ShaggyJebus wrote...
I really hate "friends" and family who try to change who you are, just so they can be satisfied. And that's all it ever really is; if a person wants you to change, it's never for your own benefit. It's because they believe that they would be happier if you changed.
'Nuff said.
I used to think that way too , but now I have a slightly different opinion about it.
There're some cases that some true friends or family members do it purely for our own good.
The problem is , they're too caught up into enforcing only one solution that they regard as the best one , and mostly they won't tolerate our rejecting their ideas.
Then it's up to us to live up to their expectation, or not .......
In my case I usually follow their solution , 'cause I'm one indecisive bastard after all ~