mibuchiha wrote...
I do agree that we can say fuck the violinist. But I'm still against abortion without any strong reason. And I am hoping you're not serious about the comparison.
...It's a serious philosophical analogy used in the professional field of ethics. In fact it's one of the cornerstones of why abortion is allowed. Using this analogy it's been determined that even if the fetus was a person...it wouldn't matter, and the mother would still have full rights to abort. As far as a 'strong' reason, I wouldn't know what would constitute a 'strong' enough reason. But how about this: There is ALWAYS a risk that carrying a baby to term could kill you. Is that a good enough reason?
Sex is biologically to produce offspring, for one.
I'm going to do an obligatory "So?" That doesn't mean we have to use it as such. In fact, that fact is as irrelevant as "The sky is blue." Doesn't matter that sex makes babies biologically. Sex with condoms tends not to biologically produce babies. What's your point?
Going to opera is at best an immediate pleasure, something I see as very trivial to say the least. Alright, for the purpose of the discussion I'll simply accept the pleasures, and the need for those pleasures, of sex and opera, one is a direct result of our hormones etc and the other is just a matter of taste, are equal.
Or maybe someone sexually gets off on opera music, so they go to the opera for a thrill? That...really wouldn't affect whether or not they're obligated to keep the violinist, and we both know that.
So, a question. This is the main problem of your argument to me. Are you really putting natural insemination and kidnapping and forced surgery on the same level?
So the argument's problem is that the analogy seems absurd. And it seems absurd because the unintended consequences of having sex and getting a baby, even though you didn't want to, are not the same as the unintended consequences of going to see an opera and get kidnapped and strapped to a violinist. While it's certainly true there's a lot more of an 'ick' factor, the point of comparison- a woman being asked to suck it up and carry the baby full term regardless of what she thinks, and you being asked to suck it up and keep that violinist alive regardless of what you think...are indeed the same.
If that's what you're trying to say, then I admit I would be on constant guard if i ever need to get involved with you. I'm aware that my thoughts are all over the place, and I'm sure my argument is not well structured but... let's try giving an analogy.
Feminism. The article I read mentioned things about career opportunity etc. And how women are disadvantaged because of their disadvantages due to gender roles in a traditional family further preventing their chances in those fields. All is fine with the article, but when they started talking about raising their children as "unpaid labor", no matter how true it is in the strictest sense, I think they already lose sight of what makes marriage and family is such a beautiful thing, the feeling that makes life worth living.
I hope it reaches you, the message.
Mmmm, if the message is that a natural process is a beautiful thing you think ought to be cherished(having children, getting married, having a family) well...great...but that's literally, and solely, your subjective opinion. I personally don't want to have kids. Ever. So clearly we're opposed on that front.
And in essence what you said is, "Yeah, they're right that they don't get paid enough in the workplace, and they don't get paid at all for really hard work in being a mother, but they should just be happy they're a mother!" Well...they ARE.
When women complain that they're not paid what they could be paid for doing mother work in a workplace equivalent setting, they're not actually asking for paychecks, they're asking for respect, which I am inclined to give them.
I myself am a feminist. I think women, and men, should have completely equal rights, be talked about in the same context, and all that good stuff.
What I'm getting from you is that the natural order of things is beautiful and should be cherished, and all I'm telling you is that's a naturalist's fallacy.