at work (my job is totally solitary), I'm alone at home, I'm alone everywhere
well I am sure sometime down the line I'll try again but I am such a complete fuck up-socially-that I am just, sick of being rejected and treated like shit
it was so bad before I dropped out of school because of it.
I try, even to this day but it gets harder and harder and I get worse and worse at it
I mean, people try and "cheer me up" by telling me its all overrated and shit, then brag how much they love it
I just, don't care anymore
it is too hard and I'm too afraid
well I am sure sometime down the line I'll try again but I am such a complete fuck up-socially-that I am just, sick of being rejected and treated like shit
it was so bad before I dropped out of school because of it.
I try, even to this day but it gets harder and harder and I get worse and worse at it
I mean, people try and "cheer me up" by telling me its all overrated and shit, then brag how much they love it
I just, don't care anymore
it is too hard and I'm too afraid
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Have you ever tried Psychotherapy or visited a Psychiatrist? It helped me a litle. I got an idea to try talking with new people step by step. At first only being able to be in the same room, then ask teacher for something and maby my classmates etc. Also i got some pills.
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yes I was diagnosed with a bunch of shit, most of which there are no drugs for
besides I am rather distrusting of drugs
I was born with social problems I'd rather not talk about-needless to say it makes life all fucky
besides I am rather distrusting of drugs
I was born with social problems I'd rather not talk about-needless to say it makes life all fucky
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hamppu89 wrote...
Have you ever tried Psychotherapy or visited a Psychiatrist? It helped me a litle. I got an idea to try talking with new people step by step. At first only being able to be in the same room, then ask teacher for something and maby my classmates etc. Also i got some pills.I've went to a psychiatrist before and I still have problems meeting with people. I have no problem talking to someone new and all but it's the anxiety that comes afterward when you're always the one to start the conversation after a while. People feel insecure about their standing, as if the 'friends' they just made either lost interest or wasn't interested in the first place. That discourages the idea of meeting new people because people will also feel that if it continues, people will start to notice and attempt to spread out rumors or give you weird looks. I've had this problem since 6th grade but it's gotten better after a few years. College still sucks through.
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Tribly wrote...
hamppu89 wrote...
Have you ever tried Psychotherapy or visited a Psychiatrist? It helped me a litle. I got an idea to try talking with new people step by step. At first only being able to be in the same room, then ask teacher for something and maby my classmates etc. Also i got some pills.I've went to a psychiatrist before and I still have problems meeting with people. I have no problem talking to someone new and all but it's the anxiety that comes afterward when you're always the one to start the conversation after a while. People feel insecure about their standing, as if the 'friends' they just made either lost interest or wasn't interested in the first place. That discourages the idea of meeting new people because people will also feel that if it continues, people will start to notice and attempt to spread out rumors or give you weird looks. I've had this problem since 6th grade but it's gotten better after a few years. College still sucks through.
That sounds just like me! One reason why i don`t like to start a conversation is because i think im just a thrash and others don`t care about my opinion. Even though i have improved, there is still too mutch to go before i can reach the "normal" level. It is just annoying that im studying an area where i have to be social.