Mibuchiha-- I suppose my definition of religion is broader. Feel free to refer to my previous posts.
Fpod-- You've misunderstood jihad; jihad is actually supposed to be an inner (sometimes outer) struggle to understand and truly practice Islam. For example, a college kid who, after being bombarded with the media's images of Islam (which is definitely less than positive, I think you'll agree :D), might be like "Oh... these people also claim they're Muslim? In that case, I don't want to be one, it all seems so violent."
But, given time, if the person in this example realizes that suicide bombers and the like pervert religion, and are not really Muslim, and personally make peace with their religion after their struggle (their jihad), they can be at peace with themselves and the world.
Muslims are taught the story of the woman who would regularly throw trash on the prophet as he walked down a particular path.
The prophet never responded in kind to the woman's abuse. Instead, when she one day failed to attack him, he went to her home to inquire about her condition. It turned out she was sick, so he cleaned, cooked, and cared for her.
Here's a paragraph from a NY Times article I once bookmarked:
Imam Magid said he recently told worshipers at his mosque that during the Prophet Muhammad's life, a woman threw trash in his house, and other people called him crazy and spat in his face. "He responded by forgiving her and asking God to guide those who had wronged him," he said. "I told them every time a Muslim commits a suicide bombing, walks into a pizza place and kills innocent people, that person has offended their own prophet."