Apology

SOMEONES QUOTE BUT HERE IT GOES!

I koko7 hereby apologize to Waar, Tegumi, Jacob, Um Gambler Any and all mods whom I may have offended.

Furthermore I'am deeply regretful of my actions in the past where as I made alts and disrupted the forums with antics and unsatisfactory behavior.

Moreover~! I apologize to everyone in ib who may have felt under attack by me and I will watch myself before I post a comment that may seem flame starting and irresponsible and inconsiderate of me.

*falls on all fours* (~//~) ok my heads hot and IA'm not sure if thats all of it. I'm no angel but IA'm not a devil either. If I've made mistakes I'm standing here owning up to them and bravely making amends.It's been a long time since I've been away and I really miss the forums and would like to post again. Anything I need to do to come back I will do my best to do it.

But do you actually realize what you did wrong? That's the most important part, realizing your mistake and fixing it.

How can you say that you're owning up to anything? The only time you admit anything here is when you're saying sorry to the mods.




>may have
>if

Conditional statements do nothing in an apology, especially when you're talking a lot without really saying anything.


EDIT: You're also just using blanket statements. You admit no guilt, merely the prospect of it. This isn't an apology, just a poor attempt.

Yes of course. I can type cutesy but I'm not a slow person. I did wrong and I'm making an apology what else could this mean!?

Sorry I'm passionate about getting back. Also eager since waar said "he dont like to be kept waiting".

@Lug I wrote I may have? Crap then I DID WRONG PLEASE FORGIVE MY CRUDENESS! (M_ _)M

You're still not saying anything.

You play the victim in the drama that is this whole ordeal when you are anything but that. You lash out at others then claim it's the other way around when they respond.

Don't be a robot.

Welcome back.

I'am sorry for snapping at you and everyone else and causing trouble.o-o is the caps too much?

omg omg it makes me like I'm not serious

edit::!

alright both of you relax, lug feels shes been wronged, do you feel like she deserves an apology koko? If so please make it and both of you stop bickering.

just saying, but I'm a he

I was about to say you grew tits! (o-o)

my bad.

Are you still thinking waar or waiting more? (o-o)!!!!

My heads exploding...need meds and tea...(T-T) Brb

For now you can keep posting and whatnot but I want more people to have input on this before i make the final call. I'm open to the idea but you really really don't deserve it.

I trusted the last time you said that. Sorry, but I don't think I'll be doing it again.

lol is this stickied as a looming reminder

i want to +rep waar but i cant (on the phone)

It will be unsticked sometime. o.o Maybe he has bad memory? lol

My problem isn't that she used blanket statements or the fact she didn't apologize. The problem is with the apology itself. An apology should be broken up to 3 parts: Recognizance of what you did wrong, Explanation of why what you did was wrong, and then explaining what you should done instead. Each part shows a level of sincerity: Recognizance, Clarity, and regret. Koko's apology itself only touched on recognizance and regret. Koko recognizes that she did something wrong but she didn't go into specifically what she did. Basically, she only saw the big picture and not underlining details of the whole affair.

Secondly, there was no clarity on why it was wrong. If you don't know what you did wrong then to you it isn't wrong, correct? In person's mind that may be case but to reasonable mind that is not. None of Koko's apologies to this point has she explained why what she did was wrong to begin with which is a very glaring problem. This may be the reason Koko has a sort of Victim complex because as Lugo stated, Koko wrongfully lashes out she sees nothing wrong; but when the person lashes back Koko then plays the victim. There is an implication that Koko doesn't think she did anything wrong if she's the first to play the victim or Koko knew what she did was wrong but instead of facing it she rather hide or let someone take care of it for her.

Lastly, Koko expressed that she does feel some regret. Well I can't that to be true or not, I can judge her past actions if that was the case. Koko made over 10 alts to just spam us and this site; and Koko also would try to blend like nothing happen to be begin with. Now moving on is one the steps of facing regret and dealing with it but one doesn't just the amount of bridges Koko has and not even recognize through words, thoughts or actions that, "Yes you did do that and people are going to be pissed." Thus making her unaware of the level of her consequences.

Basically, Koko's apology comes to the level of a child and I don't mean that to be malicious. Koko, who took a cookie from the cookie jar without permission, just like any child was told what she did, why it is wrong, and was commanded by Jacob and Waar (the parents) to apologize to them and us (Fakku as the other children). When child is forced they try to be sincere, sometimes actually is sincere, but gives an half-hearted apology and these are one of those cases.

Solid was allowed back (though I don't know if he was banned again or not). Why not let them all back? I'm indifferent.

imjustbored.surgery soon