Is it okay for a girl to be perverted?
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I think it's totally natural for girls to be perverted and it's even a good quality in a girl.
I actually find it weird and pretty annoying when I hang out with girls who are shy about it and afraid to be judged, mostly because my closest friends are a huge group of perverts, guys AND girls.
And funny thing is none of them is a slut, the most perverted people I know lost their virginity quite late or have a serious long term relationship or are still virgins! XD
On the contrary, girls in our highschool who were trying to pretend to be "pure" and were judging every girl for being a slut ended up getting a lot of dick by the end of the 8th & 9th grade.
I actually find it weird and pretty annoying when I hang out with girls who are shy about it and afraid to be judged, mostly because my closest friends are a huge group of perverts, guys AND girls.
And funny thing is none of them is a slut, the most perverted people I know lost their virginity quite late or have a serious long term relationship or are still virgins! XD
On the contrary, girls in our highschool who were trying to pretend to be "pure" and were judging every girl for being a slut ended up getting a lot of dick by the end of the 8th & 9th grade.
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I, personally, think it's cool for anybody to be as "perverted" as they want, as long as they don't actually grope, molest, or otherwise sexually harass anyone who doesn't want it. Hell, I personally find the hottest girls are the assertive and slightly dominant ones, who don't mind taking the lead.
However, as a general comment, I would note that there is one slight reason for females to be, and societally encouraged to be, less promiscuous. Females are the ones who get pregnant. If a male gets a female pregnant, they can pretend it wasn't them and/or otherwise run away from it. If a female gets pregnant, she has to look after the child, or face aborting it/giving it up for adoption. Her husband, if she has one, may then also be faced with some responsibility for the child - which would be problematic for most men if it wasn't actually theirs.
However, in this day and age of contraception, I'd say everyone should be able to have whatever safe, sane, and consensual fun they want, as long as they do it so they won't have a kid unless they want to. (I take a dim view of cheating, but more because of the betrayal of trust, and less because I take moral issue with it.)
However, as a general comment, I would note that there is one slight reason for females to be, and societally encouraged to be, less promiscuous. Females are the ones who get pregnant. If a male gets a female pregnant, they can pretend it wasn't them and/or otherwise run away from it. If a female gets pregnant, she has to look after the child, or face aborting it/giving it up for adoption. Her husband, if she has one, may then also be faced with some responsibility for the child - which would be problematic for most men if it wasn't actually theirs.
However, in this day and age of contraception, I'd say everyone should be able to have whatever safe, sane, and consensual fun they want, as long as they do it so they won't have a kid unless they want to. (I take a dim view of cheating, but more because of the betrayal of trust, and less because I take moral issue with it.)
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As long as it isn't taken it too far. I think both guys and girls are perverted to some degree and as long as it is tasteful and in moderation I think it's okay.
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JuicyPorkChops
Hentai Senpai
Yea, it's actually kind of a turn on for me... To a certain extent that is...
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Don't mind a perverted girl, I'd love more hentai doujin/Manga made by women and more women open about it. That being said a relationship with them is a fickled thing far more complex than needs mentioning.
Still, I hope the whole illusion that there is a difference between a perverted girl vs a perverted man would disappear (similar to the illusion of genders as a gamer) and I encourage more of them to be open. I also hope men to be more accepting and less aggressive (such trying to have sex with them) either RP or otherwise (ruins a good atmosphere for me). The only problem for me is I can't find people with the same fetishes (girl or guys) and would probably be unable to hold a conversation really long.
This is of course my thoughts on the subject.
Still, I hope the whole illusion that there is a difference between a perverted girl vs a perverted man would disappear (similar to the illusion of genders as a gamer) and I encourage more of them to be open. I also hope men to be more accepting and less aggressive (such trying to have sex with them) either RP or otherwise (ruins a good atmosphere for me). The only problem for me is I can't find people with the same fetishes (girl or guys) and would probably be unable to hold a conversation really long.
This is of course my thoughts on the subject.
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Xillia
Full Time Waifu.
Perverted girls are awesome. If she wasn't perverted with her significant other, I'm sure the sex life would be terrible. Women just aren't outright open about it as men are, as society sees them as delicate and graceful. So I assume they try to fit that stereotype around others as much as possible.
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[size=10][color=#9D0A0A]It's annoying when a girl is constantly flaunting that they like hentai just as much as a boy does it.
Being perverted, it depends. Being mature and talking about sexuality is one thing but being a fujoshit and annoying, not knowing people's personal space, constantly bringing it up in conversation where people are talking about something else completely, is another.[/color][/h]
Being perverted, it depends. Being mature and talking about sexuality is one thing but being a fujoshit and annoying, not knowing people's personal space, constantly bringing it up in conversation where people are talking about something else completely, is another.[/color][/h]
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Misaki_Chi
Fakku Nurse
김치 wrote...
Things like this make me glad to have been born a guy, but sheesh... woman sure have it tough.Guess it depends on the country for some people, but it's not really all that bad. I think I personally had more of an internal struggle (as do most people, regardless of gender, when it comes to sexuality, interests, and such). Once I stopped caring what people thought, it was a lot easier to not care about whether or not being a perverted woman was a good or bad thing. Also depends on how you carry yourself. As Choco-tan said, some women try too hard with perversion by pushing the subject or acting like they're some freak when in all actuality they are probably still pretty insecure about their stance. Other women who are more tsundere on women being perverted may be trying to hide the fact they like that sort of thing. In the end we're all different on this subject matter, but it's nice wen you just accept who you are and roll with it.
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Perversion? Perversion, really?
Here's the best definition I've read about a nymphomaniac: she's a woman that wants it more than you do.
People are not, as a rule, perverse. He or she might want something different from you, but that is not bad. It may even be pleasant, if you go along with it.
If he or she is into whips and chains and you aren't, well, best be parted. But this not a judgement of OK/Not OK. It's just that you have your own agency and can choose how you want to live.
Here's the best definition I've read about a nymphomaniac: she's a woman that wants it more than you do.
People are not, as a rule, perverse. He or she might want something different from you, but that is not bad. It may even be pleasant, if you go along with it.
If he or she is into whips and chains and you aren't, well, best be parted. But this not a judgement of OK/Not OK. It's just that you have your own agency and can choose how you want to live.
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Summer Salt
@rotoscopic
It's as okay for a girl to be pervy as much as it is for a guy to be pervy, I say. Ain't nuttin' wrong with it.
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Call me a slut all you want, though your getting the definition wrong, and then thats your problem. I think about dudes sexually, and thats because I'm human.
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ChibiFangirl wrote...
Call me a slut all you want, though your getting the definition wrong, and then thats your problem. I think about dudes sexually, and thats because I'm human.You are completely correct. "Slut" is a term that men use to shame women into obedience, to deny their humanity. I know I'm just fooling around on a porn site and lack of agency is part of the game, but in real life I am caring and compassionate towards women and men.
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Exactly, and I also feel that the term perverted is also very subjective as well. Because a man likes boobs or because a woman likes dicks makes them a pervert? No, that is our sexual preference. You are not a pervert unless you peep on others or invade someone's space.
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When Pandora opened the box, she let out all evil into the world, along with the sins of man.
Everyone is perverted, the difference is how repressed and expressive we are of it,
I am extremely expressive of my perverted self, not ashamed or anything,
all my friends are repressing their perversion unless around me,
(I draw confidence and other things out of people)
the only people I find hating on women and men about being perverts
are those themselves who hate their own perversion,
of course some people (mainly myself) are too perverted for the general society,
but others are able to avoid me, and such as myself, but only snobs seem to point it out and hating on us pervs for that.
Everyone is perverted, the difference is how repressed and expressive we are of it,
I am extremely expressive of my perverted self, not ashamed or anything,
all my friends are repressing their perversion unless around me,
(I draw confidence and other things out of people)
the only people I find hating on women and men about being perverts
are those themselves who hate their own perversion,
of course some people (mainly myself) are too perverted for the general society,
but others are able to avoid me, and such as myself, but only snobs seem to point it out and hating on us pervs for that.
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Slut is more of a definition of how loose a person is physically not how perverted a person is.
When guys are super perverted all they can do is masturbate but when a girl is super perverted and decides to go out and find a sex partner to satisfy her cravings that's when she crosses the boundry of being a slut.
When guys are super perverted all they can do is masturbate but when a girl is super perverted and decides to go out and find a sex partner to satisfy her cravings that's when she crosses the boundry of being a slut.
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Slut is when you're having sex mainly or only for power/money, sadly still a common practice. Though today you also see guys being equally prostitute as you see more womans with positions with power or a huge personal wealth. What people loves to use slut for but it's offensive and/or pejorative is for a easy girl* (to have sex with), what's funny, because to have easy girls doing it easy you need an easy guy to do so as well, so it's a perfect 1:1 ratio bar homosexual relationships.
And... today, in a world where you can use anti-conception methods to archive an easy 99.9% safe percentage, I don't think there's anything wrong for a girl to be easy or a guy to be easy. People have the right to live their sexuality as their please as long they don't hurt others in the process (be considerate) and don't take unnecessary risks (always use condom, I truly don't care if you feel it tastier without it, always use it).
Slut sometimes is used as a synonym for bitch. Not really too much to say about it, that's how language works, not like there is anything wrong in that as you can use bitch for a lot of circumstances that aren't really gender-related (we have fag and other synonyms for guys as well).
*I know it can be used in a non-negative way as well, but that's only for your own or for people do you know they will take it positive. In any other case it's negative.
And... today, in a world where you can use anti-conception methods to archive an easy 99.9% safe percentage, I don't think there's anything wrong for a girl to be easy or a guy to be easy. People have the right to live their sexuality as their please as long they don't hurt others in the process (be considerate) and don't take unnecessary risks (always use condom, I truly don't care if you feel it tastier without it, always use it).
Slut sometimes is used as a synonym for bitch. Not really too much to say about it, that's how language works, not like there is anything wrong in that as you can use bitch for a lot of circumstances that aren't really gender-related (we have fag and other synonyms for guys as well).
*I know it can be used in a non-negative way as well, but that's only for your own or for people do you know they will take it positive. In any other case it's negative.
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Holoofyoistu
The Messenger
yes. yes it is and i completly support it. I think girls should be able to be as openly kinky and fucked up as men.
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Yes it is. There's nothing wrong about expressing yourself the way you are. It's natural and you shouldn't feel ashamed.
Don't be afraid to be you and believe in the you that believes in yourself.
That being said, there is a line. And that line simply is that at which it becomes unhealthy, or in other words, addiction. But that applies to everyone and everything.
Don't be afraid to be you and believe in the you that believes in yourself.
That being said, there is a line. And that line simply is that at which it becomes unhealthy, or in other words, addiction. But that applies to everyone and everything.