Serious virgin question.

XD I only know what people tell me. First time might suck in the sense that both me and my partner don't have any experience, but the fact that we've waited all this time for each other will make it good

[size=12]Well, it takes some getting used to after a while. Good sex depends on performance (which doesn't require much to do) as well as the size of the guy. Also, before any sex, foreplay is key. And everyone has a different feel in comparison with masturbation and the touch of another person, so it may/may not be better. And as with some people's experience, intercourse for the first time may be painful. It actually wasn't for me. I guess I'm a tough cookie. ^^; Good luck on finding your partner and with your beginning experiences. [/h]

Having Sex is a true bliss/Nirvana, for the 1st time, especially if your partner is someone you Love.

There are several categories you can go into for having sex.

Making Love and having sex for the sake of just fucking are two different things.
Ofcourse this is where you can go into all the Kiny and what not stuff for Sex...

I will say this though, its much better when you are "experience" and know how to please/pleasure the woman your with, than when your "new" and dont really know what to do, except to simply penetrate.

As you grow and experienced sex you'll know what I mean.

The sensation of another person and unexpected touches makes all the differnce, it's kinda like you trying to tickle yourself. You really can't cause you don't get the unexpected sensation.
However... I gotta say that nothing will ruin your first time like a lack of foreplay. My first time my girlfriend wasn't ready, not that she didn't want to have sex - but she said she wasn't ready for penatration. If we didn't continue foreplay to turn eachother on then that first time would of been ruined or atleast uncomfortable! You don't have to get crazy, the number 1 favorite foreplay of people is kissing.

This is the power of 2D dominating Virgins. Can the Ideal surpass the Real?

Don't force yourself to have sex just for the sake of losing your virginity if your not comfortable with it. I'm a virgin myself, but i can't imagine forcing yourself to have sex you don't want to be very pleasurable

Im... not a virgin. Is that good? I hope so...

People masturbate to images while imagining how it would feel in real life. After you've done it once then you can trace back and be confident that you know exactly how it felt and it would probably increase the pleasure. It depends on how or who you have sex with. If it is meaningless then it may not feel as great as you thought it would but if you have sex with a person that you are emotionally attached to it becomes a completely different experience. Atmosphere greatly affects sexual pleasure. The first time having sex probably involves a lot of fumbling and short bursts of energy. Not exactly the same as the porn actors and perfect hentai figures. I guess it really comes down to atmosphere and experience.

What's Wrong being a virgin
You don't have to rush your self
Someone will come to you
were still young don't rush it
enjoy your life...........

yeah what's wrong for being a virgin

I'm a virgin but I don't need to rush myself
:D :D peace

one thing to remember with the masturbation is that you're the one doing it... like it's your brain so it's possible to feel it out the way you like it and be done with it.

I've had a few dips with girls both extremely close to me and not so (ie 2 girls; one I've been friends with since I was 12-and became her boyfriend later on-and another fling girl). It took a VERY long time for any of them to send me over. Now there's certainly a mix of inexperience in there but I was surprised when I didn't come after like 10 seconds after having sex for the first time. Actually... I never did and couldn't walk for the next couple of days!

Mmm, I wouldn't worry too much about it. If she really likes you she'll understand, if not MOVE ON.

And I think it doesn't matter if you're a virgin or not. It just depends on the girl. You're still young. :) Just wait for the right moment...or you could hit up a party and do the deed with a drunken girl/woman. That sounds like a horrible first experience though so eh.

And hand jobs can go a long way. My boyfriend told me he felt like he was gonna die from feeling TOO GOOD when I use lube with a handjob. If you get your girlfriend to hold it then put her other hand (lubed) over the hand holding it, you'll get this suction feeling (or so he tells me). I guess it's good, although...ionno. He seemed like he was suffering from feeling too good when I was going too fast. xD It's pretty funny as the girl in the situation but as the guy it probably felt like an empty orgasm.

It is.


When he seems "like he's suffering", that's when it actually feels the best for him. At least it's that way with me.

Everyone's different when it comes to stimulation though, and what pleases one may do nothing for the next person. I don't get much out of getting head at all, whereas I find a well-done handjob almost as pleasurable as actual sex.

Aha, he told me he felt like he was enjoying it WAY too much and it was unbearable. Something about not being able to orgasm from it.

Yeah, it can feel like it's too intense for a while; but that exact part - that intense over-stimulation - is what's so good about it in the end. As long as he breathes right, and she keeps going without minding him, climaxing is no problem, even though he might not think so at first.
At least it's that way for me! As said, everyone's different in bed.

bro your not alone. It will be good. it will be worth it. hell I have'nt had any ether. don't be in a hurry cause it has reprocastions. hell what can I say. I just know that it will be great and I can't wait to find a girl how loves me and we do it.

reading all these replies makes me wanna hug you all!! REJOICE BROTHERS!!

YES! I'M NOT ALONE! WE AREN'T ALONE IN THIS!

I'm 20 and still a virgin, I'm just looking for the right guy. I don't mean the guy i marry, but at least so the next day i won't say "Oh my god, why did i sleep with that whore T.T" Or the playboy treatment where once you have sex with them and you don't hear from them and they avoid you. I've seen it happen to my friends :/.