I'm Bi-curious, is that okay?

Your story is well known to me.One of my best friends took several years to admit she was a bisexual.When she told me(I already knew since it was obvious) I finally got to understand more about her and we took our friendship to a new level.Not a sexual relationship but our friendship got to the point where I would gladly give my life for hers if she asked for it.

My point is that revealing yourself to that friend right now will increase the value of your friendship in the long run.It might work for your other friends too who will appreciate your courage and will respect you for making a stand.Your true friendships will strengthen not weaken,remember this.

Is that okay? Okay to who? Your 'homophobic' friends? Your family or yourself?

Most of the posts indicate that it is OK. Examine yourself, can you fap to real gay porn? If so, then it is ok to yourself, it is you. Whether or not it is ok to your friends and family is a question of your relationship with them and their personal views. Piece of advice: don't force them to see it is ok, they are entitled to their own beliefs just as you are entitled to your own sexual orientation.

IMO it's no biggie (Y)

Edit: Good for you, I see you have some understanding friends :)

Just try it out if Bu-sexual is a thing for you.

Today at school, I decided to go to my counselor and tell him my problem. We talked it out and he suggested that I call my mother and arrange a meeting so that I could come clean. It went surprisingly well. My mother told me that she would except me for who I am and what I do.

Not only did I find out that my mother would accept me, I also found out that being homosexual ran in the family. My aunts are both lesbians and I never knew that until now. This whole time, I thought my two aunts were sisters. I was so relieved knowing that my family would except me for me. I'm only heasitant about telling my father, though.

Hey, you already got your mother's and aunt's acceptance (sorry, being a grammar Nazi). Your father can't be that mad... hopefully...

Because we needed to know about your boners.

Anyway, it's great that you've decided what you are. Hope you enjoy the change and no refunds!

Its your choice.

Nothing wrong with that. Atleast for me.

Alrighty, it's a wonderful morning waking up at my house, and my dad calls me and asks if I wanted to talk to him about something. At this point I suspected my mom told him about me. I told him the story and I can tell, he seemed like he was worried. He asks me a few questions like:

"Were you in the act before?"
(I'm still a virgin, why would I?)
Or.

"What do you think bisexual mean?"
(Affection for both genders.)

But the thing that's gotten me in relief was that he said no matter what I do, he and my mother would always love me. I was literally holding back tears when he said that. For once in my life, I'm actually happy, that something good has finally happened to me. It just seemed a few days ago, I was filled with depression, trying to hold back and hide my feelings. Now, I'm glad, relieved, and.... Well, I don't know, happy to be bi, and my family accepts me.

Thanks for talking me into doing this, guys. It means a lot. :)

It's fine with me, just don't talk to any catholic people... They hate gays and think it's a "sin" to be gay.

Personally, my stance is the same as my Grandmothers. "Hate the Sin, not the sinner."

-The Fakkuist.

Honestly... it dosent matter what any of us think. Dont base your feelings about your circumstance based on how others feel about it. Its your life after all.

I'm glad everything is going alright! Good to hear that, instead of being mad, he was happy and even said his love never changed.

Good luck in your times!

At first I was going to reply "only if your a she", however after reading your statements I feel compelled to give you a real answer. Damn you for that. It's perfectly alright to be Bi-curious, gay, straight, it's really just when it gets into animals that i think a problem may exist. If the people around you can't tolerate you then there not the best people to be around. Good luck to ya, hope you figure it out.

Well, I'm proud for you.I understand how hard that could have been at first. You've made some big steps, good luck for whatever comes your way.

It's okay you're just going throught the 'ambivalent' phase, which normally occurs during your teen but wut ever, some are more ambivalent than others and others last longer.

I like a normal person just was atracted for wuite some time but never did anything. Now i only think about female anus and vaginas

Tis be fine. If it makes you happy, that is fine.

It all depends on you bro. I admit I'm also interested in that sort of stuff, but I choose to stay straight through and through. It's only a choice yours alone.

Damn YOU! that actually made me giggle so much that I have been caught on fakku by my little brother...
Let the blackmail commence! -_-

why are you asking us questions like we give a fuck. You should follow my example and not give a fuck. If u like to pack fudge or give or eat pussy it's all you no ones here to judge

Being Bi is perfectly okay hun, and don't let anyone say it is not.