KageMinowara wrote...
I wanted to ask any feminists on this site whether they ever consider the possibility that they might be wrong regarding their feminist viewpoints about the world?
One of the things that a professor of mine always told me was that its important for an academic (well for anyone really) to always keep in mind Socrates' famous line "All I know is that I know nothing." Meaning that as fallible human being, no matter how much learn, how much wisdom and knowledge we gain, we can't know everything. We can never see all sides of an issue, and we always have to be open to the possibility that everything we think we know about world might be completely wrong.
However one of things I've noticed about feminists is that they extremely resistant to anyone questioning feminist ideas, very often becoming angry when someone does so. I personally have even lost friendships with women just because I told them I didn't believe in feminism, or when I questioned the validity of certain feminist ideas. Because of this tendency I'm rather suspicious of feminist and feminists as I firmly believe that any ideology which does not allow people to question or doubt it is dangerous. And similarly, while not always dangerous, anyone who becomes angry with people just because they don't believe the same things that you believe to be mentally immature.
But maybe this is just because the feminists I've interacted with are mostly 18 to 20 year old university students and generally at that age people are filled with a great deal of moral certantity and the belief that they know everything (particularly about the evils of the world and that they are going to right them ^^). So I was wondering if there are any feminists here who are okay with people questioning and doubting feminism and feminist ideas?
I as a feminist, can't speak for all of us, but would like to put in a few words.
I believe that the questioning of certain stands is very important because I've seen some "feminist" take things out of context, become power hungry of the rights of men and woman. There are many things in the community that we end up taking different sides, because of different beliefs.
There are many topics in the feminist ideology, some may come across as something most don't doubt, like "rape is bad". But there are others, that in general would be wrong for not only woman, but for men as well.
There are feminist who are ignorant enough to believe feminism is a standing ONLY for women who deserve it.
There is many cultural standing to what is right and wrong(Different beliefs, different religions,etc) about feminism.
"
Basic Feminist Ideas
Both females and males who identify themselves as feminists disagree on many things. That being said, most feminists agree on five basic principles:
Working to increase equality: Feminist thought links ideas to action, insisting we should push for change toward gender equality and not just talk about it.
Expanding human choice: Feminists believe that both men and women should have the freedom to develop their human interests and talents, even if those interests and talents conflict with the status quo. For example, if a woman wants to be a mechanic, she should have the right and opportunity to do so.
Eliminating gender stratification: Feminists oppose laws and cultural norms that limit income, educational and job opportunities for women.
Ending sexual violence and promoting sexual freedom: Feminists feel that women should have control over their sexuality and reproduction."
I would like to point out the last key factor, "Ending sexual violence and promotion sexual freedom" This could be proven as a wrong standing.
Having to take in the fact of EVERYONE, should have this right. All humans should have this right, not only the females.
I have my own beliefs, such as abortion should be decision to the woman, I believe that we should follow our hearts and our "gut feelings" more than the decisions we make with our brains that are pounded with propaganda and ideas that are not our own.
I may be wrong, but I just go off how something makes me feel, if I don't like it, I dismiss it and leave. There are many times I've taken the heat for others, I stand up for everyone, and if that's wrong, I'll make it better.
*just woke up and may be jumbled*