g-money wrote...
I always thought that (in the POV of a man) having a blowjob done to him was a service that meant intimacy and a willingness to go beyond the straight parameters of sex. On top of that, I also believed that guys on a general basis liked blowjobs, though I might be wrong. If done correctly and expertly, a limp dick could spring up in a matter of seconds or minutes. In my opinion, there's someting about having your phallus being sucked by the woman you love and filling up her mouth with your symbol of maleness and sperm strikes me highly erotic and gratifying, though in retrospect the woman really has the control here. Then the final weapon women use is when they look at up you when you're about to cum, either with the innocent stare or the seductive glare, and *fap*.
edit: any guys agree with me on this?
I agree with you about the service thing. Whenever I performed fellatio on my ex, it was more of a wanting to please him and 'serve' him if you will. The look you were talking about usually (in my case) was just to see his facial expression. I knew I was doing a good job if his head was bent back, eyes closed and mouth open.
It's the same with you guys, the louder you have us whimper/moan = the better the oral is.
I really don't think it's a big deal - and with what Cream said, I can't do 69 simply because if I'm touched anywhere down there I lose any focus I once had. So, doesn't always work.