infrequentuser wrote...
I'm I the only one who thinks that this is weird beyond any descriptive language? Heretofore I have always thought that having a girl tell her sexual encounters would be rather stimulating. However, the reality is quiet disappointing and creepy.
I maybe the anomaly.
I believe I know what you're saying. Being of the male-given gender, we recognize our difference to women, both regularly, and sexually. It's natural to find the sexual perspective of women quite intriguing. My gender studies and theories have led me to believe this to be the result of the suppression of the sexuality of women across history. It's only natural that it be an enigma for how much has been an attempt to hide it. However, more exposure to more modern opinions reaching the light leads me, in my humble opinion, to believe that women see sex not so differently than men do, from a purely pleasure standpoint.
I believe there are still genetic differences that cause individual genders to be more predetermined to want to view and use it differently, but ultimately, it leads to a rather similar outlook.
I would not use the word disappointing. I would say that it is not as different as I thought it was. Perhaps we feel disappointed because we get our hopes up for wanting to satiate our curiosity of the unknown, and feel cut-short. You can pair this with a women hiding the nipples of her breast, or even hiding any specific part of her body. Does the act of her hiding anything not make you want to discover it more? It certainly explains why topless shots are less-effective, at least to me. The gratification is too instant. There is thrill in the chase and that is why the occasional tease drives us wild.
Ladies, don't interpret our philosophical perplexity as being ungrateful or a hindrance. If anything, you enlighten us as to the exposure of feminine sexual perspectives. This may not warrant a scientific-philosophical discussion, but leave it to men to try and apply logic.