edibleghost wrote...
I'll just throw in my little bit.
First off, this is the internet. Any ill will I have toward any person on this forum does not apply to real life.
I enjoy having my type of fun, ultimately it does not hurt anybody and probably never will. I don't feel I'm making this forum any worse because mixed in with some of my less intelligent posts are well thought out ones. I've also made a few threads that have thrived in a positive manner.
I think that this applies to many of the people that some view as the problem, certainly not all, but many. It is not my place to tell any of you what to do but I believe
everything would be easier if we all just chilled out, agree to disagree, be mature about it and take jokes as what they are.
The forum will never be perfect, people will always come and go.
I enjoy it for what it is. I hope you all can as well.
Sorry edible but I feel that you might have missed something there. First and foremost your positive threads are not solutions to your misconducts. Your mistakes are an entire different matter from your accomplishments. Whatever you did back then was forgiven because of time and apology not because you posted positive threads after. I commend you for changing but I still hope you'll continue posting wisely.
Second, your view of the internet is idealistic but not realistic. Believe it or not many people take it seriously, and to some even over the top. Many will say "This is just the internet" and ridicule those who cling to the net but they will never understand the reality for these interwebs people. However these people are still users and a part of our community so we should make this place better for them also not just for us.
Third, I agree that chaos would not ensue if everyone just chilled out. However it's also wrong to turn a blind eye to foolishness some people make. Can everybody just chill out while they get lost inside the forums because of thread spams? And then they start to lag because of the traffic those spams make? Can everybody just chill out when they get called an idiot? The internet is a global village filled with different cultures that cannot completely accept other people's actions.
Fourth, I completely agree that you should enjoy the forums for what it is. However that right does not only apply to you but to all the other users. If that is true then people must be careful of their actions which might prevent other people from enjoying the forums. For example: If a user gets ridiculed for making a mistake in a post does he enjoy it? Of course not, therefore those users who ridiculed him completely violated his right to enjoy the forums at that moment.
In conclusion instead of just leisurely posting in the forums it is my opinion that everyone should think twice before they post. Because not all people can just "chill out" therefore would you ignore that fact? When you know some people will flame about something you're about to do will you continue it just for the fun of it while knowing that the forums will be troubled by chaos later? I seriously believe that users must think first if the post that they will make will benefit the forum.