Would you want to get married?

Yes after me&my partner are both ready mentally, physically, and financially.

Even a wild nomad caveman like me would(maybe)wanna settle down and let things flow slowly, raise kids, lives in a ranch, eats our ranch's product, pick up the kids, snuggle the wifey after the kid's asleep.....you know, the usual cliche.

Marriage is a lot like prison

Prison takes your life away
Marriage is giving your life away

I personally hope that i never get married mainly because people today just aren't as committed as their parents were back in the day.

oh,nice idea .
That's the words that you said to me,right??
lol

Btw,polygamy is needed,since humans never get satisfied with 1 thing .

Talk for yourself, and not others.

Yea, no.

Haha, at least maybe the option.

I personally would love to get married. I'm also hoping to marry my girlfriend soon. I feel as if she is the 'one'.
I'm even hoping to get kids cuz' I love them sooo MUCH!! XD

I choose girls carefully. I like a girl that is both good outside and especially inside. One that is kind, playful, mature and understands her partner (me).
That's how I ended up with my girlfriend and believe it or not but she has been my ONLY girlfriend and her likewise.

So yea, I do believe that marriage is good because it's not JUST a piece of paper but it's also a spiritual and personal promise to both partners! It shows how much the couple loves and trust each other!

<3 you baby!!

When my mother was 19, she traveled across the country to the biggest city of Norway. She met this amazing man, she fell in love and she was so happy. He's not my father of course, he is on the other hand the father of my brother. Thing is, when they married he changed. My mother wasn't a woman anylonger, she was a thing. Everything she owned was a property of himself. She wasn't allowed to go out with friends, he'd beat her half to death, and she'd work her butt off. Just for him to waste her money.

Do I want to get married? No, I don't.
Why don't I want to get married? Because I don't need a piece of paper to prove my love and faithfullness to a person. And because marriage is like a cage, and if it's meant to be you shouldn't need pages.

My mother tried to leave her husband many times but he hunted her down, he found her no matter where she went and dragged her back. In the end she somehow managed to escape, found my father who didn't speak norwegian nor english and she fell in love. They been together for over 20 years now and still not married. They been through hard times, jail, cheating, but their still together even now. And that's what a real relationship is supposed to be.

I'll get married when I'm ready. -__-
I mean when I have fully become a businessman and mentally ready. ^_^
Of course 'she' who always annoying me a lot must be ready too. ;D Hahaha...

is it just me or do many people invision many marrigis [ or whatever i can't spell] start out good then slowly fall down the hell hole into divorce.

i really would like to get married someday but so far i think i am just curesd with bad luck with women so idk whats going to happen. sigh

If you ever do want to get married and want to keep it, get an Asian partner. They tend to have more respect for you, and can be devoted for a long time. Im Asian and nobody in my family has been divorced or abused. They also tend to direct their anger at kids sometimes.

Back to the Question: YES, my parents would kill me if i didnt.

Muhahaha my wedding will be epic so yes I'd love to have a big fancy party, but beyond a lot of the wedding stuff I'd make it a huge lan party =D xD

I definitely want to get married. It may seem silly and girly, but I want to wear that big, white dress and see my soon-to-be hubby standing there, smiling like the goofball he is.

But, we've decided to wait til I'm done with college/get decent jobs to tie the knot. We've been together for two years now so I'd say around our 5th-8th anniversary it will happen. That way we can finance the wedding and live comfortably together, (since the number one reason why people get divorced is because of money).

Honestly, he's the only man that I would ever consider marrying him. Yeah, it's mushy, but he's the love of my life. I really can't see myself with anyone else, and he's told me the same thing.

i honestly don't want to get married right now. when i was little i used to think it would've been nice. but now, it feels like it's not that time yet. also considering the fact that i'm haven't dated irl TT^TT
<---meh is teh geek of the universe ;-;

Whatever zeph, I'm so l33t and I haven't gotten married either :D

[quote="gibbous"]Personally, I don't value marriage very highly, or even at all. It's ink on a piece of paper.
The relationship I'm currently in (6yrs) has outlasted any marriage I've seen among my peers. Why? Because if you're disloyal and dishonest with each other, if you're incompatible in personality, etc., no amount of vows and rings will nor should save you. On the other hand, if you are loyal and honest with each other, and you are compatible, then you won't need a piece of paper to confirm that. So, unless she wants to get married (not bloody likely, given her radical stance on the subject), I probably won't. If she wants to, meh, it doesn't outright bother me either. Marriage is simply devoid of meaning to me.


I agree with you, I would probably never get married first of all because people change constantly. A personality is never set in stone and can easily be changed throughout a person's life. Women see marriage as a way to change the things they don't like about their partner and usually succeed. If a man likes to read hentai manga and the wife finds it revolting the man can find his hentai manga in the trash can or burnt to a crisp in the fireplace. Of course this action would be understandable if the man was choosing hentai manga over sex with his wife or if he suddenly starting screaming names of girls from hentai manga instead of his wifes name

I think marriage is a way to say "this is it, for the rest of my life I want nobody but you"

Unfortunately the high divorce rate has diminished the sanctity of marriage - since now it isn't viewed as permenent or a real promise since it can easily be undone.

I don't really had the dream to get married, and simply put it isn't something I feel like I would need to do to prove my everlasting love for my partner.

However if my partner had the dream to get married and would really want to, I guess I wouldn't mind, if the time is right. I don't feel like it's mandatory but I'm not completely against it either.