What can I do?

Dammit, stole the words right from my mouth.

You could also try casually sneaking questions to him while conversing like,"you married?", or "You know, I've been here quite frequently and seen you around a lot, but I've never caught your name", which is essentially flirting, but hey, it's just an example on how to go about it.

Seeing as he knows your face, leaving your number is actually a very good idea. The simple act of replying to you answers a number of questions, most importantly, that he's single. It also means he's interested in you, and that, at the moment, he has the free time to talk, the act also tells you that he will probably want to meet with you in person, at a time he is free, and hopefully you are too. The most important thing to this process is not only do you leave your number you must also leave a name so he can mentally connect your name with your face.

And the whole, wait after work thing, don't do it. It's cute in highschool, or if you're already dating the person, but when it comes to introducing each other, it does not bode well.

this might sound a bit stalker-ish and a bit roundabout,but getting to know his co-workers well and drain some information from his/her would be a good start.

older,married waitress is adviseable though,and make sure that the co-worker won't tell HIM that you asks things about HIM.

good luck. :D

Hey, that's really great advice! I'm glad I asked here, because I wrote this in another forum, but nobody seemed to take it seriously there.

Thank you, FAKKU members ^__^

you could always thanked us by posting your pic naked

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...*facepalm* Gee, let me think about that first xD

Anyway, I will tell you how it went if I go to that restaurant next time. ^__~

Sorry for the double post, but we're going to the restaurant today. So I'm very excited, although unprepared.

Let's see how it works out ^^

Sorry for the TRIPLE POST >_<

But I think we just got closer :D My mom helped a bit too if you wanna know. So, the evening:

1) He didn't wear any rings.

2) He flirted with me as always, and I think a little bit more intense. For example: He downright stared at my breasts and told me I had a nice shirt.

3) We could talk a little bit this time, and we found out some things, like: he's French, has worked in South America for two months. Not his name though, but that's okay, because we left him my mother's card, where she wrote my name and my number and she told him he should give a call from time to time, maybe she could invite him to one of our regular parties...

To quote the game Portal: HUGE SUCCESS! :D I'm so happy right now.

congrats.

Wow, you're mom is awesome. I told you giving your name and number was a good idea, you should be grateful to your mother, cause apparently you didn't inherit her cleverness J/K! Good Luck.

Fakku should start an alternative service of providing matchmaking advice. :D

In any case, we are glad that the first step worked out and hopefully, everything will go smoothly from now onwards.

@ aznstoner: That doesn't have anything to do with cleverness *pout* Jk, I know what you meant =D

And to all who wrote in here: A big THANK YOU ^^ I'll write in here if something happens.

i think he means that your mom has bigger balls than you; thats the gist of what hes saying.

Well, I guess that it's true then D:
Seriously though, lol.

I hope you the best of luck and tell your mother that she rocks!

I'm sure if you give your waiter friend a pout, he would melt for you.


Wait, he's French? Oh, boy.

Yeah, I hope this doesn't become too embarrassing because well, I can speak four languages fluently, but French is the language I'm most unfamiliar with which means it's hard for me to communicate in French when I never had one with whom I could talk...except for my cousins...who live in Switzerland >.>

On a scale from 0 to 10, I'd rank myself 6 or 7 in French language.

Oh and don't worry, I understood your last comment =D

Are you sure? French males are just.....scum.

How I hate(and somewhat envy) them so.

Haha, don't really like them too, but I think this one's cute ^^ I hope to get to know him a little better, I shouldn't make any judgements just yet.

If he ever starts to pull out a french accent to seduce you, don't bother with him. (unless its a joke)

But yeah, intentional french accents = dangerous waters