Oh shit.... need some help please....
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mibuchiha
Fakku Elder
@Azreli: ugh...don't say that...our friend is all happy with his love now...no peeking, ok? ^_^
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mibuchiha wrote...
@Azreli: ugh...don't say that...our friend is all happy with his love now...no peeking, ok? ^_^no no...its just a feeling i want to put in the air...she might be bat shit insane enough to agree...
i'm not interested in peeking...this is for HIS benefit...milk it for all its worth ya know?
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dont be jealous... i know how you must have felt... let me tell you something, it wasnt easy walking away from a relationship... i lost three women to guys that are playboys (save the last one because he was my best friend)... its like ripping your heart from your chest... im not gonna accept her anyway... not because of thinking its wrong... but to not hurt her.... this is for the best... tomorrow i can clearly say to her this: you love me but you dont know who i am...
thats why im evading women now but it seems god doesnt want me to do that because sometimes i think i have an involuntary affinity with women (dunno why)... so my body hurts, yes but what hurts me more is the fact that im letting her go for her own good... i dont want the pain to be relived again...
thats why im evading women now but it seems god doesnt want me to do that because sometimes i think i have an involuntary affinity with women (dunno why)... so my body hurts, yes but what hurts me more is the fact that im letting her go for her own good... i dont want the pain to be relived again...
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zeKer_pencil wrote...
dont be jealous... i know how you must have felt... let me tell you something, it wasnt easy walking away from a relationship... i lost three women to guys that are playboys (save the last one because he was my best friend)... its like ripping your heart from your chest... im not gonna accept her anyway... not because of thinking its wrong... but to not hurt her.... this is for the best... tomorrow i can clearly say to her this: you love me but you dont know who i am...thats why im evading women now but it seems god doesnt want me to do that because sometimes i think i have an involuntary affinity with women (dunno why)... so my body hurts, yes but what hurts me more is the fact that im letting her go for her own good... i dont want the pain to be relived again...
ur no fun...but remember
this kind of kindness gives nothing to either side. nothing in life is gained from playing it safe, EXCEPT regret and the nagging "wat if" questions that's gonna plague you in about...a week.
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i will have fun... at exactly 1 am shes gonna do the 'tralala'... even though i said NO! fifteen minutes ago... said if you're gonna let me go, take my purity as my parting gift"... thats a shocker...
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mibuchiha
Fakku Elder
oh well, even though i still kinda disagree with you, but at least now you've made your decision basing on some firm principles. i just want to prevent you from deciding from some vague things like "incest is wrong" because you'll regret that later on. now that you're firm on your decision, well, let's hope for the best....good luck to you.
btw, walking away from love sounds kinda easy from me now...because just like i said, i literally have my love ripped from me in front of my very eyes...and i can do nothing about it. so to people walking away from love, i'll say "at least you still have the choice of walking away...."
but yeah, about your decision, i don't think it will benefit any side.
btw, walking away from love sounds kinda easy from me now...because just like i said, i literally have my love ripped from me in front of my very eyes...and i can do nothing about it. so to people walking away from love, i'll say "at least you still have the choice of walking away...."
but yeah, about your decision, i don't think it will benefit any side.
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mibuchiha wrote...
oh well, even though i still kinda disagree with you, but at least now you've made your decision basing on some firm principles. i just want to prevent you from deciding from some vague things like "incest is wrong" because you'll regret that later on. now that you're firm on your decision, well, let's hope for the best....good luck to you.btw, walking away from love sounds kinda easy from me now...because just like i said, i literally have my love ripped from me in front of my very eyes...and i can do nothing about it. so to people walking away from love, i'll say "at least you still have the choice of walking away...."
but yeah, about your decision, i agree with azreli...i don't think it will benefit any side.
do note i'm not condoning accepting her feelings. i say put her on sex friend status...
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mibuchiha
Fakku Elder
Azreli wrote...
do note i'm not condoning accepting her feelings. i say put her on sex friend status...
oh. why is that? i think being sex friends is worse than rejecting her...i mean, that seems like wishy-washy somehow...
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mibuchiha wrote...
Azreli wrote...
do note i'm not condoning accepting her feelings. i say put her on sex friend status...
oh. why is that? i think being sex friends is worse than rejecting her...i mean, that seems like wishy-washy somehow...
*deviousness
considering her obcessive behaviour i have a feeling this calm acceptance of her rejection isn't going to last.
So to match her wishy washy feelings (love at first sight- is the basis of her feelings AKA mindless lust) put her in a wishy washy situation (a situation to sate that lust but not get close to the point of being completely truely influencial) and as time will go by she'll either lose interest or you'll gain interest.
all the while you've got a assured sense of poon to refine and practice your skills
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mibuchiha
Fakku Elder
uwah....very easily you decides that her love is mindless lust...i pity the girl. she waited for quite some time already....going all the way to find her love, and mindless lust is all that's stamped to that pure feelings....
you can easily tell she waited long, from all the posts....
you can easily tell she waited long, from all the posts....
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mibuchiha wrote...
uwah....very easily you decides that her love is mindless lust...i pity the girl. she waited for quite some time already....going all the way to find her love, and mindless lust is all that's stamped to that pure feelings....you can easily tell she waited long, from all the posts....
yes but the basis of a crush is that the image or ideal created from the little information she knows is pure fabrication.
in otherwords. the person is hot and that person creates a personality around that person to compensate for her lack of facts, resulting in a false image that will later be crushed by the truth
by keeping her at close proximity, she'll have some exposure to the truth but at a distance that the guy isn't in that much danger.
if her image of him is close to the truth her feeling WILL THEN BECOME LOVE...and once such factors are at solid states. .
the real decisions can take effect now with full efficiency.
If her image of him proves false then she'll get bored of him and move on
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Oh great we got Mr.Baka, Mr.brit and Mr. lonely no afens mibuchiha. I to am now Mr. lonely. He the my thoughts to Mr.baka. First the love at first site thing. For me it was a bitch. I went 7years waiting to see her agian. age 11 to age 18. I never slepped with a girl because I waited for her. So like I say I crazier then a bat out of hell. I meat her at a coffee shop and with in 20mins I know that the things that I liked about her were still there just she didn't want any thing to do with those. I spent the last 5 mins going in to every emoution one could have because I wasted 7 years waiting. I waited a week thinking that there was a way to still like her.
I was wong in the end. So don't be to eagor to shot her down. I say give it a week or two (more like a month). Let her cool down(she is all happy and exsited right now) to be with you. Give her sometime to think. she dosn't know you ether. Just say you want to go slow, if she really cares she'll do it for you. Get to know her better like friends, then think this out. Find out if she is a half cousin or if she is even blood. If you can live with the anwser then give it a whirl. Your right. Odds are you will end up losing something in the end but, say no and you lose. So at least have and lose then have nothing and lose. You will feel the same ether way if you lose. I know that it's hard I just lost my girl few months a go, but trust me the feel of waisting time even short time (like a yearor two) is something she will take to the gave if you shoot her down now. Give It some time. Your really only thinking of your self.
I was wong in the end. So don't be to eagor to shot her down. I say give it a week or two (more like a month). Let her cool down(she is all happy and exsited right now) to be with you. Give her sometime to think. she dosn't know you ether. Just say you want to go slow, if she really cares she'll do it for you. Get to know her better like friends, then think this out. Find out if she is a half cousin or if she is even blood. If you can live with the anwser then give it a whirl. Your right. Odds are you will end up losing something in the end but, say no and you lose. So at least have and lose then have nothing and lose. You will feel the same ether way if you lose. I know that it's hard I just lost my girl few months a go, but trust me the feel of waisting time even short time (like a yearor two) is something she will take to the gave if you shoot her down now. Give It some time. Your really only thinking of your self.
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YamaKaji wrote...
Oh great we got Mr.Baka, Mr.brit and Mr. lonely no afens mibuchiha. I to am now Mr. lonely. He the my thoughts to Mr.baka. First the love at first site thing. For me it was a bitch. I went 7years waiting to see her agian. age 11 to age 18. I never slepped with a girl because I waited for her. So like I say I crazier then a bat out of hell. I meat her at a coffee shop and with in 20mins I know that the things that I liked about her were still there just she didn't want any thing to do with those. I spent the last 5 mins going in to every emoution one could have because I wasted 7 years waiting. I waited a week thinking that there was a way to still like her.I was wong in the end. So don't be to eagor to shot her down. I say give it a week or two (more like a month). Let her cool down(she is all happy and exsited right now) to be with you. Give her sometime to think. she dosn't know you ether. Just say you want to go slow, if she really cares she'll do it for you. Get to know her better like friends, then think this out. Find out if she is a half cousin or if she is even blood. If you can live with the anwser then give it a whirl. Your right. Odds are you will end up losing something in the end but, say no and you lose. So at least have and lose then have nothing and lose. You will feel the same ether way if you lose. I know that it's hard I just lost my girl few months a go, but trust me the feel of waisting time even short time (like a yearor two) is something she will take to the gave if you shoot her down now. Give It some time. Your really only thinking of your self.
well thank you for the summary that wasn't neccesary.
on closer inspection of your text you are just repeating what we all just pointed out, only in a form of a self righteous speech.
how arrogant.
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YamaKaji wrote...
I was wong in the end. So don't be to eagor to shot her down. I say give it a week or two (more like a month). Let her cool down(she is all happy and exsited right now) to be with you. Give her sometime to think. she dosn't know you ether. Just say you want to go slow, if she really cares she'll do it for you. Get to know her better like friends, then think this out. Find out if she is a half cousin or if she is even blood. If you can live with the anwser then give it a whirl. Your right. Odds are you will end up losing something in the end but, say no and you lose. So at least have and lose then have nothing and lose. You will feel the same ether way if you lose. I know that it's hard I just lost my girl few months a go, but trust me the feel of waisting time even short time (like a yearor two) is something she will take to the gave if you shoot her down now. Give It some time. Your really only thinking of your self.
well thats finished enough... like i said i HATE IT when people have a solid point... i still have one week of recovery and im gonna use that time to find out facts... after doc takes a look at my ripped muscle and shit later... coz man yamakaji YOU ARE RIGHT... i am mr. idiot... but i sometimes become one in order to not hurt someone, instead im doing the very opposite here... also azreli's right... thats one step closer to impulsiveness
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mibuchiha
Fakku Elder
the summary is hardly coherent, too. to Yamakaji, heheheh...you're quite mistaken there....i don't think i'm lonely....at least i got fate to complain to in my case....i just think that its better to accept reality. so i don't like that mr. lonely thing...and i don't like you calling names to my friend either.
btw, to avoid misunderstanding, i'll tell you this. i didn't dump my ex, and she didn't dump me too. it's kinda complicated....i guess.
btw, to avoid misunderstanding, i'll tell you this. i didn't dump my ex, and she didn't dump me too. it's kinda complicated....i guess.
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mibuchiha wrote...
i just think that its better to accept reality. so i don't like that mr. lonely thing...and i don't like you calling names to my friend either.btw, to avoid misunderstanding, i'll tell you this. i didn't dump my ex, and she didn't dump me too. it's kinda complicated....i guess.
hey man thanks... btw my right arm tendons got so messed up that i cant lift heavy things with it lest it rips any further... you're right.. i have one crazy vitality... im gonna try to upload the pic in the cafe since i didnt bring my data cable nor my laptop has bluetooth.... ok? as for you and you're ex... well i think i got a piece of the reason pie... although i still dont know the taste of the piece... get what i mean?
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mibuchiha
Fakku Elder
zeKer_pencil wrote...
as for you and you're ex... well i think i got a piece of the reason pie... although i still dont know the taste of the piece... get what i mean?ugh...i gotta admit, i don't get what you mean...
btw, you're injured so don't force yourself...the pic can wait, your recovery is more important.....
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mibuchiha wrote...
zeKer_pencil wrote...
as for you and you're ex... well i think i got a piece of the reason pie... although i still dont know the taste of the piece... get what i mean?ugh...i gotta admit, i don't get what you mean...
btw, you're injured so don't force yourself...the pic can wait, your recovery is more important.....
thnx man... i hafta wait one week for this... so for now im still confined to the hospital room... with this annoying dextrose tube (why need?!) stuck in my wrist and my laptop doing the posts...
btw also i mean i partly understand your complication because i also got a slice of complicated relationships myself... and it wasnt all tears and heart stoppers...
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mibuchiha
Fakku Elder
luckily they still allow you to bring in laptops...some hospitals don't....
well...about mine, it's not that complicated, actually...just that it brought me too much afterthoughts...that i cannot bear sometimes. well, most of them are the "what if" thoughts, so yeah, in the end, i just need to accept reality...
if you care to know the whole story, just search for my thread...it should still be buried somewhere in this section....
well...about mine, it's not that complicated, actually...just that it brought me too much afterthoughts...that i cannot bear sometimes. well, most of them are the "what if" thoughts, so yeah, in the end, i just need to accept reality...
if you care to know the whole story, just search for my thread...it should still be buried somewhere in this section....