Hiveminers wrote...
I don't see the reason as to why being a perverted girl is bad. In my definition, "perverted" means thinking about sex a lot while "slutty" is doing sex a lot with a lot of people. Though biologically, men are more inclined to be perverted this does not mean being a perverted girl is a disease.
However being openly pervert is a whole different thing. A an openly perverted male will receive negative remarks but an openly perverted female will receive more. People will naturally assume she has sex a lot. Since why would a predator reject a prey who asks for it?
That said, being openly perverted is bad in both genders. I've already said why females receive more hates. If you could just keep your pervertedness to yourself and few trusted friends. that would be great (a lover if you have one), that would be great.
I don't think men are more inclined to be perverted, not evidently at any rate. I think we perceive it as such for two reasons. One physiological and the other sociological.
The physiological one I think is quite simple although I could be
painfully mistaken and that is that, while both genders can and do enjoy sex and masturbation, males have a much harder time going without it. I obviously have no first hand experience in being a female but the impression I always had, even with girls I've talked to, is that is it much easier for a woman to go without sex than it is for men. If I'm right, this naturally means men will masturbate more often and soonr rather than later, they will be open about it.
The sociological is something I've seen someone point out here although I can't remember who or in what topic (it might even be this one, I don't remember). And that point was that in most social interactions between two single people, the males are often expected to make the first move. That gives them the white chess pieces and, like before, sooner or later they will be more open about their sexuality. Whether they are shot down or not, it matters not, at least not at this point. On the flip side, females don't often feel the need to be that open so even though they surely have their kinks, they don't just talk about them.
Part of the sociological issue is that, for some reason I can't quite make out, a man who has sex with multiple women is a hero and a woman who has sex with multiple partners is a slut. I don't understand the logic behind this. Kind of reminds me of Christian Purity pledges where church girls promise their fathers they will remain virgins although the parents don't want that for their sons. The math just ain't right...