Would you date that pornstar or stripper you like?

Hm, on this:



First, I'm slightly confused to whom "we" and "they" refer. I'm assuming females for "we" and males for "they". Second, the claim is pretty temerarious (formed from temerity). I'm sure that there are people who do date strippers/pornstars.

Another point you could (have) bring/brought up is that some women won't date a man who is not financially stable regardless of his character.

Oh boy, what a difficult question. And no, I'm not being sarcastic.

Let me be honest though, because that's one of my faults: wether this woman is a stripper or a nude model, if we like each other and our relationship works, I would date her - heck, even marry her if I'm lucky enough.

However, if she was involved in the sex industry, I would just stay on good terms with her - as friends, but not as lovers. Then again, if by some stroke of luck she decided to leave her job and pursue a full relationship - especially if we already like each other - I would be overjoyed.

I hope I haven't offended anyone with what I said, and if I did, it wasn't intentional and I apologize. Maybe for someone this is trivial, but I think it's a fairly serious topic, not just to learn of one's standards, but also to see how we look at these people.

And to finish



as laconic (is it the correct term?) as it may be, this sentence sums up my thoughts pretty well.

Whilst I personally probably would date a pornstar/stripper I like given the opportunity, I can certainly understand the feelings of those who wouldn't.

I mean, could you imagine your friends (and potentially family), having seen and jerked off to your girlfriend having sex with another man? That would be pretty awkward to say the least.

And although men often act very masculine and emotionless, it would take a pretty accepting guy to not be slightly jealous of people who see her/have sex with her. Jealousy can lead to over-protectiveness, which can lead to obsession, which could lead to some yandere. You would need to keep your emotions in check to have a good relationship.

Well, you did ask us, so it's only fair.

I would, I wouldn't mind dating them for a while and see what happens. It can get tough with pornstars if people know them in public for example and I have heard that many people have bothered them in public even yelling out their name.

I don't see the big deal in dating a pornstar at all, some may actually be jealous for example. I have no doubt it would be a different and fun experience to date one.

In regards to the question: Most people would prefer not to date a pornstar because they aren't comfortable with their partners having sex with other people and probably the fear of them and then probably you catching STD's. Because, let's be honest, that kind of thing kind of spreads through the porno industry from time to time, no matter how much they try to protect against it.

It isn't the act of doing pornography itself, it's the infidelity I believe. I think for most people if their pornstar partner only made porn with them then they'd be totally fine with it opposed to them doing porn with random strangers.

As for strippers, they just play a role. There's no infidelity there, no more than a flirting bartender or bubbly waitress. I wouldn't have a problem dating a stripper under pretty much any circumstances, especially if I liked them.

As for the pornstar thing... personally, I'd be a bit uncomfortable with all the infidelity and risk of STD's myself so it'd have to be a do porn with just me thing and in that scenario I'd be totally okay with it otherwise probably not so much, but again not because of the profession but because of the infidelity.

It was and it is. But your point is that they weren't since they were answering a different question... which they weren't...

And what did I say? Did I not say that your point was that they were answering a different question i.e. the question you think should be answered?

From now on, you can expect short posts from me. As I recall, you claimed to be thirty something and already a father. If I'm wrong about that, shame on me. If I'm right, I'll stop trying since your fourth grade teacher probably did too.

Stripper- definitely, I mean why not?

Pornstar- if everything else about her is perfect (attitude, lifestyle other than porn, hobbies etc all match) then I would. It also matters if she's doing it for long term (10yr+) or a few years.

None!!

Let me explain this simple and direct answer:
I have normal standards, I don't want nothing fancy but I also don't want anything below grade. It would be extremely difficult to keep a relationship with them since Pornstars will always, I repeat, ALWAYS get banged up and sore from guys that have cocks the size of a Tank bullet where mine is basically nothing compared to them. Let's not forget that she has guys FAR hotter than the average Joe waiting to bust those nuts on her on the set, so we can safely say a honest relationship with them is out of the question.

Strippers on the other hand is also difficult but not impossible, she has a job to keep but she will be well known around the block so dark gossip and curses is a common thing for her. A relationship with her means you MUST have patience until she learns to quit her job and move out of the city, otherwise she will only get problems from hateful eyes, and when you are with her then you will go through the same.

So what I am trying to explain is that " I " can't have a relationship with either of the two because it's too complicated and create a disturbing depression between me and her.

What if the porn actress makes videos that aren't about having sex with another guy. Something solo maybe? Or she decides to do those type of videos while in the relationship, I probably would respect such a change that she made because she cares. And let us be honest here, the existence of "hotter" people has never stopped couples from sticking together. John Lennon and Yoko Ono were together and in my opinion she wasn't that good looking. It should be no different for a woman imo.

And why care what anybody else thinks? She probably looks like normal anywhere else other than her job. And all you really have to do is avoid the area where she works.

I can see your point there .. but I chose none because I myself don't have that mentality to handle such a relationship involving a pornstar or a stripper. I am extremely sensitive when it comes to such things, not that I have a prejudice against them, it's just that it attracts a lot of problems.

I just want to say, I am a stripper, Yes. and I do remove clothes for living, But I do not, and I know many others who do not want to be categorized with porn stars, porn stars are just legal prostitutes. All most of us do is dance, and serve drinks, chat with people.



So don't even get us mixed up again, or placed in the category with porn stars again.

You thank me even though I insulted you? ...

I now realize I have wasted my time.

What do you mean «no»? These things are being recorded, in case you don't realize... I insulted you and your immeadiate response was a thank you note. I thought your fourth grade teacher had failed you but I was wrong - she never even tried.

Alright, answering the question that people have been discussing and not hijacking the thread for a stupid argument. Check.

It's really a tough question. I don't think I could handle dating a pornstar, for the reason that, while I respect them and like them as people, (I've talked to a couple on the web), I'm not sure I could date someone who fucks other men for a living. I don't think my mind could successfully divide her work sex life and our personal sex life. Basically, it's me, not the pornstar.
As far as a stripper goes, I think I probably would. Sure, I probably wouldn't want to go in to her work and watch other men eye her up, but I could date one.