Gays vs Lesbians

A couple of my Guy friends and I are super close. We hug, piggyback, and just do whatever we want in public. by no means are we "gay", but we don't care if thats what people think of us because we are confident about our sexuality, and our sexual preferences!

I dont see gay as "wrong", it may not be my cup of tea, but i never look down on someone because of what they like.

But I hate to see people Bash Gay men, Then talk about how hot lesbians kissing is...thats soooo annoying. "If your going to be a gay hater than do it 100%, don't make exceptions. Otherwise Except them both!"

I hope your not implying that the same doesn't go for heterosexual couples - that would be discriminatory.

Both are fine but I'd prefer Lesbians

would you fap better to lesbian sex or gay sex, it's just my opinion however.

Well, they are more common, so people are already used to it and tend not to overreact as much. But it also happens that some couples get way too confortable in public. And that could also receive some bad commentaries.
But it's a fact that most people tend to be more jiffy about gay couples in public.

Yeah think I came on a little too strong there from personal experience, but I still say it is pretty disgraceful.

as a guy i will say i have been in both gay and strait relationships

the reason lesbians are more socially accepted is due to the male population still predominantly governing things. If you love someone go for it

This is a subject that pisses me off in the fact that gay/lesbian marrages are illegal why? mostly because of the bible thumpers what ever happened to seperation of church and state, Honestly



homosexuality can be traced back as the roman empire possably even further

I fap better to gay sex. Lesbians are so boring. There is only so much they can do. Only thing that can save lesbians is double-headed dildos, if they don't even have that it isn't worth watching. *shrugs*

I'm a guy, and of course I find lesbians OMFG UBER HAWT SAUCE!!!

But as for gays, I'm simply disgusted by most of them... First of all, in my opinion, 2 guys making out is simply one of the most disgusting, if not THE most disgusting thing I can imagine, next to scat (arousal with shit. That's just my personal opinion on the matter.

Secondly, from the social point of view, how many lesbians do you see protesting, parading and cross-dressing in public, as most gays and trannies do?... I mean it's disturbing to see men dressing and acting like women to the scale that they practically disgrace the opposite sex.

Lesbians are just like any other normal women and just prefer other women as sex partners, while gays practically TRY to be women in everything they do, from the way they talk to the way they behave...which just sucks. Men should be men, and women should be women.

In a nutshell, as a personal taste I find lesbians hawt, gays outrageously disturbing and disgusting, while socially I have nothing against the gays that just prefer to fuck other men, while maintaining a normal mental pattern.

You do realize not all gays are flamers right? I would agree though, I hate flamers. I think we should round them up and put them in the lunatic asylums of the world, but that's nothing to do with being homosexual. That's their choice to act like that. It isn't fair to say that all gay men act like flamers.

Due to my upbringing, I accept both Lesbians and Gays, and I don't care who dates who, it's their choice. I'm female, and I don't discriminate against gay men or gay women.

However it is true that men are more likely to exile another guy just because of his sexual preference. Girls, however, can be the same to, but it's less noticed. If they think someone is a lesbian, they'll not talk to them if they are truly against lesbians and gays, but seriously, it's fine. Dating a guy is just like dating a girl; you have feelings for each other and sexual activity, but you obviously don't have the penis/vagina involved (unless you use a dildo for the women)

I remember a time in school when two girls were kissing and it went unnoticed, because people take girls kissing and hugging as a form of friendly contact, when it could actually be sexual stimulation or something, but when these two boys did it, they were excluded from the school, and someone brought up a petition to bring them back because the school was being homophobic and completely out of order.

Also, I think that men dislike gay men because they're either afraid that they are gay or will be hit on by a gay. Girls are a little more confident, and we try to hide something like our feelings, unless we are total freaking gossips.

And boys liking lesbians? Girls like guy on guy action, it's just how we work. We think it's hot to see the opposite sex going at it with their same sex partner. It just turns us on.

I think gay men should be treated fairer, and lesbian women to not be treated like they are sluts, because seriously, they are basically 'porn for men' even if they aren't porn stars

Sounds like a familiar story with the exception that parent roles are reversed. I've never told my dad, yet I get the distinct impression he knows I'm bisexual. I've never told my mother either, and I know she wouldn't accept it. Oh well, if it isn't religiously-bound and extremely conservative in nature, my mother doesn't support it. I couldn't be more opposite from her if I actually tried.

You contradict yourself and make yourself look like a fool. You should've just said you're attracted to lesbos but disgusted by homos.



Argument? What kind of argument is there to have about this? The only argument there is, is stating your own personal opinion and preferance (and why you're attracted to it). There is no right or wrong here. Keep religion out of this.


Understand that it's completely normal and I should adapt to it? What the hell are you talking about? I have to adapt to what's normal?
But then, wouldn't your view be wrong? Shouldn't homos adapt to heterosexuality first (since gays are the minority)?

Also, I don't have to respect anything. I can accept that it exists but not respect it (I don't respect nor disrespect the gay comunity btw. It just bothers me, simple as that).

I meant that men should be men, women should be women in terms of behaviour and thought... not in sexual preferance.

And I'm talking about all those gays and trannies who actually think they're "a woman's soul in a man's body", and parade and cross-dress and make complete idiots of themselves... you dont see that many lesbos doing that.

So, in short what I meant was that men and women should retain their native characteristics, such as men being more logical and strong, and women being more sensitive and caring.

I see now. That makes more sense.
Still, this is a bit :\
Feminist groups get all pissy from those kind of thoughts and stereotypes. And I agree with it to some extent. I mean, you can be logical, strong, caring and sensitive all at the same time. And what is wrong with men being sensitive and caring? Stereotypes, stereotypes.

ps: Sorry for sounding so hostile on my last post.

Notice that I said more which means both men and women share these characteristics, but generally (though not always) each gender has some of these qualities more developed than the other.

And of course, there's nothing wrong with men being sensitive and caring, it's actually a big plus :D

I myself am a big romantic, dreamy and sensitive guy :D

And don't worry about sounding hostile, I apreciate people who say their thoughts and opinions freely, even if they may be harsh...it's always better to be sincere. So, as long as it wasn't meant as an insult, it's no problem. :P

Well, I personally don't have a problem with homosexuals whethere they're lesbians or gays. (i'm a dude). But when people start to bring God and all that bull-spit into the conversation then that's when I start to get annoyed and want to kick ass. People are so hypocritical about crap like that, but I'm getting kinda off topic, I think it's fine. But I'll quote my dad; "If the homosexuals want to be as miserable as everyother married couple I say let them."

I don't agree with your reasoning.

I'd like someone to expand upon the "true nature of mankind" and explain its relevancy.