I'm Bi-curious, is that okay?
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Harakigora wrote...
I have a question for everyone. I'm male, for years I've been atracted to women and have never layed eyes on a man. Up until this year, I've been meeting people who has pretty much influenced me into being bi-curious. Up until now, I've been having mixed feelings about men and women. I can't help it at all, and my mother gave me the "God doesn't like gays" talk because she found some Hentai in my computer, (Shemale, gay, etc) so she assumes I'm gay, but I didn't have the heart to tell her that I'm bi-curious.
My friends are homophobic and I'm heasitant to tell them I'm a little attracted to men. That includes my family too. People tell me it's okay to be atracted to men, but so many people are telling me otherwise.
I'm very confused on what I should do. Especially when my family turns everything serious into a joke. I need a different opinion. Is it okay to be bi-curious?
I am with you. I feel as if I am also Bi-curious. I have had feelings for both males and females for the last few months. My ex-girlfriend was Bi-sexual. She had no problems telling her parents and friends, some of her friends left her, but she gained new ones. Her parents accepted who she was and that was that. Your life is not an election, unless you are the only voter.
The point that I am trying to make here is that it is your decision to decide what happens to YOU. Others can not decide for you, your mother is just trying to do what she thinks is best for you. But she has no right to decide the rest of your life. Your friends may leave you, but with those friends gone, you have the opportunity to make new ones that like you for who you are, not who they think you are.
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Legendary_Dollci wrote...
It is naturalWhile I do agree with all the above statements, this I can't agree with. It isn't "natural". Now, natural doesn't necessarily mean good or bad, the same way a mutation of something can be good, as is variety. Nature wants us to reproduce, therefore I can't rightly agree that any sexual actions with the same gender are "natural". Again, this doesn't mean it's bad, it's just the same as every other change in life. Considering the fact that wrong and right are opinions that is irrelevant in the first place. The fact that we have brains that go slightly beyond basic instinct (while still relying on it) means that we do many things that aren't natural.
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Officialis wrote...
Legendary_Dollci wrote...
It is naturalWhile I do agree with all the above statements, this I can't agree with. It isn't "natural". Now, natural doesn't necessarily mean good or bad, the same way a mutation of something can be good, as is variety. Nature wants us to reproduce, therefore I can't rightly agree that any sexual actions with the same gender are "natural". Again, this doesn't mean it's bad, it's just the same as every other change in life. Considering the fact that wrong and right are opinions that is irrelevant in the first place. The fact that we have brains that go slightly beyond basic instinct (while still relying on it) means that we do many things that aren't natural.
Not sure about bisexuality- but homosexuality does occur within nature, so- ultimately- who the hell knows.
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devsonfire
3,000,000th Poster
Your life, your choice.
I never thought for 1 second that I like men.
It's just me, a straight guy. End of story.
This is your story, you decide how to end it.
I never thought for 1 second that I like men.
It's just me, a straight guy. End of story.
This is your story, you decide how to end it.
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Here are a few tips, ready?
1. Find yourself a comfortable and calm atmosphere
2. Think about what is it that you like about males and females
3. Take a good trusted friend who understands your curiosity and talk to him/her.
It's OK to think about it, no need to stress yourself out. I've had plenty of bi-sexual friends and even gay friends and I talked to them about it.
If it is sexual curiosity that you are wondering then I guess you are gonna have to experiment to see if it is that what you are looking for, being bi-sexual isn't really that bad ( I am straight by the way ), so just experiment and see for yourself. Go get some experience, you don't have to tell the world about it, just make sure for yourself to clear things up.
1. Find yourself a comfortable and calm atmosphere
2. Think about what is it that you like about males and females
3. Take a good trusted friend who understands your curiosity and talk to him/her.
It's OK to think about it, no need to stress yourself out. I've had plenty of bi-sexual friends and even gay friends and I talked to them about it.
If it is sexual curiosity that you are wondering then I guess you are gonna have to experiment to see if it is that what you are looking for, being bi-sexual isn't really that bad ( I am straight by the way ), so just experiment and see for yourself. Go get some experience, you don't have to tell the world about it, just make sure for yourself to clear things up.
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Harakigora wrote...
My friends are homophobic and I'm heasitant to tell them I'm a little attracted to men. That includes my family too.if they can not accept you for who you are, they are not really your friends.
same goes for your family. that will be the hardest to accept for you, but your family should love you no matter what. the beauty and horror of family is that you can't pick and choose who they are. there are people in my family who i dispise, but if anyone fucks with them, they fuck with me. as the saying goes, blood is thicker than water.
there may be some in your family who will turn against you, but there will be others who will stand by you.
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Harakigora wrote...
My friends are homophobic and I'm heasitant to tell them I'm a little attracted to men. That includes my family too. Don't let your friends hold you back from exploring or being who you truly are. If you can't talk to your friends and family about this, there are other people who have been through what you are going through and would be willing to listen. I would say get involved in the LGBT community, if you have one in your area. Like maybe your school has a group, or maybe there is a gay bar you could go to to meet new people. Even if there isn't anything around you, look for LGBT websites.
Also, you don't have to define or label yourself right away. If you know what you are and want to identify that way, that's great. If you aren't ready and are still searching, that's okay too. Don't let other people define you or tell you who you are because only you know that.
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The decision is up to you. Just ask yourself buddy, are you willing to get butt pounded by another dude? If so, then more power and lube to you.
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We fap to fictitious drawings
This isn't the place to attract prudes and/or people who you care you do in the bedroom(or whatever room strikes your fancy)
Anyways, like others have recommended it might be the best bet to be careful who you tell. If you do this and still find friends/family rejecting you then they truly aren't worth it.
This isn't the place to attract prudes and/or people who you care you do in the bedroom(or whatever room strikes your fancy)
Anyways, like others have recommended it might be the best bet to be careful who you tell. If you do this and still find friends/family rejecting you then they truly aren't worth it.
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Being bi-curious is fine. I was bi-curious earlier in my life and then I got a girlfriend for the first time, and today I identify myself as being bi-sexual
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The fence is not shameful or lacks wisdom if you feel the same way about it. In the end , you will do must needs to be done to be happy.
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You know, guys?
I honestly didn't think anyone gave a fuck about my situation. Just reading what you guys have to say about it, I'm very enlightened about it. I talked to one of my closest friends about it, he is also bisexual. And he completly understood where I was coming from and agreed with me. I'm actually glad that I have someone to talk to and agree with me without dumping on me.
I'm feeling a little better, thanks guys.
I honestly didn't think anyone gave a fuck about my situation. Just reading what you guys have to say about it, I'm very enlightened about it. I talked to one of my closest friends about it, he is also bisexual. And he completly understood where I was coming from and agreed with me. I'm actually glad that I have someone to talk to and agree with me without dumping on me.
I'm feeling a little better, thanks guys.
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Harakigora wrote...
You know, guys?I honestly didn't think anyone gave a fuck about my situation. Just reading what you guys have to say about it, I'm very enlightened about it. I talked to one of my closest friends about it, he is also bisexual. And he completly understood where I was coming from and agreed with me. I'm actually glad that I have someone to talk to and agree with me without dumping on me.
I'm feeling a little better, thanks guys.
That is why we Fakku-ers exist, to discuss, help, and fap to good hentai.
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Harakigora wrote...
You know, guys?I honestly didn't think anyone gave a fuck about my situation. Just reading what you guys have to say about it, I'm very enlightened about it. I talked to one of my closest friends about it, he is also bisexual. And he completly understood where I was coming from and agreed with me. I'm actually glad that I have someone to talk to and agree with me without dumping on me.
I'm feeling a little better, thanks guys.
Glad to hear that. Hope you make the right choice for your life.
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Harakigora wrote...
I have a question for everyone. I'm male, for years I've been atracted to women and have never layed eyes on a man. Up until this year, I've been meeting people who has pretty much influenced me into being bi-curious. Up until now, I've been having mixed feelings about men and women. I can't help it at all, and my mother gave me the "God doesn't like gays" talk because she found some Hentai in my computer, (Shemale, gay, etc) so she assumes I'm gay, but I didn't have the heart to tell her that I'm bi-curious.
My friends are homophobic and I'm heasitant to tell them I'm a little attracted to men. That includes my family too. People tell me it's okay to be atracted to men, but so many people are telling me otherwise.
I'm very confused on what I should do. Especially when my family turns everything serious into a joke. I need a different opinion. Is it okay to be bi-curious?
Looks like the trap has gotten into you.
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Nothing wrong with a bit of dick slappin' if you will. I really don't see anything wrong with being bisexual, no one needs to approve of what you do in bed. Do what please you as long as it's legal lol.
If I ever met an attractive shemale like Bailey Jay, I'd go full out sex, even though I've always considered myself to be fairly straight, but if it's attractive, it's attractive.
If I ever met an attractive shemale like Bailey Jay, I'd go full out sex, even though I've always considered myself to be fairly straight, but if it's attractive, it's attractive.
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artcellrox
The Grey Knight :y
Badguy wrote...
If I ever met an attractive shemale like Bailey Jay, I'd go full out sex, even though I've always considered myself to be fairly straight, but if it's attractive, it's attractive.I can wholeheartedly agree with this. >__>
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The most important think to do is assess your situation. I mean, there is nothing intrinsically wrong with being bi, or gay. The devil is in the details, or more exactly, in the people that surround you. How will they take it? Are you prepared to affront the consequences? What you stand to gain is more than what you stand to lose by admitting that which you like?
Is it really necessary for you to tell them? Those questions are not meant as a way of saying 'gay and bi people should just stay in their closets!' Far from it. Those questions are meant for you to realize that there will be a reaction, and depending on how religious/intolerant your family and friends are, it can be a pretty harsh and depressing reaction.
Is it really necessary for you to tell them? Those questions are not meant as a way of saying 'gay and bi people should just stay in their closets!' Far from it. Those questions are meant for you to realize that there will be a reaction, and depending on how religious/intolerant your family and friends are, it can be a pretty harsh and depressing reaction.
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How the fuck did your mom found your hentais ? lol (I tought everyone was hinding them in a mysterious folder with a random name in the middle of nowhere ...)
But whatever :p As a bisexual , welcome to the club :D I don't know why anyone would be ashamed of that , it's such a great thing , we got double the porn to fap on ! xD
But whatever :p As a bisexual , welcome to the club :D I don't know why anyone would be ashamed of that , it's such a great thing , we got double the porn to fap on ! xD