How is Being Gay or a Virgin a bad thing..?

^ ouch...that hurts lol. Though, it is usually about circumstance. And really isn't a choice. Though I would think I should be a bit concerned that to some getting laid > respecting people. Among other things and people being generally cruel.

In my opinion it isn't a bad thing to be gay or to be a virgin. Guys tend to make a big deal about pointless things and create insults that don't even make sense. Like the insult "Kid" or making fun of some person because of a certain bit of equipment they have.

Either way, It isn't bad to be either period. Those who would say otherwise may have some serious problems with accepting people who are different or simply are just not fortunate enough to find the right person. My 2 cents. Kind of

religion, culture, influence and basically the environment we live in factors the way people think and behave. I personally think being a virgin isn't wrong. As future generations emerge the more changes we see, like people/kids are less mannered, some kids are actually having sex at the age 14 or 13 it was on news, they are influenced by their peer that it's wrong to do this or that. Also everyone is different and we can't control things and I wish that some wouldn't think being homosexual is wrong because I have friends who are either bisexual, lesbian or gay (when ever I hear the word gay I always remember my grandma saying gay means happy... random, ikr..?) Others can't accept people being different but their still people...

Being Gay is not a crime, heck it's not even a big deal to begin with. it's just that people have this different views about what being "gay" is.

I love gay people, my close fiends are gay and honestly even my roommates are lesbian. and living with them for four years is no different from living with "straight" people, actually they're more fun.

Cultural and Stereotypical perceptions are hard to break. and honestly, I feel offended when Justin Beiber is referred to as "GAY" I mean that's really insulting for Gay People.

I don't think being gay is a bad thing if that's who you are. I don't think being a virgin is a bad thing if it's by choice. If you are a virgin because you haven't met someone that you think is special enough to have sex with then it can suck at times but at the very least it is a feather in your cap that you aren't being a douche going around having meaningless sex just because society has tried to brainwash young men into thinking that is what they are "supposed to be doing" at a certain age.

I see nothing wrong in being a virgin, other than the carpal tunnel haha..

Nor do I have any problems with gays/lesbians

As I am a virgin. I tend to cringe at the "Go lose your Virginity" Thing. I find that slightly disrespectful. I think we should be as open minded as possible. So my opinion is if you don't want to be called it, DON'T CALL SOMEONE ELSE IT!!!

It's laughable really. I just thought of the irony of the both.

You see in some religions being gay is a sin while being a virgin mean your pure. It's funny because while the reason gay are called out is because of the religious influnce being a virgin is marked bad in todays society. I find that funny, and have to say: This is why I'm atheist.

Anyway, like I said before religion is one of the big reasons gays are considered bad in society. There is also fear and feeling of indiffrence that people feel that causes gays to be called out. It's like racism on a smaller scale. Though personally I would not hang out with a gay guy I think if it's his choice to be gay then he should not be called out are branded bad for it. Sadly, this will never go away because fear and insecurity is human nature.

I don't know about the virgin thing though...

Never heard of the insult "go lose your virginity" but if ever i hear it, i'd more or less say "i ain't gonna whore myself for you." as for the "gay" as insult, to be honest i used them a couple of times especially those who use underhanded tactics on the games i play. Thinking about it, i don't really know why i use it nor do the people who call me that when they fall for my traps. It just happens i guess.

Don't rub me the wrong way, I got a cousin who's gay and he's pretty into cosmetic and even going to the lengths of using up most of his salary for beauty products. I don't have anything against them although if I am to engage on a physical engagement, I will never hold back even if the one I am against is a woman. It's how I show my respect for my enemy.

Don't be a dumbass. Neither of them are bad. The majority of the world is fucking retarded though. Gotta do your best to ignore it.

What the Fuc#? whatever a man want's to do it's their choice, you can't go around telling people what's a man can do or can't do it's like communism. I live for the democracy what other's opinion are overruled in this country. Well maybe in the islamic world they do not prefer man to man sex but that's their problem don't forced their idea of what sex is to this country. We foremost a democracy nation and will always be like that.

I wonder what's the problem with man to man sex? did it bring harm to those who hate it? if yes prove it that it can caused a major panic outraged or something that can caused a chaos, if none happen then let it be..

Personally i do not hate man to man sex, although i don't take part in it but i respect the choice of other on what their doing. Fuck all those who against man to man sex (just like communist for their ideas to their people by forced).

Neither is a bad thing in my opinion. However, questions like this tend to be a matter of perspective. From a religious standpoint obviously one is bad and the other isn't. However from a social standpoint, albeit a rather stereotypical one, either can be described as bad. Both can also be described as personal choices, but being a virgin is more of a personal choice than being homosexual.

It isnt. just some people are assholes, who probably themselves havent touched any other tit than theyr moms :P

But with seriousness:

Virginity or being gay/lesbian/ bi doesent ruin a human. You still can be talked. Im now friends with one guy who is gay. Higly intelligent conversatsions can be spoken with him.

There's nothing wrong with being a virgin, but i have this thing against gay people...
i feel uncomfortable around them

It takes one male and one female to make a baby, god made adam and eve, not adam and steve.
you cant baby with two dingus's...it- its jus!...IT ARE NOT HOW SEX WORK!

Cough, A lighting and chemicals made life. Science has proven that.

Second, i had the same issue until i met some of them. talk to one. It helps.

Just a heads up, if this turns into a religious war, I will get a mod to lock this thread.

Sorry about it.

sorry...im still kinda new here, it wont happen again boss