Do you embrace your interest, or does it disgusts you?
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I'll never be ashamed for liking hentai but still only my gf and my closest friends know about it because of the stigma it has compared to real life porn, not because of me feeling guilty about it.
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novtrali wrote...
I'll never be ashamed for liking hentai but still only my gf and my closest friends know about it because of the stigma it has compared to real life porn, not because of me feeling guilty about it.
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Gravity cat
the adequately amused
BlizzStrx wrote...
novtrali wrote...
I'll never be ashamed for liking hentai but still only my gf and my closest friends know about it because of the stigma it has compared to real life porn, not because of me feeling guilty about it.I told one of my friends about my interest. He didn't seem too impressed at first. But now he seems actively interested in lewding Froppy from Hero Academia and Nami from One Piece. Still goes quiet when I post Nekopara memes to him though and I think he's getting pissed off with the Nia memes I send to him.
We jokingly call each other furries.
Banta, mate.
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Gravity cat wrote...
I told one of my friends about my interest. He didn't seem too impressed at first. But now he seems actively interested in lewding Froppy from Hero Academia and Nami from One Piece. Still goes quiet when I post Nekopara memes to him though and I think he's getting pissed off with the Nia memes I send to him. We jokingly call each other furries.
Banta, mate.
Nekopara's cute as fuck, I get where you're coming from.
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I've never been ashamed if anything there was a time where i was scared that people (especially my mother) would see it as wrong. But like another poster said i live by the words "as long as your interests bring no harm to others, who cares? ".
And from what i remember i've had that mind set from very young with made me internally clash with the church very often. My mother a very the devote cristian and we often went to church most sunday (i especially hated christmas church because of how long it can get) but i never really bought into it, for reason i wont go into to not derail the conversation.
I even took catechesis for my first communion, but deep down it was all empty and meaningless to me and just way to keep my mother happy or to do what my mother thought it was the right thing to do.
I would masturbate like a horny pre-teen / teen with what little material there was at the time (blessed be modern internet) and then confess to my local priest, hear him talk about it and at most i would refrain for a couple of weeks. Not because a sincere shame or regret but because the whole to communion thing, so my mother would be happy to see me take the communion and wouldn't have to lie about no commiting any sin (because weirdly enought despite my disagreement with the church i still belived that there was a god and i didnt wanted to lie to it)
But then i would go back to fapping and would delay my confession for months (like three or four) and the cycle would star anew. The more i grew the more i started to question both god and the church and the less interest i was into confessin my "sin". Eventually my mother would find out about my masturbation habits and my distancing from religion.....oh boy those were fun conversations.
I had a relapse into the church in 2010 because i was searching for a solution to my problems of socialization. The cycle mentioned before was still very presnet but instead of being for my moms sake it was for my new comunity ""friends"" sake. (it didnt lasted much more than a year)
Despite all this story and relation of my growing years with the church, i never felt real shame because i never saw what i was doing as wrong since nobody was getting hurt by it.
While im not vocal about sex, i dont hide it either and i have zero shame for my tastes on porn or hentai because im well aware of the diference between fiction and reality. One of my friends and me joke around every i buy something hentai "related" as doing "research" to wich he always reponds "For science" amd for the time being anyone who asks me about will get an honest answer (if in the future this causes some real problem im not gonna be stupid and do it anyway, thats why i mean with "for the time being")
And from what i remember i've had that mind set from very young with made me internally clash with the church very often. My mother a very the devote cristian and we often went to church most sunday (i especially hated christmas church because of how long it can get) but i never really bought into it, for reason i wont go into to not derail the conversation.
I even took catechesis for my first communion, but deep down it was all empty and meaningless to me and just way to keep my mother happy or to do what my mother thought it was the right thing to do.
I would masturbate like a horny pre-teen / teen with what little material there was at the time (blessed be modern internet) and then confess to my local priest, hear him talk about it and at most i would refrain for a couple of weeks. Not because a sincere shame or regret but because the whole to communion thing, so my mother would be happy to see me take the communion and wouldn't have to lie about no commiting any sin (because weirdly enought despite my disagreement with the church i still belived that there was a god and i didnt wanted to lie to it)
But then i would go back to fapping and would delay my confession for months (like three or four) and the cycle would star anew. The more i grew the more i started to question both god and the church and the less interest i was into confessin my "sin". Eventually my mother would find out about my masturbation habits and my distancing from religion.....oh boy those were fun conversations.
I had a relapse into the church in 2010 because i was searching for a solution to my problems of socialization. The cycle mentioned before was still very presnet but instead of being for my moms sake it was for my new comunity ""friends"" sake. (it didnt lasted much more than a year)
Despite all this story and relation of my growing years with the church, i never felt real shame because i never saw what i was doing as wrong since nobody was getting hurt by it.
While im not vocal about sex, i dont hide it either and i have zero shame for my tastes on porn or hentai because im well aware of the diference between fiction and reality. One of my friends and me joke around every i buy something hentai "related" as doing "research" to wich he always reponds "For science" amd for the time being anyone who asks me about will get an honest answer (if in the future this causes some real problem im not gonna be stupid and do it anyway, thats why i mean with "for the time being")
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I’m not disgusted by it but I definitely am not proud of it. It’s something that I keep to myself and joy myself
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There are aspects of hentai I dislike.
I find the theme of rape / force to be far more prevalent in hentai, whereas other tube sites have banned words like rape.
It's often something that frustrates me, and makes me worry a little for actual people in Japan. It makes me wonder what the culture is actually like, Do people think its normal for women to say 'no' or 'stop'? Do people actually excuse men for raping women because they are too sexy?
That's the part that makes me not want people to know I like Hentai, because I really don't like that part.
I find the theme of rape / force to be far more prevalent in hentai, whereas other tube sites have banned words like rape.
It's often something that frustrates me, and makes me worry a little for actual people in Japan. It makes me wonder what the culture is actually like, Do people think its normal for women to say 'no' or 'stop'? Do people actually excuse men for raping women because they are too sexy?
That's the part that makes me not want people to know I like Hentai, because I really don't like that part.
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When I discovered masturbation as a young teen, I took it right in
stride. For me, it was just part of growing up. Jerking off was a lot
of fun and that's all there was to it. I did it in private, of course, but
I never felt any guilt. The urge-to-fap is virtually irresistible, so why
feel guilty about it?
When I discovered porn, I took that in stride, too. It was a lot of fun
to look at sexy pictures and feel the urge-to-fap building up a good
head of steam, and I never felt guilty about that, either.
Needless to say, I have no problem with hentai and I embrace it
wholeheartedly. It's fun to browse through the stories until I find
something that triggers the urge-to-fap. Everyone who comes to
Fakku is looking for some sort of fap fuel, so there's no reason
to be shy about it and even less reason to feel guilty about it.
stride. For me, it was just part of growing up. Jerking off was a lot
of fun and that's all there was to it. I did it in private, of course, but
I never felt any guilt. The urge-to-fap is virtually irresistible, so why
feel guilty about it?
When I discovered porn, I took that in stride, too. It was a lot of fun
to look at sexy pictures and feel the urge-to-fap building up a good
head of steam, and I never felt guilty about that, either.
Needless to say, I have no problem with hentai and I embrace it
wholeheartedly. It's fun to browse through the stories until I find
something that triggers the urge-to-fap. Everyone who comes to
Fakku is looking for some sort of fap fuel, so there's no reason
to be shy about it and even less reason to feel guilty about it.
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Most definitely not proud of it but its not really any different from erotic lit which as been around for centuries. A lot of the content is frowned upon in the eyes of peasants so i wouldn't advertise it my interest. But damn some of these artists hit the sweet spot in terms of the arcs and images.
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Embrace it in what, real life? Nah, no way, nu uh. I'm nit going to bring out this NTR thing to real life nor I will put it into application. Good read though.
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It gives me an avenue to explore the more unusual parts of my sexuality. Plus until I move out and become more interesting as a person I won't be getting laid, so I have to get off somehow.
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I wouldn't like my parents to find out i like hentai because i feel like they wouldn't "get it". As for myself, i discovered animated hentai as a young teen browsing the internet and i never felt even once that they were weird, in fact i felt like they were more enjoyable to me than normal pornography almost immediately.
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When i was younger when i looked at and used certain tags i was disgusted with myself. As i got older i came to terms with that its just art of my sexuality.
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I don't think I can really embrace any of my fetishes in real life, considering it would be physically impossible, but I'm not disgusted by it either. Though, I do sometimes have that post-nut clarity where after you're done you just look at the screen and think to your self "man, how did I get off to this?"
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I'm not ashamed of my interests, but I know that most people would find it weird so I don't talk about it unless I know the other person is comfortable with the topic.
