I'm of the female gender, who likes anime/manga/Doujinshi and a lot of them are ecchi/mature/smut. So wouldn't that make me a pervert. It doesn't make me a bad person I don't think.
This topic alone raises the issue of double standard. If men can be depicted as perverts in the media, I don't see why women can't. Ofc my argument is not limited to only media. My wife is a very lewd person and personally I couldn't care less.
I have thought about this numerous times as well, and I never reached a conclusion. However, let me just throw out what I think. While a large majority of the society label perverted girls as "sluts," I say the polar opposite. Girls that are perverted should be proud of themselves, to the point where I would even respect them. Ultimately, isn't it a female's job to bear an offspring? I wouldn't exactly say that I respect prostitutes, but I think there is a fine line between having a perverted mindset and being a "slut." One can simply love and sleep with one man while having a perverted mind, but at the same time not be a "slut."
I don't see why a girl cannot be perverted. Now most girls aren't as forthcoming as a male I suppose, but doesn't mean it is not okay for us. I like being perverted and I know when to be and to be civilized I guess.
sexual urges is part of human. pervert means that a particular person is quite fond of sexual things, well i guess it is okay because woman is also a human.
BUT
i think it is also inappropriate if the woman shows her sexual urges to everyone. Human also must have self control. woman only shows her perverted side in front the man she loves because sexual intercourse is a way to express a great love
basicly
i really don't care women whether she was perverts or not. but i think women are super duper sexy if she can do homechores quite well and cooks really well..
(homechores quite well + cooks really well + Perverts = Suou Amane [Grisaia Series])
In all reality, I, as a guy, find perverted girls to be really awesome. I don't mean that in a crude way, either. I just find that talking to a girl equally perverted as I am is kind of odd, quite interesting, and really fun. I think that anyone should have the right to think and feel as they want, as long as they aren't harming anyone.
Personally, I think it's fine for just about anyone to be perverted. The whole thing about "perversion" is that it's really just a deviation from the expected norm. That said, if you really think about it, there are probably VASTLY more people into something a tad on the kinky side then there are people who have no kinks at all. Most people don't give a shit unless you are into something they find truly disturbing, or if they're one of those obnoxious folks who can't tolerate when someone else has a different view on something. Those kinds of people will always find something to try and call you out on. Ignore them.
I think its perfectly normal and natural for girls to be perverted aswell, aslong you dont harm anyone.
Being a girl myself I know when its okay to act pervy and when to not~ :3
I'm kind of experiencing this right now, actually.
My current girlfriend is 28 and while I have experience with physical things, she's a complete stranger to herself and sexual thoughts in general. To summarize something i said on another post, she only recently experienced her first "horny/turned-on" moment and was confused by the warmth in her crotch and why she was wet and "feels like I peed."
My answer to your question is no; girls are allowed to be as sexual/perverted as they like, just as much as guys are. In my girlfriend's case, she's not perverted at all, just starting to experience the first pleasures she's ever felt from her body and while she absolutely loves it, she's embarrassed as hell by it and feels lots of guilt, constantly calling myself and herself Echi and asking if its a bad thing. I keep telling her its not and completely normal, which she's slowly becoming more comfortable with.
(for the record, only gentle foreplay and light fellatio. she's never so much as touched herself, let alone masturbated, so the whole sensation is completely new and overwhelming to her)
Another girl i dated several years ago, as I later found out, was about the most sexual/perverted girl I've ever met. While an architect by day, she bartended at night and regularly went home with guys or took them to her apartment (above the bar) for a good fuck when she wanted it.. which was almost every day (when we were not dating). At first I thought she just liked sex and I ended up getting a lot of experience/'practice' in with her before she told me everything and I realized she was completely addicted to sex. Since she turned 14, she had not gone more than 1 week without sex (25 at the time) and I was the first person she dated who wasn't at least 10 years her senior (yeah.. means she was 14 and dated a 22+ yo). Masturbation? A good 3-6x every day, according to her.
Was she completely addicted to sex and a hugely perverted person? Yes.
Was it bad or a slut for it? Nah, I don't think she was.
Her tastes might not have been the same as mine and I broke up with her soon after realizing HOW MANY GUYS she's screwed with over the years, but that's personal preference and she was still an honest, great girl.
Male or female we all have wants, needs, and thoughts of sensual and sexual nature. I wouldn't consider a female a slut or easy just because she is a bit perverted. Awesome, cool and hot yes. That's just my thought on it.