Rise-chan wrote...
Hmm.... I'm no office person but... if its school.
My school life, mostly, has been lonely, I never had a true friend IRL, even now. There were some people I used talk to, but they used to just ditch me as if I'm trash. I was always treated negatively, as I was very fat, they used to bully me a lot, it includes drawing shit on the back of my uniform, directly beating me physically, and many other things. And it was like that from when I was young, and I used to just bear everything (for who knows why), until I'd start crying like a big baby, maybe its because I knew that'd just come back if I try to fend them off and that they'd try to take revenge...
People also used to call me girlish, since my nails used to be long (even now actually) and for my hair as well, kids sometimes think, that long hair are like girls, and thus, I'm girlish, or so it was that way back then.
I wonder if I properly followed the topic. > >;
(Also Gambler, I think you forgot to PM me?)
Thank you for your support in this topic, Rise-chan.
All of us might have been the victims of bullies at one point or another. Quite a while back, in a certain organisation, my looks were the subject of jokes. I don't deny that I was very upset and up till today, I still feel a little inferior when it comes to appearances.
However, we should not let bullies get to us. Although it is easier said than done, dealing with them in the appropriate manner (I am definitely not advising violence, which will make matters worse) could get them off our back.
I do apologize for not sending you a PM. Again, I am embarrassed to say that I have forgotten about the matter due to a few issues on my mind. Could you, as usual, trigger my memory again? ^_^;; My sincere apologies.
mibuchiha wrote...
How come I never knew this thread exists? This is a fantastic one, although we should have the topic changed from time to time.
Anyway; I'm just a university student. There was some kinda election before, but I didn't vote. My first year, this side won, next year other side won, then it won again, but I didn't see any changes whatsoever. I wouldn't say I'm ignorant to the politics of my college, I have a friend who loves this stuff and whether I like it or not, I always find myself listening to him about it. But yes, I don't care much about it. I don't see how it might affect my student life, for better or worse. Students simply don't have enough power to do that here.
As for the smaller scale our physics department, it's something similar. There were times when I was nominated, but one way or the other I got myself out of it somehow. I hate to be entrusted with duties like that, even more so considering it would eat up what little free time I have. But interestingly, my friend that loooves politics got the position and I'm always helping him with whatever work out of boredom. I guess I just hate it when I'm expected to do it.
Woot hoot, thank you for your support too, Mibuchiha!
Sometimes, it is wise to stay out of politics, but then again, we should not be apathetic to the situation. Unfortunately for us, student councils do not seem to be as fun as protrayed in anime.
It is a shame you are not very interested about the role of a leader in your department or college, since I suspect you have the abilities to perform well. Passion about it is important too, but I guess you are able to contribute in other ways, such as offering help to your politics-minded friend.