Ethil wrote...
She is much more likely to be able to hide her pregnacy if she gets an early abortion than if she give birth to the baby. "If there is people who will support her" is just another "what if" statement, there is just as much chance that she will get disowned by her parents or something like that.
And "the child is part of her body and abortion is the same as killing a part of yourself." is very true, and I am of the opinion that If I want to kill myself (or a part of myself) it is my choice to make. No one have the right to prevent me from commiting suicide if that's what I want. It's a part of Free Will.
And how can you say that if you have even the slightest bit of knowledge about human history? Humans have killed, murdered, raped, stolen and done a number of bad things for as long as we have existed. No one would do things like that if everyone thought it was moraly despicable. The values you speak of is something that is forced upon us, starting from when we are born, be it by laws, religion or w/e. Many countries proclaim their wars to be "for the greater good", but it's all just a matter of perspective, and there are probably very few wars that haven't suffered civil casualties just for the plain fun of killing. No, morals is a fight against human instincts.
But yea, I guess you're right, this is straying from my intended topic. Though I enjoyed this conversation =)
Well, as said futher back, the final say is the woman's and, to my dismay, emotions easily sway the heart, thus making regrettable decisions. If it is her will and she commits abortion, whether her reason is good or bad, I won't be there to stop the operation. I just wish people who already committed it live not to regret what they did.
And yes, I know human history and we did unspeakable acts in the past. We killed, we pillaged, we raped, we tortured, and many more, but are we proud of what we did? People who only reads history might say, "Our people won the war and we are right. We don't regret anything!", but for the people who fought in that war, raped war victims, killed civilians. I'm sure they are regretting what they did and I'm pretty sure they won't tell their grandchildren with a proud face that "I raped an asian preteen in the midst of war!"
Morals are important, ad though society and culture have different views on the topic, there are still taboos that we, as humans, won't dare cross without proper reason. Under such is abortion.
Ethil, this is my final post on this topic coz I get to sleep late and now I'm sick with a flu (achoo!). I enjoyed this debate too and you have good arguments. Thanks, but I won't be replying soon. To everyone else, my only point here is that abortion should be done with proper reason and not be done as freely as most pro-choice tells us. I shall live by this belief and die by it.
(Finally, some early sleep...)