Serious virgin question.

Ok, I'm nineteen and I'm a virgin. I'm not really proud of this but niether am I particually ashamed about it either. It's just the way my life's played out I suppose. Anyway my question is this: Lately as my love for all thing hentai has increased my taste for real porn has decreased. Adding to this would be my many different masterbation techs I've tried and I'm starting to kinda wonder if actually having sex will be as awesome as it's claimed to be.

I'm starting to worry that maybe when the time comes and I do have sex, it won't be anywhere near as good as I've been imagining it would. So I figured I'd ask you guys (and gals) your opinion on this.

hahaha, spoken like a true virgin. we might be walking down different paths but we got the same scenery dude, im not sure what to expect either. all i can tell you is this:

i would like to say im... uniquely experienced. ive had a go with anal beads, masturbators and just about anything i could by myself. but i know that none of these compare to the gravity of having sex for the sole fact that theres somebody else there. the weight and warmth of a woman, the unpredictable touches of her body against yours... nothing can simulate those kinds of experiences... yet.

tsurayu makes a great point as well, emotional attachment plays a big role on what sex means to you and the overall atmosphere. i couldnt possibly delve into this as ive never really been romantically involved before but i understand the principles.

I'm a virgin myself, but I imagine you are seriously underestimating how much better it feels to have sex, especially with someone you are emotionally connected to. The whole experience doesn't necessarily have to be about physical pleasure.

I know what you mean. I'm twenty-one and I don't really have any interest in finding someone special in my life, and I have a fairly big addiction to hentai. Satisfied with it, but I know what's better. Haha XD

depending on the sex you might get disapointed, do it with a someone that accepts your preferences and will do the things you like

once you get a blowjob, you'll see that fapping with your hand just doesn't compare lol...though I myself have sadly not gone all the way either

yep, a blowjob from a girl you like its much better and if she likes you too she wont spit it ^^

I guess it depends on how good you imagine sex to be?
It's quite possible that sex is better in your imagination than it really is, when it comes down to physical pleasure alone.
The "awesome" thing about actual sex is not so much the physical pleasure alone, but the emotional component. That's why sex with someone you love >>> sex with someone you don't. Sex, as they say, is all in your head.
Also, there is simply bad sex. It's not always that wow-eee-yow experience porn, or hentai, make it out to be. They're fantasies, and fantasies always depict the ne plus ultra. Reality is different.


I d'no. I never got much of a kick out of blowjobs.

^5 for being in the same boat as me

i mean that in the least gay way possible

A blowjob sucks compared to your hand if the girl can't do a great job.

Also, about handjobs, a funny story - I was talking to a friend about sex and first experiences and whatnot, and he said that the first time a girl gave him a handjob, he thought, "What the hell? You're not doing it right!" And I understand that, because I felt the same way the first time I got a handjob. You're used to your own hand doing it fast and holding it a certain way, and then you get this girl who's not touching it right and is slow . . . maybe me and him just masturbated too much or something and got used to our own techniques. (That sounds gay. I'm not saying we masturbated together. HELL NO!)

Anyways, the best thing I can say is, it's not that big a deal. So you're a virgin, who gives a fuck? Life isn't all about sex, and only idiots think that you have to have sex before a certain age or you're a loser. Honestly, if I were you, I'd wait as long as possible. If masturbation feels great to you, and it's enough, then why bother with something else? You can always masturbate; you can't always have sex. You could have sex, think "This is the best!" and never want to go back to doing it solo. Then, you become a man-slut, fucking every bitch you can. (Unlikely, but I've seen it happen before.)

Now, I'm not saying that you should never have sex. Just don't buy a hooker to see what sex is like (unless you're rich and like buying hookers).

Hmm. For me, even as far as pure physical pleasure goes, a decent handjob beats fapping by a mile and a furlong. If I do it myself, I'll do it fast, because otherwise it'd be too intense to continue. If she does it for me, she can do it slowly and touch me in ways I can't myself because my body would start to give in. I rarely ever get that heart-beating-through-the-throat, gasping-for-air kind of climax from fapping that a handjob gets you. Not to mention the psychological part of it: The excitement of someone else doing it for you, or the kissing, or the feeling of her scooping you up with one arm like a quivering bundle of boy-jello while using her other hand on you.


Extremely true. Pick your own pace.

100% Virgin Here.

What is the evidence

lmfao that's probably the funniest thing you've ever said.

Fapping X Sex? Incomparable. But the girl sould be a little bit active and shouldn't act like a pure barrel lid.
And don't bother with really small details going the wrong way. It's almost always like that.

I (and I think almost noone) can't describe the goodness/difference too well. Experience is the best way.

Sex have some disvantages too guys.
Your hand is always willing, and it will never have a period...
lol

wow...seriously that was poetry lol. That also reminded me of that episode in family guy where the mayor marries his own hand lol

Adam:"Hey baby, want some adam west penis?"

Seriously though, this thread has helped me put to rest some of my worrys. Hopefully I can find a girl and stay with her long enough that we can figure out what we both want from sex. Also, I'm kinda surpriseed by the number of virgins here. I just assumed I would be one of the only ones. The longer I'm here the more accepted I feel.

You do have a good point there. XD

kirby, sorry if this is out of left field but did you just admit to dropping anal beads into your own posterior? I'm all for experimentation... but your anus should be exit only.

p.s. fucking during her period has no negative side effects except for the monster shower you should take afterward.