Rape fetishes?

How common is it for girls to have fantasies about themselves getting raped by other people? Has anyone had a girlfriend who's had such a fetish, and how/did you incorporate it into sex? (Was it enjoyable?)

I've had a couple of these lately, mostly involving my film studies teacher. [size=10](Who's actually kinda hot for a 38-year-old.)[/h] In the most recurring fantasy, he forces me to strip out of my uniform, then masturbate on his desk in his classroom with all the filming equipment. He films it himself, making sure to get perfect shots and angles. Then he sets down the camera and rapes me right there. *_*

Of course, it'd pretty much ruin my life if it ever did happen... and I don't think my boyfriend would like incorporating that into sex, rofl. But if my fantasies were less specific, would it be enjoyable/possible for him to work with it?

im no girl, but i do tend to have rape fantasies too, and itd be fine if my GF would have it. you never know, your boyfriend might like to incorporate that into sex too ;p and you guys might enjoy a different experience. And despite all thats been said, i completely detest rape and would literally murder a person if i discover that he is a rapist >>;

Everything but the teacher, lawl. That part might have to be ommitted.

I think it goes without saying that even those of us who fantasize about rape don't necessarily support it IRL.

This is interesting, and sounds like a good serious discussion topic.

First we have to define rape, " Which is forced sex and the victim did not give consent at all during the crime." So If you have a rape fetish, are you saying that you like hardcore, group sex, or both? Rape itself is not really about the urge of sex but an act of aggression to feed the criminal's ego.

i've known one girl who wanted most encounters to have some form of "rape fantasy" included... I'm not sure what it stems from but it was pretty hard to go with as it was against my nature... the whole "nice guy act" is real for me.

So i kinda see two fantasies there, first the rape & getting filmed. I don't see why he wouldn't be down doing them, specially if you don't even know yourself. It's a good thing to talk about these things. Knowing your partner fantasies can often bring a lot of spice.

In my case, it's probably the act of being dominated and coerced.

Group sex doesn't appeal to me, and there could be many definitions of "hardcore", too. Eg, torture, blackmail, continued rape, etc. (This doujin is what I mean by blackmail & continued. I'd consider that somewhat hardcore because of the mental damage it would do to the victim.)

I once knew a girl who told me that she sometimes had rape fantasies. She didn't go into much detail, just that she liked to imagine her future husband (no one in particular, and she wasn't married; I suppose just imagining doing it with her husband in the future) pretending to rape her, or something like that. She really wanted it, but she acted like she didn't, I guess.

The thing is, she had been molested at a young age and raped several times. Her rape fantasies may have been the product of a cracked psyche or a defense mechanism so that her being raped a couple of times wouldn't drown her in depression.

Moving on, I don't have rape fantasies, but I do have a rape fetish. I love to see girls getting raped. I used to feel bad about it, but knowing that just about every rape video out there is fake and that there are worse fetishes (and that I would never rape a woman myself), I don't mind it. I just go with the flow and enjoy getting off.

If I had a girlfriend who was into that sort of thing and wanted to pretend that I was raping her, I'd definitely try it. I might not be able to go through with it, but if I could, I think I'd enjoy it. As long as we had a safe word to ensure that I wasn't actually hurting her.

I never thought of it that way, but that really does make sense. Of course I've heard of the phenomenon of victims commiting the crimes done on them to others in the future, but never had it explained like that. It's interesting.



My boyfriend is about the sweetest, nicest guy in the world. (And tbh, I think I'm the dominant one in the relationship). I don't think he could even pretend to rape me. xD At least not without one of us cracking up or him feeling sorry for it. It'd be fun, certainly, but erotic? Probably not.

yeah i can tell you really wanna be the nice guy....lol

I had a girlfrien in high school that had a rape fantasy but i just diden't have the heart to do it as my sister and i were victims of said activity by our baby sitter who was a female kind of fucked up

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lol? i didnt bother to read the whole post..but your a guy u shouldnt know these thing! >.> im watching u =.= lol

To note before moving onto my opinion. I'm surprised at the amount of rape experiences that some of you guys are divulging. I guess where I live it's pretty safe.

Since I'm a guy, and I'm also a hardcore bondage lover, BDSM included, I definitely have rape fantasies all the time about girls in real life that I would do. Of course, I'm sane enough to not put them in action, but all the same, I wouldn't mind "raping" my lover. I think it's understandable for anyone to have rape fantasies, and while I won't go into the psychology of rape fantasies (similar to why people like bondage/BDSM), it's perfectly understandable.

you're new so Ill forgive the stupidity of this post...


as far as the girl you're talking about shag, the girl I previously mentioned also had a past of sexual abuse in her life... I really believe something like that can cause some severe mental (i want to say damage but that's not the right word) hang ups about this topic. I don't see how it's a defense mechanism though... that point seemed out of left field. I don't believe every girl that has been sexual abused will have this fetish but I do see a correlation between the two. As far as the area I live in, it's a fairly nice suburban neighborhood with a retardedly low crime rate and no conflict to speak of... but often the places you would least expect deliver the most surprising results... You never know what's going on in background.

That's actually true... and the thought is frightening.

Josef Fritzl, anyone?

I think we should refer to it as the Jeffrey Dahmer effect... sounds scientific.

hmm after reading both your post and shaggy jebus's post, it really gets me starting to think. This thing is starting to interest me, i might look more into it and possibly give you all feedback of the results =p

I hope you aren't alluding to the fact that you're going to try to rape someone... it's chuu all over...